Susan197003

I don't like doing it, but today I had to block two people from sending me mail.  They had become online stalkers and couldn't accept the fact I wasn't interested in them.  

For any of you who have been reading my stories, I've moved the last one "Independence Day Week" to FL.  That system has a better way to show stories.

So, if you are interested in reading them, that is where they are.

My member name there is the same as here.

Susan

Interestingly, I've received a few complaints recently that I don't respond to some messages or that I delete messages without reading them.

First of all, I probably receive about 50 or more messages per day.  If I responded to them all, I wouldn't have time for any thing else.

Second, I specifically state in my profile that I will not respond to one-line messages or messages with photos of genitalia.  If your genitalia are your best feature, then you're not my type.  In these cases, I not only delete the message, I block the sender.  (This may sound hard to believe, but one person kept changing profile names to get around the block sender thing.  Please don't try this.  It wastes your time and it only take a little of mine to block you again.)

Third, I rarely respond to messages from anyone outside of the PNW.  I will sometimes respond to women with questions or comments but that's about it.  If you're from across the ocean and asking to be my submissive, you're definitely wasting your time.

Fourth, if I start to read a message and its obvious the sender hasn't read my profile, I'll hit the delete button.

Fifth, it's possible to read a message by placing the cursor on it and not actually opening it up.  If I can tell its a one line message from someone I've never corresponded with, I'll delete it.

Finally, if you actually want to engage in discussion with me, think of something interesting to say.  I actually enjoy reading and responding to messages from people who can write something interesting while using sentences and paragraphs.  This is true even if you're not from the PNW.  I receive very messages like this and when I do I really make an effort to read and respond.

Thanks,

Susan

Thank you to all have written, commenting on my journal.  Agree or disagree with my approach, the well thought out comments are greatly appreciated.

Something that I find interesting are the reactions people have to standing nude before me. I'm not real keen on people who seem to delight in showing off their bodies.  If you are exhibitionist, I'm definitely not the person for you.

I prefer it when my subs are reserved and find it a bit uncomfortable to be nude in my presence.  Its very interesting to observe a fearful person's reaction to undressing while being watched.  And, I like it when it's not easy for a person to stand naked and not move while being visually and manually inspected, asked questions and be verbally evaluated by me.  Of course, I am fully clothed when doing this.  

Susan

I had a wonderful date last night.  Sometimes just a plain vanilla night out for dinner with a nice, interesting guy can be extremely enjoyable.