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Switch Couple, 43, tampa, Florida

Female Submissive, 42, washington, Pennsylvania

Male Dominant, 46, perkins, Oklahoma

...and while I'm at it...I don't care if you ARE a lesbian Domme seeking a lesbian slave....does that mean you can't tolerate being 'human'? I can respect you, worship you if you wish...but we should still be able to say "hi". I'm really not searching for a way into your bedroom. Please don't be so presumptuous as to think that EVERY submissive is after your sexual attention. I respect your differences, please respect mine.

I read alot of other profiles on collarme. It seems there are some common complaints The biggest is there are too many "fakes". it seems to me that when two people don't find compatibility, there is the potential for one to think the other is a fake. For example, I could lay claim to coming across many "fake" dommes simply because I'm NOT going to be your pay piggie. The only thing that would make me feel is "broke"! I certainly wouldn't feel dominated, humiliated, controlled, etc.... yet I do understand for many people, money=power. Consequently, there's a definite power exchange that takes place in that relationship. My search however, is relative to real, physical and mental control/service. I have plenty of fantasies, love the idea of being beaten into mindless submission, etc. But really! we all have real world needs. Yards to mow? Houses to fix? squeaky hinges? Laundry? foot massage? You know..."normal" things that enhance a persons life. What's wrong with a spontaneous phone call...."slave, stop by the grocery and get a gallon of milk. And I need you to come swap out a couple of light bulbs, and caress my tired feet." I mean does everything need to revolve around money?

Just back from Knoxville today. Feeling a bit low...the void of missing someone special is with me tonight. A lady co-worker sent me a text photo update of her toenail color. She enjoys the attention shown to her feet, yet the thought of someone licking her tootsies seems to be a bit further than where she would want to go....at least for now. I'm hoping to help her understand the foot worship thing, and perhaps get her to come out of her shell. She seems to be a dominant personality. I think she is interested in exploring it some...but this will be a sloooow process.

I've always had an interest in the mental side of my submission. Asking the "why" question, and trying to figure that out. As time passed, I came to accept myself, and my role in life. I grew to enjoy what I could bring to a D/s relationship, and see the value of embracing my persona. My journey of 'self discovery' has had its ups and downs. There's been flashes of big revelations and times with seemingly no personal growth. Yet through it all, there's remains some consistencies. 1) I am submissive to the core. Not a doormat mind you, but I am drawn toward dominant women like a magnet. 2) I've yet to find that complete relationship. Seems that 'perfect match' is always in another time zone! LOL I am entering a new phase of life. It's giving me more liberty, more time for my own interests. Yet I am not finding a purpose, something to expend my focus and energy upon. In the past, my purpose was always provided by others....wife, kids, job etc. But now, its the job and of course some casual relationships exist...I'm not a hermit. But I find I'm missing that higher purpose....and it is a void that needs to be filled. I can band-aid it I suppose. But fulfilling the need with substance would be so much nicer.....

I think this site has a few sincere individuals on it. I do believe most "subs" are here to satisfy a momentary urge, and many of the so called Dommes are trying to make a buck. I don't really have issue with either, as we all have our own needs and reasons for those needs. But it sure makes it tough to find the real diamond amongst the shards of glass!

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