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About supportvepartner
Am currently in a relationship with someone who is into the bdsm scene. I am a newbie to the whole concept. Its fair to say that I have led so far a very vanilla life. But I want to change that and experiment with different things to find new pleasures. I am a very sensitive soul who works in the field of health care and is training to be a psychotherapist.
I am fascinated by the cognitive games people play. However due to the media and a ch4 documentary where i saw an old man having his bell end cheese gratered by his mistress, I was always very sceptical of this lifestyle.
My girlfriend is someone who I love with all my heart and we have very much an equal relationship, but I would like to learn how to get over my nervousness/ fear of either being dominant or submissive.
For example I cracked up laughing when during an intimate moment she asks me to slap her, to spit on her and to treat her like a slut. I was so taken aback as have never encountered that before that i just could not do it. I want to get over it as I want to give her the pleasure she gives me.
Another point is...
She has been honest with me by saying she used to be a pro domme. But that is not what she wants from me in our relationship but she is wanting to go back into the professional side of things again. It took me a while to come to terms with this as i was completely naive and thought it was the same as selling your body. Boy, how wrong was i lol. I am now trying to be as supportive as possible.
to sum up...
In relationship with a potential returning pro domme.
Have never considered myself into bdsm as am a complete novice.
I generally dont like pain, but have never experienced mutually safe pain.
I still am unsure of this world, but want to dip my toe to see if it suits me.
I would like input from other people esp pro dommes or better still partners of pro dommes on how they cope with their/ partners work life and a relationship.
finally what is the best way to get over my fear of being dominant?
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