SweetMarie963

Hi, I am fairly new to the scene but have learned alot about myself in a very short amount of time. I consider myself a bottom more than a submissive or slave. I'm coming out of a long and emotionally abusive marriage and at this point in my life do not feel ready to give myself so totally to another, unless it is in the context of a role play. I am valuing my newly found independence and the person I am with should respect my equality outside of the bedroom or dungeon.

I am finding I love impact play more than sensual or erotic play... give me a flogger over a feather any time! I need a top who likes to delve slowly in a scene with me and not just tie me and beat me hard right off the bat... someone who respects hard and soft limits, who understands and uses safe words and practices safe sex. Role play totally excites me, even if it's just a whisper in my ear in the morning that I've been bad and earned a spanking later in the day!

I am a single mom with school aged children and my play time revolves around their needs and when I am able to secure a sitter. Please do not expect me to be available to you 24/7, I am more of a play partner at this point than a round the clock submissive. My kids simply come first.

I am looking for someone in the Ocean County NJ area, age range 45-55. Please be a guy with a sense of humor, who doesn't take himself too seriously, who enjoys doing vanilla activities and has a life outside of BSDM. Be able to carry on a conversation as I do like to talk! I like sports too so I don't mind chatting box scores. I am a girly girl BBW.. lace and frills and hot pink nails. Oh yes, and shiny things! But I'm not particularly materialistic, I'm just as happy with dollar store bling as I am with the real stuff. Mostly you will find me in jeans and sneaks.

If you really want to know more the best way is to message me. Please note I do not cyber or that sort of thing unless we have established some sort of relationship. Call me old fashioned, but I like to get to know someone first. Thanks for taking the time to read all about me!