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Male Submissive, 35
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Male Submissive, 35, ontario
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Female Submissive, 38, Sydney
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About subtease2
"Sub" as in "meta", or "underneath".
I love teasing and being teased but what holds my fascination is the stuff that goes on beneath that... the tease within the tease.
The real me...
This profile is more of an expression of my kink and community side but I am a real person. If you want to hear about my philosophy re relationships, college, religion, arts, music, etc, just ask. :) I am me and genuine, here as part of my integrated life rather than treating this as some retreat I use as an escape. Years ago I've been that guy, dys-integrated. Now, finally, I'm present and evolving.
Also the real me, but more specific to kink...
I'm open to play, exploration, and skills acquisition. (...especially if you are female, near Minneapolis, interested in tease torture. Yum!)
I'm guessing my kink is rather more intimate than most. For me, I like to find out what makes people think, and what makes people aroused. I think of a person's personality as made up of multiple parts, like buoys in a lake. Some of which are kept tight to one spot, some anchored but with plenty of slack to move around. Some very strong buoys that are hidden, far below the surface, straining, badly wanting air... and some of those make the most delicious sounds when I sneak in and gently tickle their tight, creaking chains, coaxing those parts to come out and play. Towards this, I find different parts of me coming out as I talk to different people. With some bottoms, I find myself gentle and encouraging. With others, I am demanding and chaotic. With some tops, I am obedient and squirmy, and with others I am proud and headstrong.
Some favorite kink activities are:
- orgasm control (edging, teasing, forced orgasms, etc)
- tickling / overstimulation / post orgasm torture
- "Be careful what you wish for"
oh... and hair pulling! There's something having someone's hair at the back of their head in a good, close grip where simply tightening my fist causes an intake of breath, shivering, relaxing into the sensations while simultaneously rising up onto her toes, possibly tilting her head to one side, exposing the side of her neck, and maybe giving her time to wonder, worry, and surrender to what I'm about to do next.
But these are techniques. What I'm really after are spirals of arousal... those activities where the more its done the harder it is to take the more we just can't stop the more its done. It's different for everyone. For example: I'm not a conventional sadist but if it gets good reactions from you then yes. Fuck yes. Even better is if you don't like something and yet withstanding it requires a gift of submission that only arouses you further. There's something that's so ironic and unfair about that, it only encourages me to grin and escalate, bringing more of that side of you out, watching you squirm under the cruel, damning truth: I would stop immediately if it didn't turn you on so much...
ahem - Where was I? :)
Another big turn-on for me is a sense of humor... good, silly, evil, sarcastic, whatever.
Oh, the "2" in my nickname is meaningless. Once, loooong ago, I lost the password to my "subtease" personna. shrug Someone else on collarme.com has a username of subtease, but that's not me. :)
If you want to browse more of what my kinky sides are about, my tumblr blogs are femsubdenial and wanttoneed.
My BDSM Quiz Results:
You scored as a Switch. You know what you want but it has nothing to do with your own role in the bedroom. You have the ability to be flexible in that area which can be useful for exploring your sexuality with your partner.
- Switch 100% - Ohhhh yes, but that doesn't mean you need to switch!
- Sadist 82%
- Bondage 79%
- Dominant 71%
- Experimental 68%
- Masochist 57% - Surprised by this; I'd guestimate ~45%.
- Submissive 54%
- Exhibitionist / Voyeur 50%
- Degradation Lover 29% - I disagree with this. It's too high. Name calling is fine, giving humiliation might be hot, objectification can be fun, but to me there are differences between giving humility/humbling, objectifying, and degrading. Out of the three, I like degradation least because I don't yet understand it in a safe and sane scene.
- Vanilla 11%
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