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Hetero Male Master, 44,  Mplwd, Minnesota
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This is my definition of a slave, start with a 1950s house hold, add proper protocol rules, discipline and yes kink. One to serve in all forms, to be kept safe from real harm in any fasion. Yes I have a sadistic side, yes I like to see tears hear whimpers to degrade to use to abuse. This is short but to the point, if you agree with me by all means contact me. I am safe sane dd free experienced and have a sadistic side.











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 Dominant Male



 5' 9"

 180 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

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Journal Entries:
7/10/2016 11:50:31 AM
It is shocking the amount of profiles I read from females seeking extreme 24/7, yet they have children. It is not only young naive females that middle aged females as well   Why would any mother want to raise a child in this lifestyle? how does any female see this working? How does any female not realize this is not a life for children .  Are you so naive to think the child will not see you bruised welts? to hear your cries? to see how you are treated again these are profiles seeking extreme?   Has are society lost all morals?   Really if you want this do your child a favor give the child up  or forget this lifestyle.

10/7/2015 4:55:30 PM
  This is the message I sent to one of the so many very real female slave profiles on this joke of a sight. "so close to having a real profile,    a slave seeking sun male  kinda gives it away that you are fake   nice  try"  This was the reply I received                            "how was your weekend i hope you spent it well.. i am single and searching for a master.. i am also interested in you too sir..i am a pain slave and i have 10 years experience.. i am 30years old and i have been involved with 2 different masters in the past.. i will like to know about you more better.. you can write me at i hope to read from you"       blank profiles, profiles that have been here for a year or longer  slaves/subs searching for subs  look at the distance if you know the state is   say 300 miles away but profile states 1000 miles away.  These are all very clear signs of fakes.   and the famous relocate me    never ever send any type of funds to a computer.        

3/7/2015 7:09:03 AM

These are the Facts in a M/s Relationship:

Masters:  A Master totally owns, controls and uses HIS slave both mentally and physically, 100% of the time. A Master never gives his slave the option to choices.
Master’s never gets rid of his property, nor does He give it the option to choose when it can leave him, he totally owns it for life.

slaves: have no rights, choices or limits (unless the Master decides).. 
So what are you looking to achieve on this site sir? Are you on here 
for some kinky sex", on "line chat", "Online Romance" or "informing" you it's life story on its experiences for your thrills on this site? Then I am not for you.  Only seeking a true slave

12/17/2014 4:54:39 PM
I am so tired of all the stroking, the false promise the false am interested only to vanish, or stop communicating.  Fantasy is great but not here, there are places for role playing where you can be male female old young sub Dom.   This goes far beyond kink.  It is a lifestyle

10/11/2014 8:41:55 AM

A slave is not a friend, a wife, a girlfriend or a pet.

A slave property, sub human a beast that exists to service Others

A slave does not have free will, it obeys, more importantly it does not desire free will

A slave does not question it obeys, more importantly it does not desire to question

A slave desires the lash of Your whip

A slave desires the roughness of rope bound tightly around her body

A salve desires the pain that is inflicted on it as proof it has a use

A slave has no limits other than what its Owner places on it

8/2/2014 8:14:04 AM
It is not, how you use your slave that matters to her. What Matters is that she knows she is yours, That she is needed and appreciated and you will always protect her. That she is not a throw away toy, but truly owned for all of time. That you her Master Owner can see what her needs are emotionally mentally and yes physically. The sex and kink are great, but they do not fill all the hours of the day.

7/30/2014 6:53:08 PM
I do understand that we all have fantasies, and that is fine. If there is one who is looking for more than Fantasy, one who desires to live this Please contact me. Grow tired of the games people play.   THank You

3/9/2014 8:42:09 AM

 A slave to me is just that a slave owned property, she is there to serve in form to carry out any task given to her with out hesitation. I the Owner provide guidance structure and a safe place to serve and grow as a owned slave. I see that the slave has the basics in life and that she is not infected, broken or permanently  injured. I believe most here have painted an illusion of what life as a slave is, it is filled with only there kinks wants needs, it is  sadly  a game  not  a life style

2/28/2014 1:04:37 PM

Really getting tired of things that say  slave  or even  sub  say  make  me  a bimbo.  Translation for all you morons  who  reply   spend 160k on my plastic surgery, I will be a like  a paid whore  meaning I will fuck you for  awhile  then take  my  fake  tits  and  walk

1/9/2014 10:55:58 PM

          In this day and age it is sad that so many have to say no permanent injury, mutilation or minors.  Those being said I believe a slave is entering a TPE relationship. The T stand for Total not some not Most.  I real Master will protect and not let any real harm happen to his property  Most limits are thing people have never experienced, but the mind has set  the limit out of fear or disquieting images in their mind  .   You as a slave choose your owner if there are thing you really really dont want to do  ask your owner to be  if  he uses such activity.  This lifestyle is based on trust respect and communication.

1/4/2014 4:56:40 AM

I truly love to hear your whimpers and pleas, to hear beg me to stop, I get a evil grin and enjoy the sounds coming from your lips     you utter  red and everything stops. I am sadistic  not demented safety is always first

11/17/2013 7:46:21 PM

have to put up a new prim photo   some little person complained     . Wish  you people would grow up 

11/15/2013 7:24:27 PM

This is my personal opinion, I am not bitching just expressing my opinion comments welcomed. If you are a Female on CM and your profile is still actively seeking after 4 months,   I can only assume you are here for the attention you receive, view this as entertainment and have no desire to ever making this real or you are seeking total perfection in every aspect.  The reason I state this is at any time it is 300 men for every woman, a women receives pages and pages of emails, Yes I know alot of these are from men who email every new female profile,  even so  I can not believe out of the thousands of replies no one is close to what  you seek

11/10/2013 5:46:10 PM

I just read this profile  It fits  for so many here , it is  sad really                                               You are looking at the profile of one of the best screw ups in the country.  Before you get your hopes up, you need to know I can’t function without sleeping pills, anxiety pills, weed, and a truckload of excuses why.  My Master ignores me and I only live for playing games online and I will promise you anything to keep my boring sorry life filled with hours of fantasy so that I can get through another day.  In other words, I am a pathetic loser who only dreams about the real life, but I can never commit to living it.  Now you know a little about me.   The rest is up to you.

11/9/2013 12:04:39 AM

I simply love all the profiles here asking for a story  here is an example                                I get tons of e-mails. To get a response please be specific about your ideas, expectations and interests, and explain why you got attracted by my profile. and yet another                Tips on getting me to respond: Longer messages generally have a higher chance of response. Impress upon me that you would o I wish to live.                         People there are many sites that offer bdsm stories places you can even submit your own fantasy,Its hard enough tiring to find someone real

11/6/2013 7:39:12 PM

The Holidays are fast approaching, such a depressing lonely time for so many. Make your dreams come true stop pretending there is perfection and be Owned and live

10/28/2013 2:58:27 PM

To all the self-righteous  hypercritical prudes  This is an adult site this is a alternative lifestyle site. If my photos or some other profile photos bother you simply skip it. I have received several compliments on my profile photos, just because my kink my fetish my idea of this lifestyle does not equal yours does not give you the right to whine   to cm about them. Go back to E harmony single Christians or whatever vanilla date site you came from

10/5/2013 8:15:35 PM

10 Basic Commands that it much easier to communicate expectations clearly and quickly to your sub.  These are basic ideas Spice and I use, when and as appropriate (mostly) in each others company.

STAND - Legs Parted, Head slightly down but no slouching.

WALL - Face to the wall, feet shoulder width, toes 2-3 feet from the wall.

KNEEL - Knees and toes on the deck, body otherwise erect.

SQUAT - Toes on the ground, bum on heels, legs spread wide.

SIT - Toes and knees down, ass on heels, legs open, hands on thighs.

DOWN - Face down, chest down, ass UP. Hands on back, or at sides.

CRAWL - Hands, knees and toes down, legs parted to allow a hand. 

LEGS UP - Lay back and lift legs together, holding - or hands to the sides.

OPEN - Lay back, legs open wide, exposed, uncovered and available.

BEND OVER - Legs spread unless directed.  Hands touch ankles, or toes.

Structure sets subs free from decision, giving them an easy route to please the Master.  Training your sub provides many opportunities to explore expectations and and boundaries, and lets a word or gesture bring the joy of BDSM blossom into everyday moments. 

9/23/2013 7:09:07 PM

Lots of people like to look at the photos  some even ask questions about the photos   Is this Tumbler?  Is anyone real and looking for something real? anybody

9/19/2013 8:43:42 PM

Have meet many fakes on cm where is one who is real?

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