I've been doing a lot of thinking and soul searching lately and randomly had thoughts about things that really get me into that sub head space. One that popped up is being called Baby Girl. I'm not sure why I like that expression but I do. Baby Girl, BG - either make my insides go soft and girly. I guess I feel that if someone feels enough for me to call me Baby Girl then I know they "get me" and realize that it puts this goofy grin on my face, and my eyes turn all baby girlish LOL.
The other thing I realize that really makes me get into the sub head space quickly is pulling my hair and restraining me that way. Now not the "ouch, you bastard, that really hurts" type of hair pulling, but the playful tug that gets my attention and tells me to pay attention to you or what is going on around you. I saw a bumper sticker the other day "If you're going to ride my ass at least pull my hair". I laughed so hard and thought, yea, I like that LOL.
I recently had a scene with a Dom friend of mine who knows me pretty well. He always has a part in the scene where he will pull my hair, pull my head back and growl something in my ear. Wow that really will send me into sub space quickly. I really like that combination and often revisit the scenes in my mind and smile at the way it affects me.
Isn't it odd what things make us go all soft and dewy eyed? |