SWCoupleseeking

Greetings,

We are a Master/slave couple located in the Southwest. We are seeking to meet and get to know a bi(or bi-curious)fem sub/slave and ultimately form a permanent, 24/7 M/s/s relationaship.  We are not seeking someone to move in immediately. Below is the list of criteria desired and what we have to offer.

*Please note - While the ultimate choice is mine, I realize that if I am crafting an M/s/s relationship that is going to be beneficial for everyone, I must understand and listen to ally's preferences as well. Because of this, in each segment, her preferences are stated below mine.

Also, while we have noted physical preferences (age, appearance, etc.), it is the person inside not the look outside that is most important.

 

AGE:

Cavalier: 35-55, others depending on outstanding qualities.

ally: 35-46, others depending on maturity.


HAIR:

Cavalier: Long. Red (preferred), auburn, blonde, brown, black, others. (This refers to "natural" hair color whether or not
that is the color that she currently wears.

ally: Any style, any length, any color, however, I do like red too!



SKIN:

Cavalier: Pale, un-tanned preferred and shaved in all the
appropriate (to my definition!) areas.

ally: Pale is good. I am not fond of fake-n-bake or overly tanned
skin. Freckles are pretty. :)


SEXUALITY:

Cavalier: Bi-sexual, bi-curious, or as ally calls herself;
"hetero-flexible". She will be used in every conceivable way that a man and woman can possibly use a woman. Intense, multiple orgasms are the rule. If by chance she has not had such experiences, she will be taught and trained. Her beauty and sexuality will be maximized and cultivated for her to become the finest of sex slaves.

ally: Ditto- but also aside from the sexuality itself, intimacy in
other ways, i.e. snuggling, cuddling, hand-holding, hugging, all of that stuff is a necessity in my book. Oh ? and the desire to watch chick flicks while wearing sweats and fuzzy slippers with a box of tissues, a blankee, and some ice cream with your slave sister would be a definite plus!!!


LIFESTYLE ORIENTATION:

Cavalier: Slavery (total and complete ownership) or slave-minded moving to slavery. All aspects of the M/s D/s (and at times BDSM) lifestyle will be explored from personal and social training to bondage to edge play. Limits (which are defined by ME) and boundaries will be determined, pushed, and expanded. While I always have the best interest of my property in mind and at heart, I will continually push my slaves forward on a path of personal growth and development.

ally: I don't necessarily prefer a woman who is overly
submissive, but more so one who will surrender fully to my owner,
making his needs her primary focus at all times. I don't care if she is submissive to the mailman, but I hope that she always maintains her position of surrender to my owner and to whomever he chooses.

BODY TYPE:

Cavalier: Tall, voluptuous, preferred. BBW is fine. Large breasts a big plus (Yeah, I'm a man as well as a Master?deal with it!! LOL). All others considered.

ally: Larger women are especially beautiful to me.


HEALTH:

Cavalier: D & D free, non-smoker or willing to quit permanently. General good physical and mental health expected. Regarding emotional health; everyone has some emotional baggage. People don't live in this life for very long with out picking up some. However, if ALL of her baggage goes with her everywhere, every time she travels (even on
short trips to the corner 7/11!), that is not acceptable or healthy.

We are all working to overcome certain individual issues. We will help her (as she will undoubtedly assist us) to work through those things as long as she are putting forth her best effort in overcoming these challenges the best that she can.

ally: Ditto! Oh ? and as far as the excess baggage goes, its
all okay unless it becomes "drama central" or significantly
detracts from the ability to serve Master.


EXPERIENCE:

Cavalier: All will be considered. A positive attitude toward
service, growth, and change as defined by me as well as the desire to be trained and serve based upon my preferences are of paramount importance.

ally: I think I would prefer someone with less experience ? I
find that those who have been trained before often have a more difficult time unlearning those ways and often keep referring to them when confronted with a challenge.. i.e. "Well when Master X owned me, I didn't do it that way ? I did it this way."


DISTANCE:

Cavalier: Local or willing and able to travel and willing to
eventually relocate.

ally: Ditto. The ability to travel must be frequent if not local.


FINANCES:

Cavalier: Must not be seeking a financial bail-out or a knight in
shining armor to rescue her from debt. Financial security is a plus, employment required. Once collared/surrendered, all finances are governed by me and administered for the good of all. She must be willing to surrender that aspect of her life. Financial provisions will be made, however, in the event of release.

ally: Agreed.


CHILDREN:

Cavalier: None preferred. Others, depending upon circumstances and similar child rearing attitudes, will be considered.

ally: None unless they are in the custody of another parent or are grown.


RELIGION:

Cavalier: I follow the Christian Religion (not any particular
denomination), I also actively study and practice the Kabbalah.

ally: Any religion that is opposed to my own would be difficult to deal with when forging a harmonious relationship. I am not overly religious, however, my renewed convictions as a Christian are strong and I'm not looking for someone to convert me on to any other path.


INTELLIGENCE:

Cavalier: Well read and conversant on a variety of subjects and a desire to learn more.

ally: Ditto.


SENSE OF HUMOR:

Cavalier: The ability to find the humor and joy in life's
adventure

ally: An absolute requirement if she's going to be owned by my Master. *grin*


LOYALTY:

Cavalier: Absolute, to both myself and ally as we will be loyal to her.

ally: Ditto


DEVOTION:

Cavalier: Absolute, to both myself and ally as we will be devoted to her.

ally: Ditto


HONESTY:

Cavalier: It is said that 99% honesty is 100% dishonesty. Be 100% honest.

ally: There is only one perfect being and we aren't it.
Everyone lies to some degree. I've told sick friends that they look fantastic when they look like hell. I've played hooky from work, etc. Deceit, however, is unacceptable and when it comes to an M/s relationship, honesty is absolutely paramount. There are no secrets.


COMMUNICATION:

Cavalier: This is the bedrock foundation upon which solid
relationships are built. It is even more important in a relationship such as the one that I am crafting. There will be no "never mind it's not important, I'll just go sit in the corner" positions taken.
If something generates an emotion (especially a negative one) it is
too important NOT talk about. We often cannot help how we react to
certain situations. Having a particular reaction doesn't
automatically mean we want to react that way. The best way to handle
such issues is to get them out in the open and let everyone involved
understand and help work toward a solution.

I will say this right now and you can take it to the bank: There will
be occasional jealousy issues that come up. It doesn't mean that
anyone is flawed or doesn't belong or that the relationship
itself is a mistake. It simply means we are human beings that have to
deal with our own primal instincts as well as some pretty messed up
societal programming. Through honest and sincere communication, these
issues well be dealt with successfully, placed in their proper
perspective and actually become opportunities to strengthen the
individual relationships as well as the relationship as a whole. As
long as each pair in the relationship's primary focus is the
happiness and well being of the third partner, the probability of the
relationship succeeding rises dramatically.

ally: Amen, Master.


BODY MODIFICATIONS:

Cavalier: Existing tattoos, piercings, etc, are acceptable, but I
reserve the right to add, remove, modify, etc. any or all at my
discretion. After a successful relationship period is completed
(perhaps as long as 5 or more years) I will affix my permanent mark
(tattoo, brand, cutting, etc.) on her body. It will most likely be a
design which will be created by ally since she is the most incredible
graphic artist.

ally: Thank you, Master.


POSITION:

Cavalier: The slave chosen will become a part of our family. She is
not here to be a replacement for anyone or to contribute in areas of
anyone's shortcomings. Myself, ally and whomever I decide upon
are all vitally important to create the life that I envision. I am
looking to add rather than subtract or replace.

Yes, ally will have a great input as to my final selection. First
and foremost, this person will be MY SLAVE, however, this person is
also to share everything with us, serve me beside ally, be our
friend, lover, playmate, and life partner. There is an intimacy to be
shared and enjoyed that is beyond description. From quiet times with
both girls sitting at my feet and listening to music to cuddling
while watching a movie - whether we are enjoying a night on the town
(where we make others wonder what could possible make 3 people so
ecstatically happy) or the most intensely emotionally and physically
draining intimacy possible - Together we will fashion something
wonderful; something greater than the sum of the persons involved.

Her duties will be the same as ally's. They include but are not
limited to the following: service to me (along side ally) in any
fashion that I desire. This will encompass everything from the most
mundane of daily chores to the deepest spiritual and personal
developmental tasks. The individual, personal growth of each of us
and of the greater whole that we create through the
Master/slave/slave relationship will eclipse anything imaginable.

She will be trained and disciplined to my liking. While I have not
and do not readily share my "property" with others, as the
Master and complete and total owner of ally and the slave chosen, I
reserve all rights to determine when, how, where, and by whom my
property is or is not used. She will be cared for like the asset that
she is and over time provisions will be made for her future should
illness, accident, etc. occur.

I understand the needs of a woman to be enslaved; to serve
in "chains". I have seen the serenity and completeness in the
eyes of slaves who are totally and completely owned. I know well how
to bestow such happiness or how to take it away. There is no greater
freedom for the slave than to be in "chains". There is no
greater security for her than from her boundaries. The strongest
bonds are those unseen; the intangible bonds between a Master and
slave. Those are the bonds between ally and I. The chosen female will
experience the same bonds herself.

I will consider the wants and needs of my slaves and the rewards I
give will be in direct proportion to the dedication and quality of
service.

It is easy to serve when commanded to do the things that one wants to
do or doesn't mind doing However true, consensual slavery is
when the slave renders her best service when commanded to do those
things she may well hate, because it pleases the Master. There is the
most profound sense of accomplishment on the part of the slave for
doing these tasks and doing them well. It is very much a "badge of
honor" the slave wears proudly for enduring for the Master. In these
times the slave has conquered her very self in her servitude and
gratified her own deep needs in addition to pleasing her Master.

Surrender is not for the weak. It is not for those who are looking
for an easy ride or for those who take such profound steps lightly.
In surrender, the slave relinquishes her right to choose as long as
she wear the collar. This means that I may choose where she works,
how she wears her hair, what clothing style she will wear, when she
may come and go, etc. I may choose not do these things but I reserve
that right for myself. The prospective slave must be prepared for
these types of things. If she has a career that is all important to
her, remember I reserve the right to change that career path. If she
has spent 20 years growing her hair, remember that I reserve the
right to shave her bald. If she has a friend to whom she can never
bear to live without, I reserve the right to sever her relationships.

These are just examples; however, they demonstrate the profound and
serious nature of surrender. It is all or nothing. It is absolute,
and it is serious. I assure you, however, that every decision I make
with regards to my slaves will be done with the utmost consideration
for all parties involved.

The slave is a representative of her Master. She represents his
ownership, his collar and his house. As such, my slaves will conduct
themselves in such a manner as to honor me in the eyes of others.
Failure to do so will result in swift and sure punishment.

While we would all prefer to live our lives out in the open, we must
also live in reality. There are areas and people who do not
understand our way of living. There are outside relationships that
are desirable, necessary, and important but for one reason or
another, must remain in the dark. To this end there may be times that
the additional slave must assume the role of roommate, close friend,
tenant, tax advisor, etc. for our benefit. We acknowledge that we
might just as well be required to assume such a role for persons
and/or relationships in her life as well.

While this may sound a bit daunting, with effort, it is readily
attainable. Perhaps the greatest challenge for the slave chosen will
be overcoming the feeling of inequality due to the time ally has
already spent in service to me, and the level she has achieved. I
will not compare my slaves by measuring one against the other.
Rather, I will require that each rise to meet their own personal
levels of excellence.

This is not something that we are taking lightly or will dive into
quickly (Been there; done that. Got the t-shirt, coffee mug, souvenir
spoon, etc., you name it.). She must be prepared to spend a great
deal of time getting to know us as we will in getting to know her.
The rewards of proceeding in such a judicious and thoughtful manner
speak for themselves.

While I enjoy living life in an upbeat manner, I have my serious
side. The life I am crafting will be lived on my terms and to be a
part of it she will live that way as well.

ally: Agreed (and thank you Master)


ARE YOU THE SLAVE WE ARE SEEKING?

If your list of what you have to offer is larger than your list of
what you expect to receive, then you could be that slave.

If you desire to be a contributing part of a total family, with all
the inherent demands, responsibilities and rewards, then you could be
that slave.

If you are willing to share not only the good and easy times but
those bad and hard times, then you could be that slave.

If you understand that the greatest freedom you will ever enjoy comes
from being completely owned, then you could be that slave.

If you have the strength of character to do your owner's bidding
to the best of your ability, even at times when you don't agree with
his decisions, you could be that slave.

If you can serve in a manner that helps your owner to achieve the
life that he is trying to craft and at the same time help your sister
to grow and develop into a better person and slave, then you could be
that slave.

If you are interested or have questions fo feel free to contact ally (allyC here on CM) or myself (Cavalier here on CM)

I wish you well,

-Cavalier