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47 year old slave looking to be owned completely with no rights by a Domme or couple. have been in this lifestyle over 25 years.

there are too many interests to list so i have taken the time to fill out my interests section. please take a look if you are curious.

i have not and will not send or give any money to anyone that I do not know. this includes FinDommes. if completely owned anything I have would become property of my owner(s)

slave register. 000-530-863

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 submale1972

 Male Slave

 Maryland

 6' 0"

 240 lbs

 48

 Pan

 Caucasian

 11/26/08

 03/01/21

Actively Seeking:

Dominant Female

Switch Women

Domme/Dom Couples

Femdom Couples

Friends Only

A Poly Household

 Lives For:

 Travel

 Bondage (Expert)

 Chastity

 Hypnosis (Beginner)

 Orgasm Denial

 Female Supremacy

 Lifestyle BDSM (Expert)

 Loves:

 Fine Dining (Expert)

 Movies

 Sailing

 Blindfolds

 Body Worship

 Collars

 Masks (Wearing)

 Mental Bondage

 Queening

 Strap-Ons

 Vibrators

 Comedy Shows

 Online Chatrooms

 Sitcoms

 Cooking

 Cuckolding (Beginner)

 Rock Music

 Golf

 Likes:

 Amusement Parks (Expert)

 Bar Hopping

 Beachcombing

 Renaissance Faires

 Bicycling

 Camping

 Hiking

 Martial Arts

 Rafting (Beginner)

 Running

 Walking

 Anal Play (Beginner)

 Cages

 Exhibitionism

 Eye Contact Restrictions (Beginner)

 Genital Punishment

 Foot Worship

 Gags

 Hoods

 Housework Service

 Humiliation (Beginner)

 Leashes (Beginner)

 Massage (Giving)

 Obedience Training

 Maid/Butler Service

 Outdoor Bondage (Beginner)

 Public Play  (Beginner)

 Sensory Deprivation

 Speech Restrictions (Beginner)

 Arcade Games

 Board Games

 Card Games

 Cartoons

 Chess

 Cybering

 TV News

 TV Sports

 Web Surfing

 Online Auctions (Expert)

 Photography (Beginner)

 Conservative Politics

 Swinging (Beginner)

 Eighties Music

 Funk

 Heavy Metal Music

 Hip Hop Music

 Pop Music

 R&B

 Rap

 Football

 Ice Hockey

 Skiing

 Tolerates:

 Museums

 Begging

 Enemas

 Domestic Servants

 Hair Pulling

 Massage (Getting)

 Objectification

 Role Playing

 Spanking

 Wax play

 Whips

 Jazz

 Punk Rock Music

 Curious About:

 Aerobics

 Hunting

 Local BDSM Community

 Munches

 Vacuum Stimulation

 Diet and Exercise

 Polyamory

 Paintball

 Sky Diving

 Dislikes:

 Dilation

 Electrical Play

 Medical Play

 Needle Play

 Pantyhose Fetish

 Plastic Wrap

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Rubber Fetish

 Theatrical Scenes

 Tickling

 Watersports

 Hates:

 Crossdressing

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 Diapers

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4/10/2018 5:59:22 AM

Femdom Punishment Ideas...

1) Hold Pennies Against the Wall

This task is very hard: have him hold pennies against the wall using only his fingertips — one penny per finger. Depending on how you position his arms, this can be easy or extremely difficult. Arms spread wide apart forces him to get his face very close to the wall and will tire his arms quickly. Same with his hands being very high up.

For every penny that drops, punish him. Keep the punishments severe enough that he really fears dropping a penny.

You can also make him hold a penny against the wall using his erect cock. This will force him to keep himself hard.

2) Controlled Orgasms

Rules that control his orgasms are the most effective and psychologically impactful rules you can impose. These rules also become good excuses for torment and punishment. The mix of wanting to orgasm and facing big punishments feels very exciting.

Ideas for Normal Situations

  • He has to earn orgasms –> After you have had five orgasms, he gets one. –> He chooses to undergo a punishment or humiliation in order to flip a coin. Heads grants him an orgasm. Tails gets him another punishment or humiliation –> He earns points toward his next orgasm by acting the role of the “perfect slave.” These can only be earned by doing things for you without being asked, and acting the part perfectly. 20 points per orgasm.
  • He must ask permission prior to orgasm.
  • He is allowed to orgasm, but doing so carries an automatic set of punishments or humiliations.
  • Every time he orgasms, he owes you a favor.
  • You pretend to believe that he will take any opportunity to have an orgasm, and go to great lengths to prevent it (chastity belt, lots of restraints, careful supervision).
  • After every orgasm, he must collect his semen and do something embarrassing with it.
  • Come up with a “training regimen” to teach him to resist orgasm. He wears a chastity belt until he can resist your best efforts to get him to come while you reach two or three orgasms.
  • He is forbidden to clean up his own semen if it lands on him.
  • He gets a very short window every day to bring himself to orgasm while you watch. The chastity belt goes back on at the end whether he succeeds or not.
  • He gets a set limit of orgasms per week, which he can trade like currency. (His limit could be one. Or one every two weeks. Just because he can trade doesn’t mean he needs a lot of them.)

When a Slave’s Been Bad

  • Instead of a promised orgasm, he has to edge instead and thank you at the end as if he had an orgasm.
  • Lengthen the time he has to wear the chastity belt.
  • Treat pre-cum as orgasms for punishment purposes.
  • Warn him about a severe punishment if he orgasms, then tie him down and ride him until he does.
  • During the time when he is permitted to orgasm, position his body so that he can’t prevent himself from coming on himself.–>Make him put his knees on the wall behind him so that his cock points toward his face
  • If you are on top and he comes, keep going. The sensory overload is really overpowering. Even though it feels great, it’s a good “mean” thing to do to him.

Punishment Ideas

Remember that if your slave just had an orgasm without permission, he’s less in the mood than he was before. So instead of a regular punishment, pick one that is more severe, and execute it after he’s back in the mood (possibly the next day).

  • Make him write out a coupon for a certain number of days spent in a chastity belt. Spend it whenever you like. If he picks a number that is lower than what you picked, make him choose again and double his next result. (You can choose to have him give you a number of orgasms instead of a number of days.)
  • If he comes inside of you, sit on his chest while his semen drains out of you. Tie him up until it dries.
  • Chain a heavy weight to his chastity belt for a while, giving him something he either has to drag by his balls or deal with as he does other tasks for you.

3) Edging

Edging is the practice of bringing someone very close to the point of orgasm and then baking off. It’s usually done repeatedly, which both increases sexual need and results in the closest thing to multiple orgasms for a man. You can force your Slave to edge himself a few times to increase his sexual need. Or, you can do it to him and punish him if he orgasms. This will force him to resist orgasm.

4) Must Volunteer Information

This is similar to the “Must Not Lie” rule, but forces him to give you extra details whenever he’s answering a question. It can be very useful, because he has to actively think about what other secrets he can divulge. Use it to force him to keep you aware of the things he’s thinking about.

Ideas for Normal Situations

  • He must tell you when he’s horny
  • He must go into detail about what he wants sexually and why
  • Whenever he’s asked a question, he has to answer it, and then say “Also…” and add more details.
  • He must try to help you come up with more effective punishments, more humiliating tasks, and tell you how he might try to get out of obeying you

When a Slave’s Been Bad

Since you can’t read his mind, there’s no way to know if he’s holding something back. Rely on punishments if you find out that he didn’t tell you something.

Punishment Ideas

This is a rule that focuses on helplessness and humiliation. It’s also oral, since he has to tell you things. If you catch him leaving something out, punish him accordingly.

  • Make him write out several punishments and rank them according to desirability. Pick one or more for him to go through.
  • Make him tell you the most humiliating punishment he can think of. If he disobeys again, he has to go through with it.
  • Take away his right to speak for a while. Use a ball gag or tape if necessary.
  • Tell him to apologize. Don’t accept his apology until he recommends a good physical punishment or humiliation for you to employ.

5) Must Keep Legs Spread

Here is a very simple rule that is designed to keep things awkward for him and emphasize that his cock and balls belong to you. Usually the rule is that his legs can’t touch his cock or balls while you are in the room. Tell him that you want to see his balls hanging down.

Ideas for Normal Situations

  • He must keep his legs spread whenever you are within reach of his genitals
  • He must spread his legs on command

When a Slave’s Been Bad

  • He must keep his legs spread at all times, just in case.
  • Tie his legs up by the knees and spread them out. Then tease him by doing things to him that would make him want to close his legs

3/20/2018 7:16:17 AM
sweet torture. tie a slave down, strap this on:

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and put it on the lowest setting. leave him for hours.

3/13/2017 8:15:45 PM
I put on a chastity device for the first time in a while. I love that feeling of having my cock locked up. now if i could only find someone to take the key from me.

12/21/2016 4:10:59 PM
Test How Far You Dare Take Female Domination? 1. What would you prefer his status to you to be?
Submissive(1) Slave(2) Property(3) 2. You agree with chastity and controlling his penis?
No (1)Always (2) Love the idea (3) 3. You think a male should not have the right to set limits on anything you choose.
No (1) Not after a contract is signed (2) Yes(3) 4. You love and care for your male but you crave to humiliate him, hurt
him and enjoy making him suffer whilst he worships you.
No (1) Yes (2) Love the idea(3) 5.You lack the confidence or motivation to carry out your desires:
Never(1) Yes(2) Sometimes (3) 6. If sometimes your males reaction to a command was sullen or impertinent
and not humble and servile. This would anger you.
No (1) Sometimes(2)Yes(3) 7. You would like to see your males body striped with whip marks or canes and would enjoy inflicting pain which is:
Mild (1) Severe (2) Sadistic(3) 8. Keeping your male as a human pet (Dog or Horse) with no human speech rights and living in a caged environment appeals.
No(1) Yes(2) Love the idea(3) 9. Being sexually pleasured by your male whilst him being denied all forms of sexual pleasure is a power rush and an extremely appealing scenario.
No (1) Yes (2) Love the idea(3) 10. You think the male should have no money of his own and you should
control all finances.
No (1) Sometimes (2) Always(3) 11 If he cries out when you cane him or whip him you feel sorry for him or you want to give him more.
Feel sorry (1) Give him more (2) Keep on until he learns to shut up (3) 12. You sometimes feel inhibited in carrying out your true desires with your male due to concern over an adverse reaction on his part so you keep it bottled up inside and this spoils things for you.
Yes(1) No (2) Sometimes(3) 13.You love the idea of living this lifestyle 24/7 but outside elements and real
life get in the way, this:
Isn?t even an issue(1) Sometimes is an issue(2)This is a huge issue(3) 14. The slave/Sub/Property you want is a human being with feelings , for you to be in true control can you push those feelings to one side and go with your desires.
No (1) I?m willing to try (2) Love the idea (3) 15. Your sexual pleasure provided by the male is increased if, at the same time,
he is suffering discomfort pain or humiliation as a result of your actions.
No (1) Sometimes (2)Love the idea(3) 16. You never want back chat or disrespect from your male again and like
the idea of stamping it out completely.
No (1) Yes (2) Love the idea(3) 17. Being served by a male both sexually and domestically , with you forcing him to serve you this way knowing he does now wish to and is hating it, makes the experience more erotic and pleasurable.
No (1) Yes (2) Love the idea(3) 18. You want to have your male beg your permission to do things and fear
the consequences of not begging.
No (1) Yes (2) Love the idea(3) 19. Owning a male who through your cold harsh training regime has been left with no choice but to serve and obey you would be an adrenaline rush for you and would increase your pleasure.
No (1) Yes (2) Love the idea(3) 20. You would be more sexually excited if you ordered your slave to
pleasure you immediately following punishment than at some other time.
No (1) Yes (2) Love the idea(3) 21. Should your slave share your bed or forever sleep caged or chained at night.
No(1) Sometimes(2) Yes(3) Total score?????????????.. Your score will be between 21 and 63. If you have scored 34 or under you should seriously consider just a part time bedroom kink or certainly further soul searching on what you want out of female dominance. If you have scored 35 - 48 then you have it in you to be a truly dominant force you really should introduce some form of compulsion and turn him into a non consensual slave under role play conditions. The benefits to you in normal routine out of role will then be manifold and great. If you have scored 49 - 63 you are a female dominant superior in every way just waiting to control your slave, bite the bullet and live your dreams, true sadist in role play and invisibly in control outside of it. Role play will never be enough for you and eventually you will need a true masochistic slave, a normal relationship will never work for you without a very compatible male or one who can be shaped.

12/16/2016 6:42:05 AM
This weeks orgasm challenge: Attach a small vibrating bullet to the shaft of his penis. Tell him he is to cum as soon as he is able to. Start it out on the lowest speed and leave him with it for 10 minutes. If he has not cum you increase the speed and leave him for another 10 minutes. Continue to increase the speed every 10 minutes until he blows. The number of minutes it took him will be the number of days until he gets to cum again.

12/2/2016 12:29:36 PM

Make the Chastity Cage Key Inaccessible

There are many ways to make the key inaccessible or difficult to retrieve while you’re locked up. A keyholder taking possession is one option but there are many others, whether playing solo or with a partner.

  1. Hide the key in a public place that is not accessible 24/7 : eg: under the corner of a carpet in a public library, or somewhere in a shopping mall. The more restrictive the opening hours and further from the normal places you visit the more awkward it will be to retrieve.
  2. Bury the key in the grounds of a rest stop some distance from home.
  3. Put the key in a box and bury it in the garden. The bigger and deeper the hole, the more difficult it will be to retrieve it.
  4. Go for a walk in the country some distance from the nearest road and hide the key container in a tree, bury near a fence post, the country option can make it really awkward to retrieve if it’s dark, wet, …
  5. Seal the key into a glass bottle by melting the neck together the bottle will have to be broken to access it, a small bottle also makes a good container to bury the key somewhere.
  6. Hide the key in a secure/awkward location where you work.
  7. Visit a friend/relative and hide the key in their house/garden [unknown to them].
  8. Any of the above can be done locally, or at a location you only visit once or twice a month, or some great distance from home.
  9. Put the key on a ring and ask a friend/relative to look after it. [you can add a couple of other keys to the ring and just say it’s your spare house or car keys - doesn’t have to be the actual house key]. This option is a long term one as it limits you to the number of times you can use the excuse of loosing your key / locking yourself out!

12/2/2016 12:27:11 PM

Keep His Cock on the Edge

A few techniques to teasing his penis that keep him on the edge of orgasm. Enjoy the frustration on his face and his moans.

Up Stroke

You really do exactly what the name says you stroke the cock in an up motion only. Place one hand at the base of his cock between your index and middle fingers just to hold it stable. Use your other hand to grab near the base and stroke up to the head. Once you get to the end you release your grip so there is no down stroke. Back down to the base, grasp and stroke up. Repeat this over and over as long as you like. For some reason the Up Stroke just gives him enough to get to the edge but usually not enough to push him over.

Palm Trick

Put a small amount of lube in the center of your palm and create a small cup and place it right over the end of his penis. Then twist your wrist in a circular motion never removing your hand from the head of his cock. This one could go on for a long time. It’s not tiring to for you but it’s practically torture for him.

All Balls

You get a decent amount of lube in the palm of your hand and cup the sack. Then massage his balls and gently squeeze them over and over. Keep it slow, soft and gentle. This doesn’t so much keep them on the edge of cumming but it’s so pleasurable… for awhile… then it becomes very frustrating. The best way to perform this is while your guy is in an “on all fours” position. This is also an awesome way to help milk your guy and get some great precum dripping.


11/29/2016 12:19:42 PM

Red Flags For Online BDSM Relationships

Online Red Flags (Danger Signals, it’s time to hit ignore!) A “Red Flag" is any indication that you should steer clear of a particular person, either Dom/me or sub. These can pop up at any time, though most often in the beginning of a potential relationship. They can be obvious or they can be subtle.

Some common examples might be…

1. Inappropriate questions or comments during the initial conversations, such as do you want to play? or what are you wearing? or what do you look like? or asking for your phone number immediately, etc. Such questions have nothing at all to do with D/s, but rather indicate the person is looking for cyber or phone sex.

2. Moving too quickly: if the prospective Dom/me or sub seems to be in a hurry to begin a relationship, or to advance it faster than seems reasonable or comfortable for you. Like if they want to meet you within the first 10 minutes online. Trust is the cornerstone. and cannot be rushed. Clearly, there is no arbitrary time frame, but most long-lasting relationships take several weeks if not months to build before actual contact.

3. Inappropriate attitude: “bow down and worship me" those who act as if every submissive must obey every so-called Dom, and begin giving or obeying orders from the word go. Or those who have the idea that each and every Tom, Dick, and Harry must be addressed as Sir, whether they know them or not. Many subs in the chat rooms do this, but respect is worth little if it is so lightly given. Both of these attitudes and practices show a poor understanding of the true dynamics of Dominance and submission.

4. Safety violations: reluctance to have a safeword or other safety precautions in place, either during the first meeting or later. Run.

5. Lack of communication: if your potential partner is reluctant to discuss something with you, pay attention. Likewise, and equally serious, if you are told directly or indirectly, that you may not discuss something with others, or may not talk to someone else, or may not go to a particular area, be careful. Trying to “gag" someone is a sign that something is wrong.

6. A persistent bad reputation: or unwillingness to give references. This can be tricky if the person you are talking to is new online, but it is still a red flag. Or perhaps a yellow one.

7. Trashing ex-partners. When someone is constantly talking about their ex publicly in the chat rooms and on bb’s, i.e., trying to ruin their rep, try to keep in mind that you might be their “ex" someday and be subjected to such treatment if things do not go the way they want. This is something that both Dom/mes and subs are frequently guilty of. Warning others of potential danger from an ex-partner is obviously a different case.

8. Frequent inconsistencies. If someone often makes contradictory statements from one day to the next, like Mon. tells you s/he has no children, then on Fri., mentions his/her son’s birthday or something. If a person often seems to have a lot of trouble remembering what they have said to you from one day to the next, it could be that they are telling a lot of people a lot of different things. Just in general, I would encourage anyone to really try to get to know someone before making a final judgment on their character. However, caution and common sense should always rule. If you have doubts, do not give out personal information. You can still talk to this person, but be careful and please, trust that GUT INSTINCT.


11/29/2016 12:16:32 PM

How to make a girl squirt

There are many steps which describe the process about how to make a girl squirt, but all is needed are fingers and oral job. The best advice is to try with exploration in different things, different numbers of fingers, different parts of her pussy and ass. Most important is to be innovative and inventive.

Surely, some of the best fingering comes in conjunction with oral, but there is a little secret that gives to any women best orgasm of her life.

Here are step by step instructions how to make a girl squirt:

You can start by performing oral on her inner thighs, clitoris and labia especially, to start getting her relaxed and wet. You must continually suck and lick the clitoris throughout the duration of the whole oral act, because oral increases power, pleasure and increases chances of female ejaculating orgasm.

With the hand you write with, take two fingers closest to your thumb (pointer and middle finger) and make them wet with her pussy juice or with your mouth. The most important thing is to make sure your nails are trimmed and not sharp, because you could hurt her.

Slide those two fingers in, with the fingerprint part of the fingers facing up (nails down), slide them in firmly but slowly, as far as they will go without using too much pressure. If she is really tight you may need to start with one, and if there is a lot of wetness but resistance, you may need to tease and taste her pussy some more. Once you get those fingers in, tease her inner walls slowly with the pads of your fingers, and get her even more juicy. When you think that she is ready to have the orgasm of her life, you may begin:

  1. Now you will maneuver your fingers to find her g-spot. Yes, it exists, and yes, every woman has one. Slide your fingers in about 2 inches, UP, and then BACK towards the front of the pussy (like you’re going up behind her clitty). Her g-spot is actually a patch of her inner walls which is on the FRONT INNER WALL of her pussy, above the hole itself. So, in, up, and back towards the entrance. You should feel, on that wall, a very rough patch of skin rougher than the rest of her smooth inner pussy. You’ve found it. Congratulations.
  2. By making a beckoning motion with your two fingers (a come hither, bending fingers motion), you should be able to pull the fingerprint/pad part of the tips of your two fingers against that spot. Try it. Pull back against it with your two fingers and press a little. Tease it, stimulate it with your fingers. Make her feel good. She should be squirming and breathing very heavily by now.
  3. As you start to rhythmically tap/press/pull your fingertips against the g-spot, she should start getting wetter. If you’re doing it right, and she’s comfortable with it, you’ll start to hear squelching, sponge-like sounds. The g-spot is like a sponge, it contains a lot of liquid, and feels rough. Keep pressing your fingers against it, over and over, rhythmically, with the same kind of rhythm as if you were sliding your cock in and out of her pussy.
  4. As she starts to get wetter, and enjoy it more, start doing it harder. The more she thrashes from side to side, the harder you do it. Eventually, you can replace the tapping/poking of the g-spot with an outright speed-sliding of those two fingers in and out of her hole. Do it faster and faster, maintain the rhythm, but increase the force. Even when you’re slamming them straight in and out of her hole, try and maintain an upward, outward force with the fingertips, so you’re still pressing up against that g-spot even as you’re slamming her with your fingers with reckless abandon.
  5. Through all of this, she should be squelching, squirming and OBVIOUSLY loving it. If she’s not, you should stop. If she says it hurts (especially if she says it more than once, you might want to stop or at LEAST slow down or not do it so hard. Make sure she’s always wet, not dry for any period of time.
  6. Now here’s the crucial part. When she gets close to ejaculation, she will say that she needs to pee. SHE DOES NOT NEED TO PEE. It’s just a temporary sensation that will pass, but you have to make sure she knows about it beforehand, and you have to make sure she does not stop you, and you do not desist in your slamming. Hold her legs apart with the other hand, if you have to. You can even use your head or knees or whatever to hold her legs open, but make sure she stays relatively still (or she might get hurt on your fingers) and that you KEEP GOING. In fact, when she needs to pee, that’s when you should start doing it harder, cause orgasm is around the corner.
  7. 10-50 seconds after the pee sensation begins, she will start to cum. When she does, DON’T STOP. Just do it harder and harder and harder, pressuring the g-spot upwards all the while. Now she should start to ejaculate. She’ll scream, and her pussy will start shooting clear (transparent), odorless liquid all over the place. There could be a lot of it, it might soak you completely and soak the sheets and everything around her, so make sure you’re prepared.

I guarantee you, if she’s never had one before, the squirting orgasm will be the best orgasm of her life. In my experience, 97% of women are capable of having them, and in certain circumstances, I think it’s more like 99.9%. If you want her to ejaculate in great volumes, have her drink lots of water before you do it, and stay well hydrated. Once she’s finished squirting, SHE CAN SQUIRT AGAIN. Especially if you didn’t do it too hard, and still got her to cum, you can usually start all over, and between one and ten minutes later, she’ll be squirting again. Usually, you have to do it harder each time. My record is seven. The girl that squirted seven times in 45 minutes passed out for 6 hours afterward (it’s physically exhausting and dehydrating) so be careful if you try more than 2 at once.

Most girls pass out after a couple of them. This can make a girl fall in love and at the very least want to fuck your brains out, so use it wisely rather than to your advantage. Don’t take advantage of people using this. If you do it wrong, or if she’s on her period, she might bleed. That’s usually okay, but just make sure you don’t hurt her, and you stop if she’s screaming with pain, rather than pleasure.

You should always have a safe word with your partner, and you should always make sure she knows what you intend to do and that she’s fine with it. Enjoy this, and I hope it works out for you; I hope it works out for HER, even more so. If it does well, just wait and see. I’m jealous of women because of g-spot orgasms! There’s NO male equivalent it’s just absolute ecstasy, nothing less. Remember there are at least fifty ways to make a woman cum (actually lots more) and at least five different types of orgasms so don’t limit yourselves to this whether it works or not.


6/27/2016 3:39:59 PM
How to properly edge... The real art with edging is to learn exactly how to get him as close as possible to an explosion without actually allowing him to erupt. If you pay close attention while you fondle and play, you?ll learn precisely the clear warning signs of an imminent ejaculation. There?s nothing quite like edging for subliminally building a guys libido and desire. Not only will he cherish you more, thanks to neurochemistry, but within a short timeframe his vulnerable and exploitable mind will be totally under your feminine control? Here are some tips: 1 - Make him always tell you exactly how close he is. Kind of obvious, but Insist that he tells you when to slow down and when to stop. Especially in the beginning while you?re learning how to read his body language. Keep talking to him, ask him how it feels, what is best. You?ll soon get the feel of it and he?ll love you even more for it? 2 - Feel for his body and muscles tensing, him holding his breath, arching his back or even tensing, all are signs he?s getting very close. Learn to read and understand the signs and don?t worry if you go over, you?re learning. Just be sure it?s a libido-building ruined orgasm? 3 - Move from strong to soft strokes, from his vein filled shaft up to his tip constantly. Change it up, take your time and make sure you get him ultra rock hard for maximum dopamine production in his vulnerable brain? I personally like lots of lube and oil and fast but not too tight of strokes, and then as he gets closer and closer, move to a looser grip and then focus on his hypersensitive head and frenulem (the strip underneath the head at the top where guys are most sensitive). Also take breaks frequently. It?s better to stop one second too early than one second too late, stroke - edge - deny - repeat? 4 - Make it ultimately his fault if he erupts. So again, if he does explode make sure you properly ruin it. Stop all rubbing and stimulation as soon as he starts to climax. Or if he?s tied down, you turn it into a post orgasm torture, after the ruined orgasm, where you use his slippery cum as lube to keep rubbing his hypersensitive Joystick, scolding him by saying: you?re so naughty, I didn?t give you permission to cum? 5 - When you do want to enjoy his pent up explosions, make that part of the tease too. When you?re planning to make him climax and erupt, this is a great time to also practice your edging techniques. Use it as an opportunity to see just how crazy you can make him, where you?re not worrying about accidently taking him over the edge? 6 - Oh and you can add a wonderfully sadistic element with this line: If you can hold on for just five minutes more my love, I won?t ruin it when you do cum, okay baby? Extra notes 1 - Routine is critical. Edge him every day. For best results: One short session (15 minutes) every other morning; one medium-length session (20-30 minutes) every evening before bed; and at least one long session (40+ minutes) every weekend. If this seems like a lot of time, consider how much time you spend alone doing things you wish he was interested in (like watching your favorite shows on Netflix). This is one activity he will eagerly join. Edging is addictive to male neurochemistry, and it very specifically addicts him to you, as long as you do it regularly. The more you do it, the more deeply he bonds to you, and the more he will crave spending time with you throughout the day. This feeds on itself, and before long, your nightly ?quality time? together becomes perfectly natural for both of you. Even if you?re already in love, married, and devoted to each other, your connection can still go deeper - and the fire of wilder days can be rekindled. No more going to bed alone! Also, any time spent having sex or pleasuring you can count toward his edge time. (at your discretion) Daily orgasms for you, his heat beside you as you drift to sleep, and an eager, attentive lover totally addicted to your touch - what?s not to love? No matter how busy or tired you are, you both have the time for this, I promise. Do it for a week, and you will start making time for it. 2 - Edge him more than once. For most, this is obvious. But for some new to edging, it needs to be said. Don?t just edge him once and assume you?re done. Depending on his stamina (and how long it?s been since his last orgasm) it can take a while to build him up to his first edge of the night. It?s important to think of it that way: ?first edge of the night.? Because once you?ve guided him to his edge - and stopped - he is still highly aroused, and edging him again becomes easy. All that build-up was time invested to get him to his most blissful state. Now ?cash in? your investment and keep him there, by edging him over and over again. It should be easy. A single, slow, tight pump is sometimes enough. Watch his reaction and enjoy the show! (Women report that this is usually their favorite part - guiding their loved one from edge to edge with subtle touches, watching him, and knowing the exquisite gift he trusts only her to give.) 3 - Keep him guessing. Every single time you touch his cock, he should never know if you intend to edge him, ruin him, or give him a full orgasm. Lie to him. Tell him you?re going to stop, then don?t. Or tell him you?re going to ruin him, then give him a full orgasm. Or congratulate him on the orgasm you?re about to give him, then ?change your mind? and stop for the night. This only works if you also sometimes tell the truth. Once he learns you are unpredictable, his body will naturally prepare for orgasm, (every time!) giving him the rush he craves - while his mind reels in fear of the alternatives. You are fucking his mind, in addition to his body - in a very good way! Watch how he reacts - from the curl of his toes to the flare in his eyes. It?s incredibly hot. 4 - A ?ruined? orgasm is when you let go and cease all stimulation, a split second before he climaxes. His cum will sort of just leak out, and it?s not as satisfying as a full orgasm. ?Ruined? is a misnomer, though, because he still gets some small pleasure from it, so don?t be afraid to ruin him regularly. He might thrash, beg, or try to finish it himself, so this is a good time to playfully experiment with restraints - something as simple as tying his wrists together behind his back with a belt or necktie will do the trick. The important difference between a ruined and regular orgasm is that the male libido does not diminish after a ruined orgasm. He will stay horny, eager, erect, and attentive, as though he had no orgasm at all, and you can continue playing, if you wish, after a short break. You can even ruin him twice in one night - the second one is usually harder to achieve, though.

6/16/2016 6:30:06 AM
found this on another site, could be wife, girlfriend and of course Domme:

Male Chastity Benefits for Relationship and Marriage

  1. The male is giving honor to his wife by allowing her to keep his most private area locked away for her use only.
  2. Keeping a man in chastity allows the wife to have a say when he is given the honor of having sex with her.  Men often think that they can demand their wives to have sex anytime.  This is not being very considerate.  The man should consider it a great honor to have his wife allow him to be inside of her and enjoying their intimacy together.  In fact, the man should even ask permission to enter his wife, showing her honor in this way.  After they have intercourse, the man should thank his wife for the honor of having her as his wife and for allowing him to have sex with her.
  3.  A man in chastity cannot masturbate, which is a frequent problem with men.  When a man gets an erection, the first thing he wants to do is to have an orgasm to make the erection go down.  This can be a very damaging event in a relationship because now the man may not have interest in his precious wife.
  4.  A man in chastity will have his focus on his wife.  There is often a brute pride in a man, ordered by his testosterone. A good husband will also be a humble man, and gentle, not ordering his wife and belittling her, but being kind, considerate, helpful, generous, speaking well of her, etc.  It should not take a chastity device to make the man be this way, but sometimes it can be a help.
  5.  A chastity device can be a good training device used by a loving and thoughtful wife to help her husband “learn” how to be the husband he ought to be.  She can set goals and standards.  If they are met, then he just might get a nice “reward” by being let out or getting some nice attention.
  6. There is a heightened level of sexual intimacy that is achieved by keeping a man in chastity.  While he is locked up, the wife can have her sexual needs met by him in various ways.  But when she finally rewards him by letting him out, he will experience a thrill and enjoyment in sexual intimacy that he has not ever experienced before!
  7. Often in a marriage the man wants to have sex far more often than the woman.  When the wife locks her man up in a male chastity device, now she can call the shots as to when they have sexual intercourse.  He must wait patiently and lovingly.  Now they have sex only as often as the wife desires.

5/24/2016 7:52:14 AM
found this on another site and thought it was well laid out:

Here is my chastity training philosophy, in a nutshell:

There is no more effective way to train men than through their cocks/orgasms.

Yeah, yeah…there will always be exceptions. But seriously…this is it. Men are incredibly easy to train if you understand what drives them…

Some women and men have the opinion that keeping a male sub in constant, long (or very long) term chastity is the most effective way to train. I completely disagree. The reason for this is simple: if a man knows his cock will never be allowed to come, then the orgasm ceases to become a motivation, or a carrot, if you will.

So here is what I do. I use the cock/orgasm to reprogram and condition my slave. So what follows involves using chastity as a training device rather than as a punishment or way of life.

Basic steps look something like this:

1. The chastity device…

There are many versions out there, but for this to work, this needs to be a device that is secure and lock-able. I must have the key. I have the power over his cock and he cannot escape. This is an enormously powerful and symbolic message.

2. Putting it on…

Eventually, wearing the chastity device will become second nature – but you must set the example, set the stage, the first few times that you put the cage on. The manner and words and attitude that you adopt when you put this on him for the first time will stay with him as he wears it, and going forward, how he feels about wearing it. The first few times I make sure that he knows how meaningful this is…that I am purposefully choosing to take control of his body, that I am taking his cock, his symbol of masculinity, away from him. Owning it. Controlling it. Mine. For as long as I wish. I make him beg me to put it on. I make him watch as I lock it. I make him thank me for doing it.

3. The Rules…

Now, I have him. He’s mine. Seriously. What will a man not do to have his cock, his pleasure? Both are now mine to command. It is best to have thought this out very carefully before locking him in. Chastity training is very powerful and making mistakes here isn’t desirable.

For the best results, these three components are essential:

# Begin with (potentially) brief and clear-cut stints in chastity…
# Make the things he must do to get out of chastity and/or earn his orgasm very straightforward and obtainable…
# Keep Your Promises…

If you want chastity to be an effective tool, he must see that his behavior is directly tied to his release. At first, the cause/effect correlation must be very clear. Most importantly, you must keep your word. If you say that he will be allowed release from chastity after he has made you breakfast in bed five days in a row, then you must keep your promise. There are lots of memes out there depicting women changing their mind about allowing their men out of chastity. For initial training purposes, this is an absolutely horrible idea. If your sub loses faith in the cause and effect nature of chastity, he will ultimately cease to trust that his behavior will have any impact on his release – thus lessening the power of your ‘threats’.

Now, once his brain has become re-wired and he realizes that he must behave…your timelines can become longer, the tasks more complicated, and you can occasionally change the rules. But I repeat – this should only be done after you have effectively broken him and trained him.

The benefits of male chastity

My rules tend to force him to focus on my pleasure – to force his brain to begin associating my pleasure as a prerequisite to his. Example: He must give me a certain amount orgasms before he is released. Now, I don’t need chastity to have him do this. First, he’s happy to lick my pussy at any time. Second, I could just tell him to lick my pussy at any time. So… why connect this to chastity? Because this is more than him deciding, or me giving an order. This is my choice to literally re-wire his brain to associate my orgasms to his own pleasure. And I don’t keep what I’m doing a secret. I want him to know what I am doing. I want him to know that his body is just the tool I’m using to control his mind. Of course, I add other things on as well, but my pleasure should always come first.

4. The Reward….

Any time the chastity device is taken off, it should be clear that it is a kindness that you are bestowing upon him. Before it is taken off, the rules of his behavior should be crystal clear to him. Is he allowed to have a full orgasm immediately, or at a certain time? For the most effective training, I recommend that immediately following his release, you arrange for an incredibly powerful, satisfying orgasm. One that YOU take part in– either directly, or indirectly. This intense pleasure will reinforce how desirable it is to be out of chastity, and how hard he should be willing to do whatever it takes to earn his freedom from it.

Later, once he has been conditioned and well trained, he will be grateful for a ruined orgasm…for being allowed to touch his cock at all. But for initial training, the orgasm should follow as soon after release as possible. Again, this is quite literally re-wiring his brain to associate you and your control of him with pleasure.

Important Tips:

- If you keep your sub in long term (longer than a month at a time) chastity, it is important for his health that you milk his prostate monthly. This can have the added bonus of highlighting your absolute control over his body.

- Be sure that you understand how to properly fit and install a chastity device.

- An improper fit can cause un-fun pinching or cause un-fun bruising or blood flow problems.

- If you intend to keep your sub in chastity for longer than a day, make sure that you are using a device that will allow for air, and proper hygiene


3/14/2016 5:32:15 AM
Tease Toy Rules:

1) The purpose of a tease toy is to entertain and give pleasure to their owner
 
Tease toys are there to be tormented for the purpose of entertaining their owners. Tease toys don’t get to control when and how they get teased. Tease toys need to have permission to touch themselves or play outside of their owners supervision, and some tease toys shouldn’t even have the opportunity to play outside of being supervised at all. After all, if a tease toy isn’t entertaining someone else with their suffering, then what is the point? That is just reinforcing any lingering ideas that it might have that it’s pleasure is at all about what it wants or desires. 
 
2) Any pleasure a tease toy gets is incidental
 
Tease toys need to understand that their torment is not about them. It is about the fact that their suffering is entertaining and pleasurable to their owner. If a tease toy enjoys the torment, that can be a bonus, but it doesn’t really matter. Tease toys need to understand that their training and service will be uncomfortable. It will push them. It will mean days consumed by a desperate fire burning within them. Days spent aching wishing to be of use. If it entertains their owner then the tease toy is doing its job properly, regardless of how much suffering that aspect of its service may cause.
 
3) A tease toy’s pleasure can be wasted by its owner
 
If a tease toy comes to recognize that their purpose is in entertaining others, this creates an opportunity to remind the tease toy of its place, by denying the tease toy that opportunity. A tease toy who is made to torture themself in private, with no one to witness or be entertained by their suffering is reminded that their place is to follow the whim of their owner. That they have no say in their ability to even fulfill their basic purpose. Also, that a tease toy’s owner has the right to command the tease toy to have any orgasms that the owner desires, taking away the built up desperation that they toy has carefully cultivated at any time, regardless of how the toy feels about it. 
 
4) A tease toy owner’s whim is the tease toy’s law
 
Tease toy owners have the luxury of being able to think and have desires. Once those desires have been expressed to the tease toy, they become the toy’s law and reality. There is no room for debate or arguing. This just is, and is a natural consequence of being a tease toy.
 
5) A tease toy’s thoughts aren’t their own
 
As part of a tease toy’s purpose of being entertaining and pleasing to their owner a tease toy needs to recognize that their thoughts and desires also belong to their owner. A tease toy has the responsibility to tell their owner how their suffering could be more entertaining or enhanced by the owner. A tease toy cannot be permitted to hide buttons that their owners can press, or the fantasies that make them drip and suffer so beautifully. That would be denying their owner a chance to be entertained and run counter to their purpose. Secret keeping around fantasies or desires cannot be accepted. A tease toy owner must be informed of all of the options available to them to torment their toy. Whether they take advantage of them or not, is of course, up to them

1/29/2016 12:44:43 PM
a good writing task website: writeforme.com

11/24/2015 5:19:05 AM
When he Cums - He Has to Eat his Semen
If you let him jack-off, make him lick it up
If he is wearing a condom, pour its contents into his mouth
If he cums in your pussy, make him eat a cream pie
If you give him a blowjob, feed it to him

You can get creative too, like making him cum in a glass and drink it at dinner
Mention to one of your friends that he likes to eat his own cum
you should do this in front of him, so that the words ring in his ears
Let him deposit his load on a small plate which will be placed on the floor.
His hands should be tied behind his back and he has to get on his knees and put his face to the plate and lick it all up
Let him cum over your feet and lick it all off - let it will run in between your toes - it is humiliating and quite a challenge to lick it all up
Force him to eat things that will make his cum taste very bad
Have him lick his cum from the surface of a mirror on the floor
Have him cum on a spoon then take it in his mouth but he could not swallow before he has clean the house or another task
His legs above his head, and he should cum straight into his mouth
Let him cum on the toilet seat and have him lick it all up
Let him cum, collect it and put it into his ass with a plastic syringe to prove why women don't like it when you come inside them. Lesson learned!
Let him cum in a condom and invert it over a dildo and face fuck him with the dildo
Let him hump your backside, when he cums have him eat his cum from the crack of your ass He will not want to do this, but he will on your command. Demand it! As he is doing it, enjoy it. Make this a positive event.

11/6/2015 3:32:13 PM

Take the 1000 stroke challenge

The rules are this:
he must not cum until he completes the challenge, but he can take a break at any time, so long as he gets his daily strokes in without coming. If he fails to get his days required strokes in by midnight he must start over on the next day.  
 
On the first day, he must endure 100 strokes without coming, and each day increase the number of strokes by 100, until the 10th day when he must endure 1000 strokes without coming


10/4/2015 12:25:43 PM

yournewkeyholder

:

The following is a list of things that you should be doing. Not everything will apply in every case, and there may be things not on the list that work for you.

1. You must absolutely take total control of his orgasms!

  • You must get him to wear a chastity device of some kind.
  • You should put it on him yourself and only you should hold the key.
  • Let him out at your discretion only and only for teasing or release.

2. Control your own feelings of guilt.

  • He should never be permitted to have any kind of orgasm without your permission.
  • If you feel he deserves an orgasm… Ruin it!
  • Remember, you can ruin several orgasms a day, but he can only have one full one.
  • Full orgasms should be for very special occasions (no more than 3 or 4 per year).

3. You must get into his head!

  • Learn his fantasies and what turns him on.
  • Tease him with your words whenever possible.
  • Find out what humiliates him.
  • Use his humiliation whenever possible.

4. You must keep him sexually aroused as much as possible.

  • Talk sexy to him.
  • Tell him you are going to make him do something humiliating.
  • Fondle him, or let him fondle you.
  • Send him text messages with orders to do something sexual.
  • Make him give you orgasms frequently.

5. Make him do something humiliating.

  • Make him wear a butt-plug for a time.
  • Make him be naked when you are not.
  • Make him masturbate for you.
  • Always, ALWAYS make him eat his own cum no matter where it is deposited.

6. Punish him whenever he displeases you.

  • Don’t let him get away with anything!
  • Spank, paddle, or whip him.
  • Humiliate him in some way.
  • Put Bengay or Icy-Hot on his cock, balls, or anus.
  • Make him do anything he hates.

7. No matter what you are doing, or where you are, find ways to tease him.

  • Fondle him through his pants in public (or in private).
  • Whisper sexy or humiliating things in his ear.
  • Make him shop for lingerie with you.

10/4/2015 12:15:26 PM

Take the 1000 stroke challenge.

The rules are this… he must not cum until he completes the challenge, but he can take a break at any time, so long as he gets his daily strokes in without coming. If he fails to get his day’s required strokes in by midnight he must start over on the next day.

On the first day, he must endure 100 strokes without coming, and each day increase the number of strokes by 100, until the 10th day when he must endure 1000 strokes without coming.


4/7/2015 1:43:12 PM
custom fit chastity devices. expensive but worth it. I will be ordering one of these very soon:  http://www.steelwerksextreme.com/

2/23/2015 6:47:23 AM
new BDSM test results:

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70% Exhibitionist
58% Brat
54% Primal (Prey)
54% Voyeur
33% Pervert
17% Primal (Predator)
13% Bondage Giver
4% Switch
4% Vanilla
0% All-Rounder
0% Brat Tamer
0% Daddy/Mommy
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8/15/2014 10:09:24 AM
i love wearing my cb6000. i love the feeling of being confined and not able to get fully hard. would love to have a Dominate female own me and keep me in chastity as long as she wants. 

6/1/2014 5:27:31 PM

happy to the see the site is back. not crazy about the name. hope more will find it eventually.


5/27/2013 7:41:17 AM

anyone in to hypnotizing slaves? i would love to be made into the perfect slave hypnotic suggestion. snap of a finger and i get hard, stay hard no matter what is happening. i cannot come without permission. one the other side She could make me cum with just a word, no touching.


5/24/2013 1:04:39 PM

found a pretty nice task sheet that allows the Dom/me to keep track of things a sub/slave does. can be used for many things, sush as a sub/ slave needing a certain amount of points to be allowed to cum. let me know if you want the full document. i will be more than happy to email it out.


12/30/2012 6:15:44 AM

i wonder how long a male slave could be kept on the edge of orgasm without going over. i often have this fantasy that i am one of Mistress' many slaves and one weekend it my my turn for torture.

She has me securly strapped down to a table in the middle of the room while her other slaves take turns stroking me, keping me on the edge without going over, 24 hours a day for 3-4 days(no idea actually, could be a week).  they work in shifts to keep is going all night and all day. while i am being tortured this way i am also forged to please the other slaves, bot male and female orally.

at the end of the torture period i am iced up and locked back in my chastity cage without ever reaching an orgasm


12/27/2012 10:10:40 AM
the need to serve, please, and be controlled is overwhelming at times. i am lost with them.

8/7/2012 1:41:19 PM

living as a slave i would love for this be the way i was allowed to cum:

 

after i was able to give my Mistress a minimum of 10 orgasms(not during the same session) i would be allowed to roll a 64 sided dice(from the old D&D days). in order for me to be allowed an orgasm i would get 2 chances to roll a combined total of exactly 120. if i did not make it to 120 i would have to wait until i pleased her 10 more times. if i rolled a 121 or higher i would be given a ruined orgasm. 


8/6/2012 5:20:10 AM

i am such a slut. For the past 2 weeks i have been teasing myself to almost constant arousal. i have not been with a Dominate person for a long time so i need to do what i can to myself. i have been reading BDSM stories for hours a day. the past 3 days i have, on the hour teased myself to right before the point of no return and then stopped(i must say, that the time it takes to get there is becoming very short). i think i have a constant stream running down my leg. hard to wear shorts now as people will see the wetness.


3/29/2012 3:03:31 AM

Last night i had an awesome dream. i was one of 3 male slaves and 5 female slaves on a compound run by a Mistress; she had a helper female slave. Males were kept nude at all time, unless going to work outside of the property. Females were clothing optional. The males were kept in chastity 24/7 unless the Mistress unlocked them. Females could receive oral from the males whenever the females wanted, never when the males wanted. Once a month the males were allowed release. If they were good they were allowed to orgasm by receiving a blow to completion from another male. The other male had to swallow all of it. If they were not good it would be a ruined orgasm or just milked.

All the slaves worked around the property for food servers, cleaning ,upkeep, ETC.

i wish i could have a continuation of that dream every night, or better yet, find the right situation to live that out in real life.

 


12/22/2011 2:09:16 PM

Dreamlover 2000, i think it the perfect compliment to male chastity.

 

http://www.dreamloverlabs.com/dl2000.php


10/5/2011 2:52:33 PM

it has been a while since i have had any contact with a Domme, either in real life or on line. i crave that contact again. i am lost without a Domme to talk with, obey, please. my life is will remain unfulfilled until i can have the contact i so desperately need.


6/2/2011 1:51:48 PM

so i have always heard about places that Dom/me can send slaves to be trained to be a better submissive/slave. what if we flip that around and have a Dom/me controlled/ run ranch that had a bunch of submissives/ slaves that new Dom/me could come in and learn to be a better Dom/me?

 

find a large plot of land somewhere and have a ranch style setup that would have subs/slaves doing all the work but it is basically training compound where experienced Dom/mes can show/ train new or inexperienced Dom/me how to be better.

 

i would love to hear your input on this idea and i am seriously thinking about starting something like this.


5/4/2011 8:53:35 AM

i think i have known this for a LONG time but felt like i need to express it. in my mind there is nothing better in the world then making a Female orgasm with my mouth. the taste to smell, to the sounds and motions She makes, it is the best thing in my world. i can never get enough and would love to do it for hours if not days on end.

 

i need it, i crave it, i cannot live without it.


2/25/2011 2:10:30 PM

i am craving the control of a Domme. i need to serve Her, i need to see She is pleased by my actions. i need to controlled in ways that make Her happy.


5/28/2010 9:38:27 AM

APPLICATION TO GO OUT AND RETURN LATE

 

Name of submissive/slave:                                                                                                                    

 

I request permission for a leave of absence from the highest authority in my life for the following period:

 

 

 

 


Date:                                       Time of departure:                                        Time of return:                      

 

Should permission be granted, I do solemnly swear to only visit the locations stated below. Nor shall I speak to another person other than those listed without gaining verbal permission one hour beforehand. I will not turn off my mobile after two pints, nor shall I consume above the allocated volume of alcohol without first phoning for a taxi or ordering a tandori. I understand that even if permission is granted, my Domme/ Dom retains the right to be pissed off with me the following week for no valid reason what so ever.

 

 

 


Amount of alcohol allowed (units)                                                                                                               

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       

 

Locations likely to be visited

 

 

 

 


People likely to be encountered

 

 

 

 

 


Strength of curry permitted

 

 

 

I am the low life. I know who wears the trousers in our relationship, and I agree it’s not me. I promise to abide by your rules & regulations. I understand that this is going to cost me a fortune in chocolates & jellies. You reserve the right to obtain and use my credit cards whenever you wish to do so. I hereby promise to sleep overnight on a park bench next to a tramp should I not return home by the time approved below. On my way home, I will not pick a fight with a person who only exists in my inebriated mind, nor shall I conduct in depth discussions with the said entity. I understand that the wardrobe, cupboard, washing-up basket, fridge and dishwasher are out of bounds with regards to urinating.

 

 

I declare that to the best of my knowledge (of which I have non compared to my BETTER half), the above information is correct.

Signed – submissive/slave:

                                                                                                                                                                       

Request is APPROVED / TURNED DOWN

 

This decision is not open to negotiation other than on my terms.

"……………………………………………………………………………………………………………

Permission for my submissive/slave to be away for the following period of time:

 

 

 

 


Date:                                       Time of departure:                                        Time of return:

 

 

Signed – Domme/ Dom:     


2/26/2010 1:51:14 PM

should be said everyday by every slave that is owned....

I do not get to cum. Male orgasms are not permitted. The penis on my body is not mine; it is my Mistress'. The penis does not exist for my pleasure; it exists for her to do with as she wishes. I will obey my Mistress. The swelling in my testicles is proof of my devotion. I love the ache in my penis; it is a testament of my love for her. Though I desperately yearn to cum, my only purpose is to bring pleasure to my Mistress. I do not get to cum. Male orgasms are not permitted.


2/24/2010 9:25:26 AM
found a new software program for slaves. it is a slave training of sorts. from what i have sen so far it is pretty neat. i found it in the cb-3000 yahoo group. it is called slave training program.

if you would like to get it and cannot get it from the yahoo group please contact me and i will send you my copy.

1/3/2010 8:10:46 AM
new location for the Fond of Writing task software:

http://www.missschris.com/spankingtech.htm

8/2/2009 7:02:54 PM
i am sure others have thought and wrote about this in the past, but this just came to me. how about a game with a sub in chastity that goes something like this:

-sub/ slave is locked in a chastuty device

-there is a bucket with 100 balls in them, 31 of them are marked with a number between 1 and 31

-the other 69 are blank

-each day the sub/slave is given the opertunity to cum, if he picks the ball with that days date on it

-for every day he misses the date that is the number of times he will be taken close to the edge of cumming and then denied

variations could be numbers of orgasms he has to give his Domme, number of days he has to wait until trying again and so on.


thoughts? please let me know.

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