SussexDaddy

Seems nobody is interested in a lonely 50+ man then

Goodbye!

Nothing happening here for weeks now, I shall not be her much for the foreseeable future.

Collarme is completely full of time wasters, there is hardly anyone genuine on here, 95% are just pretending so that they can get their own cheap thrills at the expense of others, or just simply wasting peoples time for their own twisted amusement.

You start a conversation with someone and then they get scared after a while or decide they have had everything they want from you and then just stop conversing or disappear, because they are unable or to take it any further and speak rationally with anyone who is actually genuine. So with out any politeness or a message saying sorry this is not what I am looking for they just stop replying or ignore you!

To those genuine few who I have had meaningful conversation with, and who I know are away for personal reasons I will in time message you with alternative contact details. (This statement is here because it is my theory if you are one of the genuine people you will actually bother to read a journal post in full rather than just scan it for for the sexy bits) Oh what a shame, there aren't any in this post for you to satisfy your fake, egotistical, selfish, tiny little minds over! Go and read 50 shades then!

Just over two weeks until some free time.

No work bookings, time to relax for 3 days and hopefully, but not holding my breath, to organise some kinky fun.

So why does nobody keep up conversation with me on here? Guess I'm to old and old fashioned to expect politeness in conversation anymore.

But with age comes experience, don't forget that!

And is anybody actually reading my profile, or just judging me on my age and or name?

Is it worth me adding journal entries?

Is anyone actually reading them?

If you got this far let me know!

Then maybe I won't just go away and die in corner.

I've been here for a couple of months now and I am beginning to think it's all fake.

You start a conversation with someone and then after 4 or 5 messages they just stop communicating with you, no sorry it's not working for me or good luck you are not what I am looking for etc. just nothing, messages not read let alone replied to.

So if there are any genuine subs, who actually read profiles and journal entries I'd love someone to prove me wrong, come on pop by and say hello and see if you can reply more than 6 times! It might be worth your while in the end!

Is there anyone there ? or is everyone just fantasizing?

I think my sense of humour might not be recognised or appreciated here!

I might be a Dom but I have are strange sense of humour which sometimes I feel isn't appreciated by people who haven't got to know me.

Perhaps it is not considered Dominant to be witty, sarcastic and maybe almost thought by some that is behaviour of a brat!

I am serious, and I can be very serious when needed, but I do like to have some fun along the way or I'll get depresed!

Just added some picture that I found I like and in a way reflect some of my thoughts on D/s

What has happened to politeness and common courtesy?

What is that makes people just ignore and not even read a message?

(I appreciate that some people may get hundreds of messages that they don't want and just add then to bulk.)

But surely it just common courtesy and good manners to reply to a message?

You can see if someone has read a message, but if you aren't interested in the message or the sender, why not just polity say thanks but no thanks?

Well maybe people just don't have the common decency to communicate anymore and are to lazy to reply because it takes effort?

Or maybe they are just to uneducated to know how to be polite!

Perhaps this is just a sad reflection of this site, an everyone thinks everyone else is a fake or just playing so there is no point in replying?

Answers on a postcard please......

The more I'm on here the more I'm beginning to think that this site is full of people who only want to "play" at the whole D/s thing and are either fakes looking for cheap online thrills or are to scared to make anything real.

I'd like to find a real female sub, for some fun but I won't hold my breath. By real I'm someone who is a real woman, and someone who is up for real meetings not just somebody sitting at keyboard pretending to want D/s or BDSM for their own online gratification.

I'd love to hear from one such genuine person, but doubt they exist on here.

(If that's you let then I'd love to hear from you)

I shall give it some more time. And if not I shall diminish and pass into the West.

( If you really understand what what the last sentence means I'd love to hear from you too.)

Bucket List

Although I have many years experience of being a Dom and have tried many many things. There are things I haven't yet done that I'd like to try.

• Spanking with two or even three "subs" or maybe more!
• Having a D/s "family" which sort of fits with above as well
• Doming a female older than me
• Training a sub for someone else / being a disciplinarian for someones wife
• Suspension Bondage
• Whipping scenarios

There is one which I really want to try though - having a D/lg thing with a girl who in theory could be young enough to be my daughter, and people thinking is that his daughter or not.

I'm sure I'll think off more, but that is the beauty of a journal can add them at a latter date