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SultrySub4M

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Female Submissive, 53
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SultrySub4M - Female Submissive, Minneapolis Minnesota | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

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About SultrySub4M

I am a voluptuous, vibrant woman with many wonderful endowments. I like to bike, camp, swim, hike, fix stuff, and giggle. I try my best to have the same attitude I did at 10: 'I'll try it! Let's go!" and as natural as can be, but clean up real nice. Multiply orgasmic, erotic, open and adventurous, I am smart, funny, active, loyal, passionate, sassy, and very liberal both sexually and politically. I have been preparing myself mentally and physically and am gushing to get started and let my spirit soar--not to mention please a deserving gentleman with my many talents. Not into control freaks, married men--do not write/I will not respond--Open to a well-read/traveled man with a sense of adventure and passion for life who loves music and laughing and independent women. Prefer water or earth sign (aquar ok with strong earth/water) and someone who wants to learn with me. I am not into pins, needles, burning, puke, pee, poop, or anything that does permanent injury to my stellar body.

There is much more to know and I am very excited to take the next step with a great guy. Please write if you think you are the one.
Hi everyone!  It's been a few days.  Been really busy preparing for a move to the city and having a big sale.  All must go!  Only problem is, it has been raining here and in two days, I've only had five ppl!  I will have to extend I suppose.
Nevertheless, this activity does nothing to calm my inner slut and arousal.  Been as randy as ever and thinking about all you hotties that write to me and turn up my pervitude.  It is a blast logging in and reading your messages, so thanks!  When things chill a bit, I'll be round the way and will have some tales of debauchery indeed!
Stay hard homies (and lubricated ladies!) and I'll see y'all real soon, k?
Be well, SS4M
Ok Y'all...this song was written about the heathenator.  Well, you'd have to ask the Beastie Boys and they really don't know me, but I think I was a muse on this one.  Maybe I came in a dream???

She's On It

 There's no confusion in her conclusion
She wants to waste my time and that's no delusion
Her final decision is perfection and precision
She's grade A class - number one in her division

 (chorus) She's on it, she gets around, she's on it, she's always down

 
She acts like a nag - I don't know how it started
Even when I'm chillin' - she acts retarded
It's gets annoying - so high on the tip
If a pirate had a Def Jam shirt - she'd be hard on his tip

 Cold chillin' in the spot - and she won't stop
She'll do what's best just to reach the top
She studies real hard - all night she'll cram
In school she majors in advanced Def Jam

 
Her bedroom eyes - they start to twitch
But she won't front cause she's got that itch
She'd drop to her knees if I'd only say please
Instead of counting sheep - cold counting Beasties

 Lyrics by The King

c 1986 by Def Jam Music Inc. (ASCAP)/Brooklyn Dust Music (ASCAP) rights reserved

 

 


If you find a good companion, who is following the same spiritual path, travel together, overcoming obstacles as they arise. - Buddha

This is my thought for the day.  I love quotations.  I am a quote dork.  So after I TCB, I will add some of my favs.  I also love philosophy and phers.  Heraclitus rocks and I really dig this stuff.  Although, he is the only one with CLIT in his name;-).  Here is a link for those of you so inclined=-)~
start with w-w-w and end with .htm

abu.nb.ca/courses/grphil/heraclitus

Back later with mo, SS4M
I am pervaliscious and kinkadocious after all and my slutitude is ever increasing!  Thanks for helping me be me!

Hey y'all.  I finally got my pics up and accepted!  Had to work a little magic to get them through and thought I should splain the funky one in the middle.  That my friends, is my pussy in all it's squishy glory.  To the right you will notice a flipidiedoda thingy sort of pulling up.  That is a rope woven through my labia piercing and it is being pulled to open it all up.  I did do one of my hobbies, clit pumping, before I took the shot.  The piercing was homemade...yikes and don't recommend unless you know what you are doing and are super bacteria free.  Thankfully the blood was the worst part and it healed marvelously.  I love it and want more.  You see, I like many women have hangers that are different lengths.  The right is a good 1/2 inch longer than the left.  So in my world, that means I needed to balance them out with a piercing on the left.  How's that for being a brave girl??  Or insane.  Or both.

The other pick is my boobies.  I have pretend hoops in them to try it out and see what it might feel like to have pierced nips.  I got them for about $4 on sale at the local sex shop.  Fun, but not really doing the trick.  I plan to get them pierced soon and can't wait.  Would be a nice gift to a future M don't you think?  

How bout a "collaring" via a clit hood piercing?  A lovely platinum ring to tickle and torture my huge love button reminding with each slight movement who I belong to... 

I used basic effects to alter the images and allow them to get up.  I think they are uber hip and now that you know what the hell that is...well, I hope you agree.

Buenos noches peepholes, h

Hi everyone!  Wow, I am still very excited to be here.  Meeting lots of cool and bright people and that is the best part!  You have all been very generous with me and it is appreciated.  Only one fucktard criticised my profile by stating, "what makes you think you are voluptuous?"  To which my reply was, "what makes you think you can ask me that?" and "buzz off."  One out of all of the great people is a ok.  As my mom is fond of saying, there's an arsehole around every corner and you are bound to step in some shit now and again.  Gotta love moms.

I made some changes to my profile and added pics that I took of myself in aroused moments.  Hopefully, I have made them arty enough that they will get through.  Took the head shot off bc of jitters and I am meeting people who live quite close to me.  Just not ready to show all yet but will send a face pic if 1) you ask nicely and 2) I get a solid good vibe and trust you with it.  That's the way it shall be so that this uber horny girl can relax and really have fun here without worry.  Y'all understand right?

I am meeting many great people and as stated, that is the very best part.  Also unexpected as the tiny bit I have engaged in online chatter has been disappointing at best.  So, it is with pleasure that I continue my adventure and hope to share it with you as well.  Be well, heather
Hi all!  Wow, thanks so much for all of the responses to my profile and journal entry.  Feels great to be myself and welcomed here.  I've been busy reading your messages and will try real hard to respond to each one so be patient. 
I continue to be very aroused thinking about all of this and taking steps toward fulfilling my desires.  Makes me very randy indeed! 
Looks like I need to watch my p's and q's around here.  I am very surprised about censorship (can't say cu*t?  or co*k here?).  I do appreciate the tone of kindness with others tho, that I can do gladly.  One would think (a new girl like me) that with all the stigma attached to BDSM lifestyle and activities that it would be a bit more open as far as use of language/naughty words.  I'll have to ponder this one.  Any ideas about why we can't say fun words?  They are very fun to say after all and for a lifelong potty mouth like me, it will be quite an effort to clean up my speech (I don't let the f bomb fly in real life, but there is a time and place to give it wings and set it free!).
Have a great day and I'll check in soon!

This is an excerpt from a message sent to a suitor.  He is very hot, direct and gets to the point...all qualities I appreciate and that turn me on big time.  Rather than write all this individually, I shall cheat a little.  This is me (and please do not take my thoughts or ideas personally, they are not about you!).  Oh, and I am a bad speller at times, forgive?:

Yes, being dominated by a younger man appeals to me very much.  Not really concerned with age as I am a very young 41 y old.  I look 10 yrs younger and ppl are always surprised when I disclose my age (doesn't bother me at all, I think I am way better with some experience under my garters).  I have had a desire for a long time to have an online/phone/IM relationship with a Dom who will order me to tease and torture myself via psychological control.  Though I have never been across the pond, I am very interested in travel.  I am 1/4 Irish and am planning a trip next spring sometime.  I am highly educated with a masters degree in clinical mental health counseling.  I am an expert therapist, behavior specialist and have the ability to develop trusting therapeutic relationships with very difficult clients.  I am starting my PhD this winter at the University of Minnesota and will earn a PhD in Psych.  I want to be a writer, artist, rock n roll drummer (yes, I have my own drum kit and I do rock I must say) and earn my pilot's license.  I feel like my life is just beginning, hence my burning desire to expand my horizons intellectually, sexually, relationally, etc.
I am also quite sassy and sarcastic.  I have a strong will and am extremely independent to the point of leaving two poor lost souls in the forms of ex-husbands sniveling in the corner like little snot-nosed school boys as I hit the road.  They were both losers, betrayed my trust and am so glad that I have no children to bind me to their pathetic existences.  Since those disasters, I have eaned both degrees, firmly established my divine femine wiles and witchy sensibiities, created a happy, optimisitc life for myself and moved on without grudges (ok a little bitter sarcasm, but I am no bitter old broad!!!).
My personality is vibrant and intense at times, but I am very open minded, non-judgmental and willing to make changes that will help my relationships grow.  I am spiritual, mostly identify with Native American and Buddhist philosophies and am adamantly opposed to traditional neo-con religiosity as it is managed and maintained by misogynistic, paternalistic fucktards who don't really give a rat's ass about their congregation unless their pockets are lined with poor people's mis-given trust ($$$ The Almighty Dollar is the Lord and Savior of Americans in general and I despise the consumerism bullshit here.  Not the working folk, but the ones who line their pockets with other's pensions and sit around at the country club discussing their next stock purchase--yuk!!!  and BORING!

I would be well received in your country and Europe
in general where they are not afraid of powerful vaginas.).

My fear about becoming a part of the BDSM community is meeting and engaging with men who are ultimately unable to detach from the D experience/role as needed and necessary for the health and well being of an egalitarian relationship.  And visa versa, it is rather unattractive to me that a woman so intensely desires submission and other-control that she would forget the head on her shoulders and to use it as often as possible to better herself.  It isn't unlike the idea of the freaks of the FLDS, the sickening sect of the Mormon church who believe that at all cost, the penises are the "Masters" rather than their "Lord" Jesus.  Extremes scare me and I can pick up on ill-behaved men rather well and like a supersonic radar.   Philosophical differences are healthy, but there are some things that I just won't do and allowing another human being (man or woman) to dictate my life's purpose, goals, personal changes, spiritual beliefs, etc is never gonna happen.  I am self-actualizing and including fun and passionate sexual exploration is big time important, but not at the expense of my dreams and purpose in my life. Ya dig?

I've been studying the lifestyle, elements within, terminology, activities, tools, psychological implications and many other topics of interest for several months now.  I find that the forums are a great place to see real ppl in action.  I have been quite pleased and excited to see the high level of intelligence, creativity and dedication that most participants have.  But I am also disheartened to read about practical relationship concerns that end up making many subs feel mentally ill and that seems to be perpetuated by other folks who act as relational experts even though theirs is terribly f'd up.   Just because one is experienced in the bdsm lifestyle, doesn't make them Dr. Phil/Phyllis and it is dangerous to mess around ppl's real lives without knowing what one is doing.  Ill gained advice t'aint gonna get you real love and being yourself and really loving yourself, with all our flaws and oddities as women and men, will.  I have seen some familiar ppl (familiar due to my work with mentally ill women who are former prostitutes, addicts, have experienced horrific sexual and other forms of abuse and who have personality disorders that rule every feeling and behavioral response to their worlds.).  Look up Borderline Personality Disorder on google and I am certain you will see women you have met, known, viewed online, or if unfortunate, have been in a relationship with.  Or for that matter, men who are inclined toward Antisocial PD and tendencies that need a very dependent partner so that they can feel like a 'man.'  In fact, this may be a great dissertation: The correlation between personality disorders and desperate neediness in the BDSM community.  That's me, an investigator and thinker with a giant clit and a libido that would put John Holmes to shame;-).

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