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Female Switch, 40, Portand, Oregon
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About SweetCaleigh
i am a woman
who is yearning to bring
my submissive thoughts to practice
with a thoughtful,
caring, and loving Dominant.
A Dominant who is
willing to accept me.
All i can ask and hope for
is that you are sincere
and looking for
a long term D/s relationship with boundries and safety
being very important
to both.
i am ready to learn and give all that I have to the one i
seek.
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i have decided that i should tell You more of what i am looking for so there is no guessing games or any assumptions.
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i am truly not into wasting my time or anyone's time for that matter, but for some reason some people like to rush into things faster on-line rather than what is truly realistic in Real Life. i don't feel a very important decision to be collared should be done within 2 - 3 weeks of knowing one another.
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i am looking for a Master/Dom who is looking for submissive/slave that wants to take the time and learn from one another of what our likes and dislikes are and if we are a true match for each other. It's a process that needs to be built on absolute trust and communication.
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i am looking for a strict yet very loving and affectionate Master. He is also firm, but very caring. He is also a good teacher and enjoys teaching His submissive and wants to see her succeed. He is patient and compassionate. He is consistent and means what He says and says what He means.
He will help me become the best submissive/slave i can be for Him. He will discipline me when needed, but still hold me in His arms after the punishment and say that He loves me or deeply cares for me.
i am not very good with pain.
A punishment spanking is something i do not relish in, but i like the bond it can create between the two. There is something about it that feels warm inside for the both of us.
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i can't relocate at this time, at least for the next three years. i am hoping to find someone that is more local, or if He is not, if He is able to travel to me for the time being. i also can make arrangements to visit when i can, if it's far away, but it will be difficult.
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i am writing all this to help the person that is interested in my profile to get a better understanding of where i am coming from so He will not have to waste His time having to find out on His own through a long chat. Don't get me wrong.. i love to chat, but if He is looking for something in particular and i am not that person i don't want to stand in His way.
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One other thing is i am not willing to have a relationship with a married Man. i will chat with Him, but beyond that i will not have any kind of sexual relationship with You.
Thank You for reading. :)
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~ TRUST & HONESTY ~ Does it even exist anymore? |
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i am looking for a connection... a connection where all that matters is my Master, and all that matters to Him is that i am His slave. The focus would be on each other... always.
Is that asking for a lot?
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i apologize to those who may have wondered where i have been. i was gone for a few days and have done a lot of soul searching.
i need to make changes in my life and i have made the decision it's going to happen. It has to happen.
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i don't know who it is, but someone is playing games with me and i don't like it. The person would come up as someone from a totally different state far away, would chat with me, or message me several times then close their profile the next day. i don't think it's funny and i think who ever is doing it must be having a blast. i am asking you to please STOP the crap because it's people like you that makes wanting to be here very difficult. It's creating confusion and my trust level is becoming more and more limited. Just STOP! |
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i wonder what it takes for any Dom to understand truly what kind of person i really am.
i am a woman full of passion and love, and willingness to give my all and so eager to please. i am for the Dom who seeks loyalty, commitment, honesty, integrity, life and spunk from His sub/slave.
i am the child looking for her Daddy, to take care of her, nuturer her, feed her His love, discipline her and correct her.
i am the slut who craves her Master's cum to feed her and use her whenever He chooses to.
i will be His everything. Slave/submissive/partner/lover/friend.
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Life can be so difficult at times, but i am keeping my head above water and still alive! LOL! i have met and made friends in the past few months, but i am still looking for that "One". i have faith. |
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Finding a match has not been an easy task, but i do believe He will find me. i know He is out there and i feel it. It's just finding the right door along that long narrow hallway of life. He will be there with open arms to welcome me into His world, which will become OUR world eventually.
i yearn to be at His feet and to offer myself and my submission to Him. i yearn to be there for HIM in all ways. To please Him, to be His completely, body, soul and mind.
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And what's behind Door number 1? |
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They say submissiveness is a "Gift". i do believe that only because in today's society it is rare to have a woman to be able to give of herself with her own free will to another.
i also believe that a submissive/slave who has a Master/Dom that will care for her unconditionally, is compassionate, kind and loving and see's that she is safe is also a "very special gift". So few and far between is there a Master or a Dom that is willing to put in the work, time and effort to help make the relationship work. So few Masters/Doms are able to communicate with His sub/slave and take the time to understand her.
The "Gift" of Dominance & submission is only worthy to those who are willing to give up themselves for each other and are willing to sacrifice to each other into becoming one unit forever. |
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submission has nothing to do with what you are expecting to get -
- only with what you are expecting to give -
which is everything.
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Last Saturday i had the opportunity to meet with a Master and His slave for the day. They are wonderful people and i am honored they took the time to come and visit me as a friend. i enjoyed learning from the both of them and thier sense of humor was delightful. It is a time i won't forget to soon. i only hope i can meet more people like them and develop a long lasting friendship. They are truly special. Thank both of you for a memorable time.  |
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How lucky i am to find such kind and helpful people on this website. Though my search is not easy, i seem to find the right people who are honest with their words and help guide me in the right direction. Thank you all for being so kind.  |
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Ah yes, spring is in the air and now the wannabes are coming out of the woodwork. If you are reading this journal, don't stop here to see if you can pull me into your web, just pass right by me, because you are getting no where with me. In fact, just leave the Collarme site, because you are not welcomed. People who are true to this Lifestyle and are seriously interested are only welcomed here.  |
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Why are some people just plain RUDE. Where do the think it gets them, except discusted looks from others and the others deciding that they don't want to associate with them. i guess rude people enjoy being isolated. That's what i see. |
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i haven't written in a while, and i just feel the need to say how much i value the friendships i have made on collarme and i think Y/you all know who Y/you are. :) All of you have a special place in my heart and i enjoy all the time you spend with me sharing your thoughts, your wisdom and your caring words. You all mean a lot to me and i hope to keep the friendships long lasting. Love You. |
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At this time i am no longer going to be looking. Sometimes taking a break is a good thing to do. i apologise to those who are still interested in me. i still would like to chat with You and just not think about meeting anyone at this point. Believe me this won't be forever, i just need to clear my brain. i understand if You need to move on. i am not going anywhere, but i won't be on as much as i used to. Thank You for Your understanding. |
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i am reposting a quote i posted back in October and feel that i need to mention it once again. What baffles me the most is there are many Doms that truly don't know how to control their anger and it's so sad, because they miss out on a lot.
"Why is it that some Doms that are suppost to have so much control, but their anger so easily risen when a human mistake has been made. i understand if that mistake has been made more than once and the submissive doesn't try to work on it, but when the mistake is solved i would hope all would be forgotten, in some cases this is not what happens and all is lost for such petty resentment." |
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i am a passionate, loving woman/slave/submissive and i only want to share this with One that wants to truly understand me. One who really wants to take the time and learn what kind of person i truly am. i am not perfect by any means. i make my mistakes and i try hard to make up for them through consequences and striving hard to be the best i can be. What i don't understand is why does it seem to be my fault if the other makes the mistake and i still have to endure the consequences? Is that what being a slave is all about? |
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Why is it that some people are such cowards? Using a slave or sub is one thing, but to use her/him once and throw them to the dust after seems cruel. It seems it's so much of a game. One wins and the other loses, but does the winner truly win if he/she is a loser in the first place? |
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"Acceptance of others, their looks, their behaviors, their beliefs, bring you an inner peace and tranquility -- instead of anger and resentment"
Why is it that some Doms that are suppost to have so much control, but their anger so easily risen when a human mistake has been made. i understand if that mistake has been made more than once and the submissive doesn't try to work on it, but when the mistake is solved i would hope all would be forgotten, in some cases this is not what happens and all is lost for such petty resentment.
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It's ironic how things change so quickly and to the worst. i feel i am no longer under consideration. i see that the so-called-dom still comes to this site, but no longer reads my messages to him or sends me any messages in return. i have no clue what happened. i am not sure if it was me.. or him just deciding he no longer wants me as a slave and is to much of a coward to come to me and talk to me about it.
It seems as though people forget there is a true person on the other side of the screen that has real feelings.. and feelings can get either very hurt or very happy. In this case... they are very hurt. |
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At this time i am no longer looking. i believe i have found the One that i can make very happy as He already makes me so very happy. It has been a long road, but i think this is the end and to a brighter future for B/both of U/us. Please respect the fact that i am taken. If You wish to chat that would be great. Otherwise i wish You luck on your journey to find the one for You. |
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Trust is so ultimate in a relationship. Even more-so on-line, because you have nothing to go by except the words on the screen and your intuition. Unfortunately our intuition can trick us into thinking that the person is what he really says he is then find out he isn't until it's too late and the trust is broken and all involved suffer. i only hope i may find One i can truly trust, no matter what. |
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Giving helps the giver as much as those to whom the gift goes. It broadens the vision, and enlarges life. It cultivates love, sympathy, and kindness. It develops nobility of character, and generosity of conduct. - unknown |
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The butterfly counts not the months but moments, and has time enough.
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"I don't know what your destiny will be, but one thing I know. The only ones among you who will be truly happy are those who have sought and found how to serve."
-- Albert Schweitzer
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"Foolish, ignorant people indulge in careless lives, whereas a clever man guards his attention as his most prized possession."
-Buddha |
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