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Subseeker56

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Subseeker56 - Male Dominant, Hudson Valley New York | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

About Subseeker56

Seeking one submissive woman in the Hudson Valley, western Connecticut or western Massachusetts.


Your age and relationship status are less important than your desire to serve. Yes I have experience and I'm healthy and height, weight proportionate. I'm healthy, DD free, and established. Yes, I own my own car, a couple actually, and I can afford dinner in a very good restaurant. Based on comments about men I've read on women's profiles I figured I should add to comments up front.



My current career, personal and travel status does not permit a full time D/s-M/s relationship but I am looking for something ongoing and potentially long term. If you are a woman looking for the same, please feel free to initiate a conversation. D/s or M/s is not a game. It is a very deep and intimate relationship between two caring adults.



D/s or M/s relationships are DYNAMIC and develop between two people rather than a rigid set of rules. It deepens as the level of trust and mental connections deepen. As a result I'm looking to develop something ongoing. Your age is not as important as your attitude or whether you are just exploring your innate interest in submission or have experience.







Who are we? We/we are the opposite sides of the same coin. We have active and full lives, are well rounded and intelligent. One Dominant the other submissive. you may be single or in a relationship. BUT, SOMETHING is missing. That something is the sexual intensity and, yes intimacy, of a D/s relationship.



you and I are HARD WIRED to crave the intimacy and intensity of a D/s relationship. Of course discretion is paramount... you may have a profile on CS or perhaps just lurking and afraid to come out of your shell. Feel free to message me, there is no shame, no need for guilt and much to gain. With a home here in the Hudson Valley and one two thousand miles away, yes I can often host. HWP, fit, STD and drug free.



After reading many profiles it seems to me there are many who have no idea about the level of responsibility and commitment that a true D/s or M/s RELATIONSHIP requires of both parties. It takes great care to make great a D/s or M/s relationship.





A perfect day for outdoor bondage away from prying eyes.

Yesterday's rain cleansed the air and the plants and everything is a vibrant green color.  The temperature is just right, not too hot nor too cold. 

To my right is a very sturdy sugar maple tree with branch just perfect for outdoor bondage.  you, black leather wrist and ankle cuffs, hands above your head attached to the limb and a spreader bar between your ankles.  Blindfolded you can feel the breeze on your naked skin and hear only the sound of the wind in the trees and leaves.  Have I left you alone or am I near and unseen and unheard?  your mind imagines and y number of possibilities. The sun warms one side of your body while the opposite side is in the shade and cool to the touch.  

Wondering, wondering what awaits.  Will it be some cool fresh fruit pressed to your lips, a gentle caress on some part of your body?  Will it be fingers opening your vaginal lips to see that you are already wet with desire and a measure of anxiety.  A finger stroking your hard clit while seeing your hips start to move back and forth with a mind of their own and you push into My hand seeking more.  Perhaps none of those things but instead clamps on your already turgid nipples or swollen labia... So many possibilities but we have the entire day ahead of us.  The only thing keeping this from reality is your absence...   I welcome your thoughts..
It's 526 miles from Montauk on the tip of Long Island to Niagara Falls.  New York is a pretty big state.  I understand the need for discretion to protect your identity or for reasons of safety.   Listing your location as simply "New York" isn't very helpful.  Women who are serious about finding a real life Dom or Master should at least identify yourself in a county or geographic region.  Just saying.
Did I go through some kind of Time Portal?  Is it possible that I was last on here (CM) four years ago?  If so life sure has taken some unexpected but mostly positive twists and turns in the interim.  

Collarme disappeared quite a while back and now I've stumbled on Collarspace. When did that happen?  


I decided to try my old screen name and sign in and sure enough they worked.  Of course the old messages are gone but the rest of the info is still there.  Some very familiar members still on here and a couple of favorites from times past still here as well.
How often do we create artificial barriers and as a result hold ourselves back from living the lives we truly desire? The following words were written by me for someone several years ago and they helped change her life for the better. Isn't that part of a Master's responsibility toward his sub, to strive for the best in all ways?

"The seemingly invincible wall stood before her.? I took her hand hand and together we walked through it. In doing so, showing her the barrier she thought was there existed only in her mind."

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