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Male Submissive, 48, mesa, Arizona
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Male Submissive, 41, Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania
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About substeve528
I've listed myself as a switch. After doing some extensive reading on this site, I realize that some people do not like switches. Well, I am here to say I was forced into that.
20 some years ago I started out being dominating, but dominating vanilla women. Turns out they really don't like that. Most would rather dominate. And then they suck at that as well. So I ended up dominating, while being dominated. Or just dominating myself, if you will.
And that brings me here. I do not wish to talk anyone into the lifestyle anymore. Being a switch, I can dominate or submit to whomever. I normally would not try to switch in a relationship. It depends on who I meet. I would like to meet someone that shares similar interests. Someone who enjoys exploring new things, sexually.
Being single and on the dating scene for the last 5 years, I am fully open to a long term relationship. However, I have, and can do playtime stuff. I am a professional type person, have a decent job, and I have responsibilities as a person, so real slave ownership type stuff (well, me being the slave) is impossible. Well, lets face it, I'm 40 yrs old, and I didn't just fall off the slavery boat.
Having said all that, and reading a bit on this site, I bet I am less experienced than I thought. In some of the scenarios I have read about, I would be quite worried, if I didn't somewhat know the person dealing it out. So, if I do happen to meet up with a domme.... please try to take it easy on me the first time out. And stop yelling at me from your profile. That's just nuts.
If I meet up with a sub, know that I do care about them as people. Sure, chastise me for that, but it takes a special type of person to submit. I know that. And I am very experimental.
And, unless I am in the Bahamas, on the beach, sipping on drinks requiring defensive movements to avoid miniature umbrellas giving me a sinus reaming, and you are at home, and run out of laundry soap, no, I am not going to send you $50 via Western Union.
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I have it scheduled. In about an hour. Crazy woman. But, I'll get my fix. And I'll get to experiment with my first suspension. I don't think it's gonna work out so hot, but, as a first try...eh...
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I was contacted today by my former dominatrix.... not sure of the short term, dom, domme, I think there's a difference.
But, she wants to get together. All in fun, on my part, and I will do it. I don't know why really. Cause she is fairly psychotic. In a relationship sense. As far as a dominatrix is concerned, I trained her. She has, can, and will put some deep bruising on my ass. Which is good. Anything else she almost has to be walked through. It's like she has a script in her head that she follows, based on previous encounters. But, in her defense, she tries to deviate from the script, using plain vanilla variants of BDSM. But it is TRYING.
But, in a relationship, she is a nut job. No way to handle it, I can't do it. It's too bad too, cause it might be fun. Just extremely traumatic outside the bedroom.
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Ok, this board is boring me. I need someone to tie me down and beat my ass. And leave marks.?
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Wow. Oregon is only 35 miles from me. When did this happen? I didn't get that memo. Something is screwy with this sites distance measurements.
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Ok, so after a little over a month on here, I found the following......
One of the first girls I talked to was looking for a 'tribute'. Of course I had no idea what this meant, so I asked. She says, "tribute = a gift = cash". huh. Really. Boom, she's gone. Never to be heard from again.
Ok, I start talking to another woman, of course, it says something about a tribute, but I ignore that. It seems to somehow be linked into travel. But since I'm local, no travel involved. I'm In!!!!!!! Nope, I said something that she didn't like, BOOM, she's gone, never to be heard from again.
Another woman, she didn't even try to hide it, she flat out asked me, "How much are you willing to pay for my services?" I replied, "Oh, you didn't say that in your profile." Boom, gone.
Seriously. Now I'm thinking I stumbled onto an online prostitution ring.
(not trying to bag on this site, I have since read the warnings, and I could have found this all out in the beginning, because they try to warn you of this)
The next girl, well, she flat out asks for $50.00 to prove I was real. Ok, in my curious self, how would I actually get this $50 to her if I was NOT real? Being fed up with this nonsense, I asked her if she accepted PayPal. Nope, she only accepts Western Union and Amazom. I've forgotten how Western Union works, I thought it was an address, maybe DL # or some identifying info. And I have no idea what an Amazom is. Ok, Amazon, sure, but I didn't know they did anything financial. And then I tried to narrow down what I was gonna get for my $50, I wasn't real sure, this is too vague. BOOM, gone. I thought so.
So, now I just message these girls with the text that this board provides, outlining their scam.
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