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Please DO NOT CONTACT ME WITHOUT READING!
I am really attractive by most peoples' standards. You will just have to take my word for it for a bit, because I don't give out pictures too quickly for professional reasons. Let's just compare minds a bit, at least one or two e-mails) before I send one out please.
I do believe that I am rather "mentally" healthy, if there is such a thing. Aside from being extremely ADD, my faults tend to be toward being too candid, and too open. I don't have much shame over anything so I am never afraid to admit that I am what I tell vanilla friends as "picky kinky". In other words, I don't want to date vanilla, no matter how attractive they are. NO, I don't get into great detail, this is just my way of preventing people from setting me up. (you may be able to get a woman to try to be a sub and get some response but there is no way to turn a vanilla man into a real Dom even if he identifies himself as a Dom)
I work hard, play hard, and fully enjoy doing both. My interests outside of BDSM? Sigh, I am so eclectic it would take all day to try to explain the type of person that I am. I love to go bowling, live to see plays, suck at playing pool but love it anyway. Take me four wheeling deep in the woods, and tie me to the nearest...
My issue with humiliation: If I am yours, even as a possession, wouldn't you care for that possession? I don't like to be made to eat from a dogs dish, I may love to be your bitch, slut, whore, and believe it or not, cunt when being punished, but deep humiliation will turn me into a real bitch and I will just simply leave. Being spat on, treated like a footstool for the length of your favorite tv show, or called a fat cow while being fed grass from your front yard is what I mean by humiliation. I don't like : Water sports, deep humiliation, fisting (no I have never tried it, and don’t plan to, having children was enough)
I am open to playing with or without sex. Without it, I will likely try to find someone to be with sexually afterwards because I will most likely be turned on beyond tolerance, but….. I have been with just a top, and enjoyed that experience as well.
I am a REAL Masochist, and so can take more than most, and no, that was not a challenge!
I was affectionately called sam as a nickname standing for smart ass masochist because I can be very playful and challenging at times. I do not have a poker face, so whatever I am feeling is right there to be seen, if you are looking for me to be contrite over something that I just cant seem to be sorry for, you will more than most likely see an amused look on my face instead. If you end up knocking over the water bottle and causing the cat to freak out instead of hitting me, I will laugh. Hence the “smart ass” label.
I have been whipped and had blood drawn and loved every moment. Only to then have to call a halt after just a few minutes with someone who is rather inexperienced at other times. Obviously it has to do more with mindset and the experience of the other.
I don't usually "get off" from pain. I get very lusty over control, and seeing and hearing my partner enjoying what I can give. In this way, I have been told that I am too submissive. I am in control of so many peoples lives in my day to day dealings, that having someone take that control from me is sometimes just as much of a relief as it is a complete turn on. In short, if your control over me makes you hard, moan, and even more rough and demanding with me, I am the happiest woman alive.
So if you have gotten this far and are interested, here we go... THE TALK...
I have herpes.
So I am being upfront and honest with you. Below is a little more info about it. Basically, when playing safe and using a condom and because I am on antiviral therapy, there is about a 2% chance of transmission with condoms and antiviral medications. This number may seem small, but please do not disregard it altogether. If you do not take this seriously, I won't be with you, because I do NOT want to pass this on, this is one of the few things that I would not like to share of myself, if at all possible.
Without those precautions there is an 8-10% transmission from male to female, and 4-5% transmission chance from female to male. That is without any antiviral meds, condoms, and with people who have outbreaks and are NOT showing symptoms at that time.
More in depth info can be found here: [http://www.herpes.com/hsv1-2.html]"
There are other therapies that are not listed on any of the medical sites that I do use, such as Llysine supplements, and antiviral topical gels that have been proven to decrease the chance of spreading, but those clinical studies do not provide actual numbers that allow me to factor in with these percentages. Those studies are more on a microbiological scale and are not pursued by the pharmaceutical companies, and so, I use them as a safeguard.
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