The lessons i need to remember:

1.  It takes time to grow trust.  The foundation of trust is a slow process.  Questions need answered for both parties to be sure truth has been spoken.

 2. One amazingly intense 1st meet over dinner and drinks does not mean one is ready to jump right into complete abandonment with one who is ultimately still a stranger.

 3. I am a multifaceted woman.  I am a submissive but i also have a baby girl heart.  It takes a certain type of Dom to understand these two parts of me.

 I think as long as i remember these 3 lessons I will have more fruitful encounters.

A little over 12 hours on this site and i'm finding a lot of open and sharing Dominants here.

What i didn't expect is humor and so many have a light hearted humor about them.

It is wonderful to encounter.

I am happy i listened to my friend and ventured here.