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Male Submissive, 48, Sacramento, California
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Male Submissive, 48, staten island, New York
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Male Submissive, 47, Queens, New York
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About submale38
Yes, I am a slave to love. It is interesting to me that so few of the ads on this site refer to "love". Is that not a prerequisite to any lasting relationship, even a D/S relationship?
As your lover, I could easily submit to your every desire and pledge my life to please you. That just goes with love.
I consider myself an alpha male in all respects outside the home. I am a sexual slave.
So, I am putting this out to the universe (or, at least, to collarSpace)...I seek a woman who is strong-willed, dominant in the bedroom, a little to a lot kinky but not a sadist.
I am bi-sexual. For me, that means that, though I love women and could only love a woman, I am sexually attracted to having sex with men. So, I need a woman who understands and supports this.
I am every bit a Scorpio. Passionate, strong-willed, driven in everything I do. I have no fear of doing or trying things I have never done before. I typically do them very well.
I am fit, strong, healthy. I don't smoke, and socially drink. I am well travelled, successful,very financially secure, romantic, highly sexual (to a fault), kind, thoughtful, generous, respectful, good looking (I am told by my mother), and intelligent. I am easy-going but do not suffer fools.
I seek an LTR with a woman who shares these traits. She should be beautiful and in shape.
I am not concerned about where you live but, for your information, I currently live in Victoria BC and love it here.
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It has been an interesting introspection I have endured over the last few years.
Viewing the many profiles here has made me think long and hard about my needs and desires.
I have been married 3 times, each time to a strong-willed woman. I am a strong-willed man, and thus my relationships have been passionate, dramatic, and unfortunately often led to many fights and disagreements. This is the one thing that I really hate - the fighting. I can give so much.
So I ask myself, will giving up all my power be the answer? If I found someone to totally take control, would that solve my crisis? More importantly, could I really do that?
I mean, I already do all the cooking, most of the cleaning, plus all the handi-work in my home (I could build a house from scratch with my skills). Not as a subservient, but simply as the person who knows it has to get done.
My marriage is likely to end soon (due to the fighting). What might be next? Can I trust anyone again?
Perhaps a switch is a better prospect? I would like to understand the switch, and how it works in a real relationship. Would anyone like to share their thoughts and experiences ... either as a Domme who has taken ownership of a strong male, or as a switch who has made it work with another switch?
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