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	I am a suave gentleman who is successful and outwardly totally vanilla. I dress well and move in good circles. Underneath this though I am extremely submissive to women. It may not be obvious on the outside but once in private she can take charge totally and do whatever she wants with me. Her pleasure is my only reward. You will likely be one of three types of woman: A sophisticated woman of the world. Educated and elegant used to getting your own way. Someone who is used to wearing the trousers in a figurative and possibly literal sense. A woman at the other end of the social scale but one who wants and likes the idea of a mature, urbane man at her beck and call. The Elliza Dolittle who likes to turn the tables. A housewife who leads or wants to lead a secret life. On the outside quiet and normal but inside harbouring a desire to be more, to take control. Inside you are Emma Peel and this is your secret. I suppose what I look for is someone with fantasies too but grounded enough to know how to make them reality. How may I be of service?

2/1/2018 3:07:52 AM

Having thought about things even more - I think a lot - I believe the sort of person who would be compatible with me is a lady I might describe as "normal but kinky". Of course she is dominant, but not defined by that: it is just who she is. Intelligent, with a sense of humour is also vitally important, far too many here take this stuff far to seriously.

If any of that makes sense and "clicks", why not say hello?

7/17/2017 9:18:15 AM

Just to be clear to any professional ladies who pass by my profile:
I am 100% okay with traditional pro-Dommes, in fact I have occasionally used and enjoyed their services. I am however, not looking for the more recent sort of FINDOMs or Princesses though who seem to want money up front for no guarantee of anything. I am not judgemental - if that is your thing, good luck. It is not for me.
So if a professional lady of some sort passes by and thinks I might enjoy her services, by all means get in touch, but be aware I will only hand over money in person in the tradtional way.

2/16/2017 8:20:46 AM

The rarest creature on earth would seem to be a woman on here who is not professional, with a naturally dominant aspect happy to chat without expectation either way to a man on the other side. There once were some here, and maybe there even still are somewhere hidden, but mostly this seems to be a place for people to trawl for business.
I have no issue with the upfront ones, but those who hide "the tribute" as a way to filter out "timewasters" annoy the hell out of me. Even more annoying is what that request arrives a few messages into a conversation - not that that is difficult to spot when it is coming in most cases, originality does not seem to be a major thing for that sort person - but it still wastes everyone's time. Just say what you are in the profile then we all understand where we stand.
So on with the unicorn hunt...

7/15/2014 1:29:49 AM

I am listed here as "bisexual" but I think it needs some explanation. I am not symmetrically attracted sexually to me and and women. Mostly it is strong females I am attracted to but if one of them is involved I am happy to "perform" with other men who may be either sexually dominant or submissive to me as the lady pleases. Also as I am attracted to the feminine if that is how someone presents it does not really matter if they are somewhere on the tran-spectrum or what sexual parts they come equipped with: it's their femininity I respond to.
Finally there are a very few men I occasionally feel a spark of attraction to but it is rare and I have never really worked out what in a man may cause that. I know what it is not - the stereotypical "alpha male", muscles, shaven heads and body hair definitely are a turn off (but see above if a lady is telling me all bets are off).
So all of that really means, if you are man alone contacting I probably will not be interested. I never say never but please accept a polite "no thanks" if offered.

7/15/2013 8:18:54 AM

I really do understand that women on here get flooded with mails from men and I equally see why so many say they do not want cut and paste replies.
As a result of this I always try to make my messages relevant to someone's profile and put some time into each one. Yet that effort makes it doubly disappointing to see no reply, even if it is just "thanks but no thanks." I know you are overwhelmed ladies but perhaps even if you don't want cut and paste replies sending one back to someone you are not interested in would be polite?
It feels so disappointing to feel one puts in effort only to see it disappear into a black hole.

1/31/2012 12:28:47 PM

I am back here after a break necessitated by some things in my "real life" that meant I had to drop out of here for a while.

I am back now and and want to add a little more info. I am submissive but I am also intelligent. This means I will not fall for scams involving sending money before I have even met someone. I am sure *you* are genuine but you know how it is there are too many who are not and common sense says one needs to be cautious.

I have a vanilla life as well as this one. That means I do not put a picture of me on here. Yes they do exist and yes of course I will share with someone I communicate with vanilla life also means I cannot respond to you 24/7 however appealing the thought might be. I do want to be "yours" but yours in a way that works in the real world as well as the fantasy one. If personal things mean I have to go off the grid for a short while I am not ignoring you - it's just life and most of us have one.

Now all that is off my chest, I hope there are still those out there who might find me of interest.

5/14/2010 8:52:20 AM

I think of myself as an optimistic person but sometimes this site seems determined to change that. I am beginning to wonder if there are truly any non professional dominant women in the world.

I have no objection to professionals and will happy admit that I have paid for their time in the past, but part of me really would like to meet and share complementary kinks with a woman just because we get on. Is there anyone who will revive my sagging optimism?

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