Sugarshack

Female Submissive, 22, jax, Florida

Female Submissive, 67, Long Island, New York

Dominant Couple, 30, austin, Texas

My daily rant! I find it interesting that as men push for a picture they are resistant to providing one of their own or an email address. I will not web came until the bitter end gentlemen, if you are not comfortable as conversation progresses with providing a photo and an email address I assume it is because you have something to hide. A wife, girlfriend or a checkered past perhaps? Again I am not unintelligent, I not only fish but I lay bait well :)

Do other women drop their panties to the first man who expresses interest in them? Because honestly, my panties won't come off until there is a real connection, demonstrated trust and respect. I am so tired of communications that start with - are you naked? Are you shaved? Do you like it in the ass? Do you want to suck my cock? Can I come in your face? Every day I block at least 5 users for commennts such as these. Is there anything in my profile that suggests I am that type of woman? If so please let me know, I will gladly remove it. Those are the more tame comments. Many I receive are too disgusting to repeat. That's the daily rant, I am off to work

Several have inquired in regards to what I am doing to maintain structure and consistency without external controls. I had a friend in the lifestyle help me develop a list of rules about a year ago. I will say it is a much gentler and shorter list than the old one :) 1) exercise every day, if I don't want flabby and out of shape I should provide the same to my Dom 2) every day spend 15-30 minutes reviewing your behaviors and reminding yourself why you choose submission 3) take a class evey week to continue growing, learning and making yourself more valuable to your dom 4)shave your legs every other day 5)care for your skin every day to keep it soft, supple and resistant to marking,( red is a lovely color on me, black and blue not so much) 6)make the bed every day 7)go out of your way twice a week to do something special for someone you care about or someone in need 8)be kind and thoughtful in your speech 9)avoid those occasions and individuals who bring out the negative aspects of life 10) be gentle with yourself 11)read or study any area of interest for 30min daily 12) complete required daily tasks in the morning before you go to work

I know who and what I am. I know the direction I seek and the path to follow.I will not lower myself, my values, my beliefs or my integrity to suit another. My core values are mine, they are constant in an ever-changing world, they are an anchor to all I hold true. I will not tolerate anger, disrespect or disbelief directed towards me by those who are petty, insecure or bitter. If you cannot communicate with decency and respect move on, I am not interested in your insults or demeaning attitude. I know my value well and Will not change my standards to suit you. If I am not a good fit I accept that, I would rather be alone than with one who I cannot please.

Sometimes even smart women can be stupid. I have to laugh at myself, I mentioned in my original profile that I have two big dogs, not thinking about this being a kinky site and not every one believes sex should be a consensual act within their own species. I have removed them from the profile to eliminate yet more of the twisted ones out there. Seriously? Some people have no moral compass! If this sounds judgemental it is probably directed towards you.

Gentlemen:. Yes I am female, that does not imply I will be silly, stupid, feckless or irresponsible with my life. I appreciate offers of airline tickets but really - I would be giving you access to my full name, address and date of birth. With that information anyone could harm me or do irreparable harm to my career and my family. Until I meet you, in person, that will not happen. If you are a predator, you are wasting your time. I guard myself and family carefully. If you want someone who is foolish enough to surrender their life that quickly look in a lower age and IQ bracket, I am not the one for you.

" I am selfish, impatient and a little insecure. At times I am out of control and hard to handle - but if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve to have me at my best!" of all people - Marilyn Monroe :)

I suspect my friends are right, i am getting a fresh mouth and too much time unpartnered probably does ruin a good sub. I have avoided chores, worn pants, went shopping, had lunch out, and cut my hair. In addition my sexuality is mine to control Too much freedom is, i suspect, as bad as too little. I am also back into the habit of flirty behavior, which was trained out of me early in my relationship. I may have no choice but to stay vanilla! One advantage of being unpartnered - I can get a haircut when I want to! And there is nothing like a trip to the salon to make a woman feel sexy and beautiful!

I will correspond with those who seem genuine, interesting and consistently demonstrate the qualities I admire and respect in a Dom. This is an endurance test for both of us. If you cannot be patient, consistent, reliable, respectful and articulate for a month or two online, how could you possibly demonstrate them in a LTR? I hope to have progressed to being able to have real time phone discussions after consistent email correspondence. After a few weeks of conversations I hope to start making appointments to meet with those who are still interested. If you do not feel this is reasonable or acceptable feel free to offer suggestions that would perhaps be more effective. I find this whole online method wretched and unnerving. 93% of communication is nonverbal, that said it is difficult at best to evaluate anyone until you meet face to face. I will do the best I can to covey my thoughts and feelings, please give me the same courtesy.

On another note, there are many who doubt the veracity my statements in regards to killing ckickens. In case you are interested here is a tutorial - I am fairly certain it would work much the same with rude and inconsiderate individuals. I keep a killing cone made from hardware cloth nailed to a tree in the backyard, it is the easiest method and gives you a superior quality, unbruised meat. Take away all food and water the night before you plan to process them. A large pan of simmering, not boiling, water on the side burner of the grill to dip, two tables - one for plucking and one for eviscerating, a cooler full of ice, ziplock bags for the gizzards and organs( they make great dog food), bleach water to sanitize all surfaces and vinegar wash to rinse the finished birds. Now retrieve the first bird, carry them by the feet it helps calm them and pool the blood. Place them in the cone and using a sharp knife or scalpel cut just below the ear to slice the carotid. I keep a bucket underneath to catch the blood, also good for dog food. After two or three minutes remove and dunk 2-3 times for 10 sec each time to open the pores and loosen the feathers. Pluck the tail and wings first, these are the most difficult to remove. Next remove the head with a cleaver or poultry shears, ( the cleaver is easier), make a slit in the lower skin of the neck and separate the esophagus and trachea from the supporting structures. Next make an incision in the belly about two inches above the rectum, insert your hand into the cavity and gently separate the intestines from the surrounding peritoneal fascia. Grasp the gizzard firmly and with slow steady pressure remove the intestines; the gonads, kidneys and heart are easily removed then using your finger slide under each lung and remove them, finally make a U shaped cut around the rectum to detach the intestines. Rinse in vinegar and pack in ice. I usually leave them in ice for two days to allow rigor to relax and tenderize the meat. I probably make the best chicken and dumplings you have ever eaten. And yes for you "gentleman" who are doubtful I am certain it would work as well on a person, like you perhaps. * smiling sweetly with knife in hand*

Next issue up for debate. I do not own a computer - really! I have a laptop available from my job which I use for all but inappropriate, aka this site, needs. I also have a tablet, again through my job and thus restricted. So I am doing this from an iPhone which is my personal phone. I sent my personal laptop to college with my youngest son. I will, eventually purchase another, until then I will continue to work around the situation to the best ability. If you don't like, don't believe it, I really don't care. It's my, money, my life, and until I am in a LTR no one else will dictate how I live.

Posting on the site is like entering an upside down world. I have been sent rude, disrespectful, condescending messages from men who suggest I am not real. ???? Because I live a more natural, back to basics type of life. I like organic healthy food, I choose to grow and produce much of it myself. I realize many of you live in the city, have never milked a cow, gardened, canned or killed an animal. I grew up rural, these are skills I learned when I was young. they assume because I say I have a job and a home I must be lying. It is called a college degree! I work, I could, very possibly be in a higher income bracket than you. I learned budgeting and household management as a child. I learned how to save and spend wisely. When my friends were out on friday Jeff said I was getting a fresh mouth andneeded a good ass beating. He's right, after two years of single I probably do. That said I had him sort through and read some of my communications, I let him pick those I should respond to and those to be blocked. When he was finished he hugged me and said I should perhaps consider beating some of them. He did offer to service top me which I declined. Fresh mouth or not, it will be the right one or no one.

One tired girl, nap then bday party

MY DAILY RANT: I am a submissive of value, I know my own worth well. I am well educated, pretty, intelligent, social, outgoing, vibrant and at times sassy. I am not inherently disobedient or disrespectful. I meet my commitments and obligations, I take care of those I love. I own a home, pay my own way and have a steady income and career. Do you really think I'm going to throw it all away for you because you snapped your fingers? Submissive of value do not give themselves to the first Dom that comes along. It takes time, patience, dedication, consistency, trust and respect to win that kind of submission. If you aren't in it for the long haul move on, find some silly, weak, helpless, screwed up princess to meet your needs, I am a real woman, a powerful person and will not pretend to have false modesty about my worth.

When an older master requests orally inspired on the intro to his profile does that translate as "I'm impotent and can only come with a blow job" ???? Just curious, I am new to the site, he seemed terribly offended when I asked him. Honestly, aren't most subs orally inspired ?

Holy crap! A hucow??? I've been around the lifestyle for many years but that's a first for me. I wonder how much breast milk sells for on the market??

Ok, I am a professional woman. I do not need you to pay for airline tickets, transportation or a hotel room. If I choose to meet with anyone I am perfectly capable of making and paying for my own travel arrangements. I do not want or expect anyone to support me. If and when I move into a LTR I might consider only working part time to better meet the needs of the relationship. Until that time comes I neither desire or expect financial interference. Sorry guys but really! Offering a plane ticket to someone you don't know? Are you crazy?

Wow! I guess sleeping is a bad move on here. Do you have any idea how many people PERV on you when you're sleeping? Why do they all think they can control my orgasms? Seriously guys, you might wait until you see if you can give her an orgasm before you try to control or deny and yes vibrators are cheating, real men don't need a vibrator to rock my world. That said I can hold out until your tongue falls off so don't throw down a gauntlet you aren't willing to pick up! Just my rant for the day, I am tired of all the crazy responses

HOLY CRAP! Never having attempted a site like like this before I had no idea.... I thought I made it clear on my profile I am not poly, into women, couples,sadists, fisting, watersports or animals. Maybe they are illiterate??? How am I ever going to weed them out? I suspect finding a needle in a haystack would be easier.....

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