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I wonder when all the wanna be Doms will get it through there thick heads that the subs on collar me communicate with each other. I find it simply unconscionable when I am approached by a "pretender" and it shows almost instantly they are liars when presenting facts about oneself. Then has the nerve to say that I need to "update my clichés" after asking me if I am ready to earn his collar as a result of one conversation and letter on yahoo. *sigh* A real Dominant would take the time to learn about his prospective sub and not assume he has her respect and trust immediately as it is earned over a period of time. The gift of submission is freely given not taken and it should never be assumed it is yours until I make it so. |
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I am so very glad that I have an eye for detail. It would seem that those who thought they were dominant have disappeared into the wood work again. For now the online community is safe, or is it? Time will tell all. |
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I learned along time ago all that glitters is not gold. A very special Mistress gave me a set of questions to ask prospective Dominants while interviewing them. So far not one person has been able to get through to the end of them successfully. I Wonder why that is? Im finding that many are not who they claim to be and dont always have up to date photos of themselves available. If you are going to lie about yourself and who you would like others to think you are, beware, it will eventually catch up with you one way or another in the end.
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I was once told by a mentor of mine "Submissive is never Substandard." Never be a door mat and stand up for yourself when you feel is something is not quite right. In the last week or so I have been talking to with two prospective dominants and before we have even met the subject has turned in to one of a sexual nature. What happened to getting to know the submissive and learning what makes her tick and her desire to please before taking things that direction before she is ready?Submission is a gift and it is earned not taken, just as respect is earned and not taken. NO MASTE! If you don't respect me and my gift now, you never will and it is time for you to move on. |
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Its too bad that some people can not take honesty and put it to good use. Instead they have to turn it into anger. I had a Dom call me a "fatty" and was told to "get a personality" when I didnt respond to a email he had sent the way he felt it should have been responded to. I laughed and told him thank you, Wannabe. The user is now blocked from contacting me again. Who needs crap like that? Not I. NEXT! |
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Greetings All:
It has been sometime since my last entry. I have been busy with school and life. Finals were last week and I did well. Amazingly enough as I have had a six year break.
However, some sad news came my way also. My daughters father passed away three weeks ago and we are in the process of grieving. 
Slowly things are starting to turn the corner and life is getting back to normal.
I wish everyone a pleasant holiday season, whatever your faith may be and that you find peace. |
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Do Masters or Owners know that girls talk amoung themselves and find out many things that are not revealed to us first hand? Duh!
Please if you wish to contact me lets be up front and honest about what is going on in your world before you intend to jump into mine.
Lying about your intentions catches up with you sooner or later. Telling the truth is much easier, as you dont have to remember what lies you told and to whom. |
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I have to laugh when someone sends me a note like this: Congratulations. Dumbest profile ever. And you have the nerve to bring up that half-assed education? Ridiculous...
then blocks thier email so that I cant properly thank them. Now thats what I call ridiculos. |
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**Note to self**
Need to make sure that if prospective Dominant is married to arrange to meet his significant other before in engaging in play.
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I am not a math wizard, but one can add. Age does not mean that there is a plethera of experince behind it. Most especialy when one is 48 and has claimed to have collared two subs one for 15 years and the other for 17 years. I did the math it just doesnt add up. NEXT! |
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It is interesting how ones life has many areas that tend to criss cross into each other. I have spoken with some individuals that have been present in my "other life" without realizing that they too share the common thread of domination and submission. There are more things out there that will remain invisable until one learns to open her eyes to see them.  |
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When one has time she reads the journals of others and has learned much. Recently i came upon a entry that struck my very core.
The link from one soul to another that bridges any distance and pulls us together- that makes something more lasting than a few rolls in the hay... When you can look into the eyes of another and feel this connection that bridges everything, that travels back to the day you were born, and before that... that you KNOW is the connection you were born for, and that you were brought here to experience... THAT is what it is about. The submission is GREAT, but it is a PART of life, not ALL of it. Without love, where are we?
Its simply put and beautiful. Thank you Master Stonewall for your wonderful insight. i just wish there were more like you around as there seems to be so many wannabe doms around every corner these days.
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I wonder with all those who are stoping by to take a look see at one's profile, why so many dont send a greeting. Now thats Intresting. |
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I have not been a member long and have already connected with some wondeful local members of the BDSM community. I had to get lost to find my way home it seems. Thank you all for your wonderful notes of welcome. Its great to be home.
My best always, Elle |
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