I am open for meeting a single man that has compatible tastes for sexual deprivation to mine that can light my fire on a regular basis and is willing to share vanilla interests as well (aka old fashioned dating with wild, kinky sex thrown in).  

I think that sums it up.

There is a saying:  Women need a reason to have sex.  Men just need a location.  

Oh boy is that true!  hahahaha

I would have never anticipated liking a story of "alien abduction".  Admittedly, if i had to be abducted by a man in a space ship, i wouldn't mind if he had a large, monstrous, throbbing cock to stretch and fill my holes *blush*.    But that is not what appealed to me about this story. 

I found myself identifying with the main character, Marianne.  Her internal struggle with the need to be in control of herself and her destiny and her need to submit, surrender herself, mind, body and spirit; and not so much to surrender to another but to surrender to her to her own needs and desires. 

There is safety in having control of yourself and thinking you know what you want and need.  But what one wants and what one needs can be two different things; and letting go of that control can be overwhelming and frightening.  Sometimes it is a struggle every time you submit; internal voices scream in fear and panic.  Other times it is just there… pure submission as a gift.

The story, while lengthy, also pointed out that the D/s relationship must be fluid and sinuous, adjusting for external forces and circumstances that can affect the need and want.

The line where the submissive gives, and the Dominant takes, is made of shifting sands.  A Dominant must be able to recognize and understand the internal struggles of the submissive and see the external forces and influences that weigh on the mind and psyche.  He must use his intuition, intellect, desire and skill to work through those obstacles and bring a submissive to the point of total surrender.

I know I often struggle with submission.  But I also know that submission has its rewards and can bring peace to my existence; it is worth the struggle.  It is where I find my happiness. 

another day dawns you begin to learn that kisses aren't contracts and presents aren't promises and you begin to accept your defeats with your head up and your eyes ahead with the grace of woman

i sometimes bring myself to read some of the profiles on here and of particular interest are the journal entries... ohhh i find myself laughing out loud!  AlphaDomBull...shit... 

You Dom's with ego's are funny as hell, but no point in arguing with You, You can never admit You are wrong or take responsibility for yourselves.  Just as well... part of You is right and part of You is wrong.  Most women do want a Man to take charge, be the Dominant One in her life, but an ego does not make You a strong Dominant, it makes you an assh*le.    Making your submissive counterpart nothing, to lessen her only lessens yourself.  It takes a strong Man to Master a strong submissive. 

Accepting criticism and learning from it, Knowing who You are, what You want and being truthful to Yourself and others is the makings of a Stong man.  That is the foundation of a strong Dominant. 

I doubt i can save any of You from Yourselves...  Good luck.  Ohhh and keep writing, i need a good chuckle every now and again!

HAPPY HOLIDAYS (or is it Holidaze?)

What I want is someone I can have fun with, share time with and have a relationship with. Be a friend and lover as a submissive woman.

Honest, sincere, intelligent, fun, daring and charming. (NOTE, KEY WORDS: HONEST & SINCERE) If those are some of your qualities, then I invite you to introduce yourself.