sweetbutstubborn

Female Submissive, 27

Female Switch, 40, Portand, Oregon

Male Submissive, 54, Fernandina Beach, Florida

Something I've noticed is that people forget the art of conversation. Even in role play. Which seems silly as it is typing it is all conversation.  What I mean is, people are so focused on just coming in and pulling down their pants. Then they are shocked when they get a board reaction. Your cock is not magic. It takes more than that to get excited. Actually take some time to talk to the person.  They'd get a much better reaction actually taking some time to flirt, tell the other person what they're going to do to them. Honestly role plays are more fun when you're actually turned on and that means more than just drop pants and insert.

Ways to start a role play: - PM and ask if I want to role play, ensure we have the same interests and limits and we're both into the same story line. This gets consent and ensures both parties enjoy themselves. Way's to not start a role play: -Come into a PM and slam me into a wall, force me to my knees, (insert other random sexual action here). This basically tells me you're selfish and do not care whether I have a good time or not, which means you are not worth playing with. Being a sub, does not mean I am submissive to everyone, it means I am submissive to only those I choose. I won't go along with any role play, where you haven't specifically asked me if I want to play.

Please don't send me stories. I like role play, if I wanted stories, I'd go read a book.

I know people don't read these things, or at least the people who would benefit the most from these posts don't read these things, but I can try. No I don't cam, not only are there plenty of girls you can pay out there to cam with you if you're into it, but it also boils down to this: I don't trust you. There have been so many hacks of sights like Ashley Maddison, not to mention the endless amount of men who like to 'share' private picture and messages without the senders permission that it is simply not worth taking the chance. I like my nice quiet private life and I don't need images being linking me to this site. Yes I'm single, but that doesn't change my desire for privacy. Want a cam girl, go pay of one.

I'm not going to share with you my past sexual experiences. For three reasons, firstly a lot of guys on here seem to be collecting stories and want intimate details just to disappear. Secondly my past relationships are private. I wouldn't appreciate an ex talking about our exploits and they deserve the same courtesy in return and thirdly it gets really tedious. Everyone asks the same questions, after a while it gets boring. You can ask me what I'm into or what I enjoy but past exploits really have nothing to do with future ones.

Why do guys keep asking me where I live? Why does it matter? I'm not meeting anyone at the moment. For the record I  know why they keep asking, I'm just not interested in sharing because I'm not here to meet.

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