i want to play online with a woman (prefer long-haired brunettes, average weight or under, 30 - 45 BUT will make exceptions if it feels right - i am just drawn to brunettes for some reason, not sure why). 

my camera is broken so just chatting for now.  but i talk a good game i've been told and sometimes writing can be way more erotic than video and pictures - i open up A LOT more in chatting and writing!!!!  and being discreet is very important to me anyway - married with kids. 

led a very very vanilla sex life - husband and i had decent sex in the beginning but nothing crazy or kinky.  and i never did anything crazy or kinky with anyone.  now i am curious finally but he is not - discussed it many times - he has no interest.  i love him and wont leave him or cheat but at the same time i want to be a very bad dirty sexy girl (and honestly i know i can be!) and i just want a sexy woman to play with somehow.  just curious.

LOVE men (esp. tall, slightly muscular men with stubble and dark wavy hair - ha! but most men turn me on).....but long-haired sexy brunette women really intrigue me - such as megan fox, autumn riley, janessa brasil, and certain ones i saw on here - as examples.  just saying. 

i may be posting fantasies on here from time to time to "let it out" because i cant cheat and husband is so vanilla!  and one of my fantasies is to be with another woman....

wnat to be with another woman but husband is so vanilla he will never allow it or go for a threesome - having asked him several times about toys, food play, tying up, etc and his strong feelings against it there is NO WAY in hell that he will go for a threesome or let me be with another girl.  bummed. and very very very very very bored. 

some people tell me to leave him if we aren't connected sexually - with three LITTLE kids and my loving him as a friend that is VERY HARD to do but i am very beyond sexually frustrated to the point i cry sometimes.

some of the girls to the right in the ads on some of these pages are driving me crazy!  lol!

but....where are the men??

married and cant cheat but fantasies are many - a few being being with another girl, threesomes (any combo), spanking/canning, rape play and bondage. very turned on with nipple play and men with stubble, and long-haired brunette girls.

Just checking things out!