**Updated**

First off, let me begin by saying that just because I am a submissive does not mean I do not wish to or deserve to be treated with respect.. and that includes respecting what I'm looking for. So, if you read the following and then email me about doing something I clearly express as a limit, you can expect that I will ignore your email.


I am a primarily submissive bi female Switch. I have just started to discover and explore my interest in Topping, but am truly a submissive at heart. Because I am just starting to explore Topping, I am not looking for anyone to sub to me. I am first and foremost submissive... But I will warn that I can be a Brat on occasion.


Right now, I am still very new to the lifestyle, and sorting out my tastes and desires. I am looking for friendships, as well as potential play partners. **Because I am also exploring my Topping side, I am looking to make friends with other Tops/Doms/Dommes.**

I am married, and have a D/s relationship with my husband, but have the freedom to seek out play partners so that I can explore the many nuances of the lifestyle. **I will warn though, that due to being a Wife and Mom, it is often very difficult for me to arrange play dates.. this does not make me a tease or a liar, it simply means that my Life always comes first, and often gets in the way.**

I am not looking to enter into anything long term, and my 1st priority is my core relationship with my husband. So those looking for a 24/7, thanks for reading, and please move on. I AM NOT in search of a 24/7 relationship. Thank you.

Also, if you are Married, and your spouse is either unaware of your involvement in the lifestyle, or uninterested in it, please do not contact me... I have very strong feelings about the whole "what they don't know can't hurt them" mentality.

One last thing.. I am a BBW, so if that is something that does not appeal to you, thanks for reading and I wish you luck in your search.

As an added note - If you are in search of a sub to do humiliation or degradation with, please keep looking... Your kink is not my kink.. Thanks!