submissioncries

Submission to me is not the toy, not "scene", not the pain.  Submission is more about who I am, and how I express the feelings compelled by the Man.  Submission is about the MAN...who happens to be kinky and to have won my devotion.  Yes, devotion.

Submission isn't just about the sex.  I LOVE sex - passionately, but there are other realms - mental, spiritual, emotional, etc.  That I have an intensely high sex drive enhances submission but doesn't drive it.

Am I a believer in Male Authority?  Sort of.  I believe in A competent, naturally dominant Male that agrees to take and hold (and work really hard to continue to build) authority over me.  Most men cannot compel my submission.  Most men don't inspire devotion. 

Devotion means I'll sacrifice myself on that alter for the one who inspires me, over & over & over again.  But if you don't inspire it, don't expect it.

To answer the obvious...It seems a common question...why are you here?  What are you looking for?  Who do you seek? 

I actually look for, seek, nothing.  I'm here, on the off chance (smiles softly) that someone rare happens by magic, fate, or Faith to be here as well.  Points were never scored without taking that shot. 

What?  More?  I acknowledge that I am a woman intended to be with a Man, and happiest in that state of loving service.  I am self-aware enough to know my motives, understand my beliefs, and con will go on whether that connection materializes or not.  I know how deeply I can go (but not the extent of the true depths, yet) and what it takes for me to go there.  I'm here, in a sense, as a statement of hope or at least of faith in a small possibility.  Rare unicorns do exist, no?

What?  Still more?

I love sex.  I have lovers and play partners and wonderful people in my life if I choose to be with them.  I respect your right to populate your life with casual engagements if that works for you; it does not for me.  The toys and play and all of the accoutrements of kink are awesome (really, fun, yep)...but it's the Man, how we interrelate, how what He is inspires what I am, who becomes my kink.

No, really.  More?

I believe in Love, Honor, Integrity, Fun, Humor, Playfulness, Leadership, Magic, Respect, Sex, Compassion, Love, Accountability, Mental Connection, Passion, and Intimacy, Intimacy, Intimacy. I believe in a life, not a life style.  I don't want a "scene" but a M.A.N.  I'm equally ok if that doesn't happen.  Most days.