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Female Submissive, 27
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Female Switch, 40, Portand, Oregon
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Male Submissive, 54, Fernandina Beach, Florida
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About SweetCntryGrl
OWNED AND INACTIVE "I am not afraid.. of the person that I am today.." -Staind So Far Away
Foremost, if you do not have a picture to view, or one attached to you message, please move on. In all fairness, I provide something for your eyes, please give me something in return to put a face to who I am talking to. Secondly, yes, my profile is long and tedious. Have the respect to read it all. It will most likely save us all time, in the end. Thank you :) ABOUT ME: Divorced, 2 kids, Don't want more, Love the Country and everything about it.. My dream is to someday live on a hobby farm with all the freedom that comes with it :) My interests are vast and varied. I can enjoy and have fun doing most anything, within limit. I AM a BBW... love it or leave it. I am not hiding anything and am honest to a fault. Please, feel free to ask questions because I am sure I have not remembered everything relevant. I am slowly feeling around for my boundaries... discovering my submissive side along the way. Breaking fear barriers... So Please be gentle. I have a sweet spot for country boys and young soldiers (Army Uniforms drive me crazy... yummy) we should do our duty to honor those who fight for our freedom to play.. I was recently asked how I view myself as a submissive.. property, pet.. object? The only way I could answer was that I have not had the chance to find my place yet, but I feel that it is more of a cross between property, pet and "babygirl." Objectification is very depressing to me. I need to feel special and that my Dom/Master/Owner is proud. My view on sub vs. slave http://www.teramis.com/kink/subvslave.htm Do I work? Yes, I work 24 hours a day. Why? Because I am a Mom. I am an alarm clock, a chef, a housekeeper, a teacher, a nurse, a handyman, a referee, a security officer, a photographer, a counselor, a beautician, a chauffeur, an ATM, a jungle gym & a comforter. I don't get holiday pay, sick pay, or days off. I work through the DAY & NIGHT.. I am on call at ALL hours and I love it... Does that mean I don't have time for You? No! I have the opinion that D/s is a lifestyle.. BDSM is play. They are two distinctly different concepts. I am not masochist.. a little pain, yes please.. I have kinks too. To the right person, I am very submissive.. but I have fire in my blood as well (unfortunately, putting out the fire of a true Saggitarrius doesnt happen). As I discover this side of myself, I often wonder if to some extent I am a switch.. but I guarantee that for the most part I am a natural submissive. Yes, it says I am willing to relocate.. within reason. I am far from a city girl, and thrive where it is lush and green. I will not instantly pack up and move.. the last thing my children need is to be stuck in some place where I know no one and have no way "home," should things go wrong or not work out. ABOUT YOU: Please, no one that is married, has a girlfriend, or any significant other. This defeats the purpose of finging that One.. for a RL/LTR relationship. I am unsure of exactly what I am looking for. My first thoughts are a Dom male.. long term, if I find the right one. I have curiosities about couples and women. My rule is that I can’t say no until I try it, but I may not be comfortable under command of another woman or sharing a man. I am most interested in a sensual, loving, compassionate Daddy/Dom.. not a TPE, cruel, sadistic Master. I am D/D free and expect the same from any potential Dom or play partner(s). Non-smoker and social drinker. I am not opposed to smokers, but my preference would be other non-smokers. I do not wish to come off as shallow, but I have my preferences. Attraction in a sexual world is important as we all know. First of all, age: late 20's to early 40's. Men: 5'8"-6'4" average build. Women: average build (don’t want to worry I will break you, but please no one larger than me.. sorry ladies, just my preference. I believe you are all beautiful.) I am not opposed to interacial relations or encounters.. That being said, though, I have no interest in black women and even with the abundance of black men in the lifestyle, I have not braved a try. I will test the waters on my own time, so please dont push me.
MY RULES AND IMPORTANT INFORMATION: MY FAMILY IS OFF-LIMITS FOR PLAY OR RECRUITING. NO, I will not try to bring my SISTERS, MOTHER or CHILDREN into this lifestyle, so DONT ASK. I WILL NOT show any aspect of this lifestyle in front of them, either. DO NOT ask me to show myself or behave in their presence. I WILL end our time IMMEDIATELY. Thank you for your respect in these areas. Even though I'm a submissive, please understand that I will not submit to you just "because" you're a Dom. I have to trust and respect you before I will submit. Be aware that if you send an email or approach me like I'm already your sub, that is a definite TURN OFF. Also, intelligence is very important to me in a Dom or friend, so please don't email me if you don't know how to form an understandable sentence or if you're unable to use punctuation and spell correctly for the most part. In cases like these listed above, do not be surprised if I choose not to respond. Does that mean that I dont use the annoying abreviations? No! LOL (the use of smileys and LOL's are abundant in my corrospondances) I am submissive AND I am a strong, independent woman and I will not submit until I have a level of trust with you. Do NOT treat me like a doormat. If you ask me to try something with you and I say no, it MEANS no. Don't push me it will just cause me to drift away. I am not the type that enjoys name calling like whore, slut, cumslut, cunt.. theses are depressing words to me. I am a "babygirl" to a certain extent.. would you call your child those names? My absolute HARD LIMITS include: piss, shit, vomit, blood, cutting, piercing, branding, breaking bones or body parts, animals, anyone who wants to play without their spouse/significant other's consent and anything illegal. I might mention too, that as much as I like RECEIVING a certain level of pain, me hurting others is a turn OFF, so please don't ask me to hit YOU. As I am still learning, this list might grow. Online Domination, I have discovered, is too difficult to manage in my current living situation. Please, don't ask. It also does not give me the relief or satisfaction I desire. My Dom will be someone that is as much of a giver than a receiver as I am. I enjoy giving pleasure to my Dom, but compassion, understanding, and trust are always a necessity. I know there are 'givers" out there in the community, versus selfish men only out to find their own gratification. To push me beyond my abilities or to be trying on my health, will not win my trust, respect, or loyalty. The greatest gift a sub can give is her life... a true Dom/Master understands that. If we chose to chat beyond a few quips.. please be prepared to show me how we will benefit each others lives. I am not looking for a young, naive, pre-Dom that works at Walmart and lives with their mother. As much as I understand the difficulties of the economy, finding good jobs, affording your own home, etc... I could walk around the street and find a nice vanilla boyfriend. As a sub, I wish you to be more intelligent, versed in the ways of the world and set in life. How is One to take responsibility for the life of another being if they are unable to take care of themselves first? |
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I must be easily amused... More than once I have been asked if the hat I wear in one of my pictures is a "ten gallon hat." If one knew what that was, I would assume they wouldnt have to ask, now would they? Here is a description of what one is:
"A ten gallon hat is often thought to be large enough to hold ten gallons of water. This is not true (unless you have an exceptionally large head). The gallon in "ten gallon hat" derives from the Spanish galón meaning braid. So a ten-gallon hat is a hat with a braiding around the brim. A ten-gallon hat holds 3/4 gallon or 3 quarts." |
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Most thoughtful message received today... "are you as slutty as you look?" .. .. .. Really?
Held a nice little conversation today, though, and this is something that crossed my mind: "I often read on here how they dont understand why these girls run from them and then call them fakes (not excluding the ones that really ARE fakes.) I have been very disappointed, frustrated, and overwhelmed with the insanity I have found in my very short time discovering and exploring this whole new world. If having a mind, an opinion, a little bit of intelligence, and a real life is not considered being submissive (yes, I have been told these things a few times LOL).. then so be it. I am still who I am.. with or without the concepts or terms put upon me." |
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---"Expect nothing, prepare for anything"---
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I spent a couple hours this morning working on a lengthy journal entry from the heart about the intelligence of people on this site.. but found myself lacking by not copying my writing often and lost the whole thing just before saving it. :( I hope I can get the inspiration back at some point to write something as indept again.
In the meantime, I was reading profiles and journals, as usual.. Why is it that there is only a rare few Dominants that actually get it? Here is most of a quoted profile (minus the personal details):
"Submission is a gift that Must be Cherished, Loved, Honored and Protected. Trust is earned not a given. Knowing each others limits and perhaps pushing them a little bit every now and then. I have been on this site for some time now. For the most part it is a joke. so many fakes and scams but there are a few real people on here so I keep coming back in hopes of actually finding the one..." "...Physical attraction is important but more important is the connection between 2 hearts. 2 hearts 1 soul together forever may be a dream but it is one that I hold onto. If you do to message me and lets see where the journey takes us."
Well spoken, friend. |
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Yet again posting clips I saw on other profiles/journals:
Daddys Lil Girl
"I'm impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best." - Marilyn Monroe |
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LOL.. and paranoia set in today.. I had to go look at my OWN profile to see if someone hacked it because of how many I saw in the "who's viewing me?" list!! LOL
Please enjoy and ponder who I am and who I might be by reading my insane profile.. I think I am taking a break from seeking for now to focus on any current friends and relations I have made thus far.
And why is it that, when this sort of decision is made, I suddenly recieve an abundance of messages from people that seem intelligent and actually put thought into what they wrote? Yes, my profile is designed to weed out the buggers that are here for whatever crazy reason... but why did it take this long for some to notice? LOL I guess I may never know... |
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I seem to find many amusing quips in my profile/journal reading wanderings on this site:
"I notice a lot of Doms like to take pictures of their motorcycle. It is one thing to have a pic taken with a motorcycle, but just a pic of the motorcycle seems to lack something. Maybe submissives need to take pics of their scooters." |
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I was gracing through some profiles that popped up on the home page today and ran across this from a Dom (I was fool enough to copy it, but forgot to remember who it was to post it as a quote.. I appologize to the writer). I found this humorously amusing :) I hope you do too!!
General rules:
Floggers are not to be used to sweep the floor
don't yell "fetch" and throw the ball gag
you cannot lay me off due to the recession
nipple clamps are not to be used to hold the cape of your halloween costume
penis shaped cup cakes are not a good idea for the church bake sale
claiming to be an alien and subject to intergalactic immunity does not work
garter belts are not protected exotic sea creatures
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Always see journal entries.. but wasnt sure how it worked. Finally figured it out LOL So here is a quick drop of a Hi... |
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