SublimExperience

Transgender Submissive, 53, London

Female Submissive, 29, Columbus, Ohio

Female Submissive, 20, Daytona, Florida

My slave has disappointed me today. Five days ago he asked me for a task. I told him to write me a research paper on the psychology of the submissive. In five days, he has not even started. That is simply unacceptable. He has until 12 am (11 hours) to complete his assignment or he will receive a punishment for each hour that is late. I would love some punishment suggestions....

So a user messaged me and tried to strike up a conversation with me. Only problem was, he'd already had it with me. I mentioned that perhaps searching through your mail to see if you've spoken with someone before would be less embarrassing. He then accused me of not having a sense of humor and taking life too seriously. He then blocked me. I only wanted to say that I remembered having spoken with you before and am naturally offended you didn't remember.

I have heard people mentioning a picture database where you can search to see if someone has stolen someone elses' picture. Can anyone tell me about it?

Often I look through the profiles here and feel sad. So many submissives without an owner. I wish I had the time to own them all.

Oh, the tricky subject of age and the lifestyle. I read a lot on here about people complaining about the twenty-something Doms/Dommes on here. Usually I am of the opinion that age holds no value here, it doesn't speak of experience in the lifestyle. But I do understand the sentiment as well. All these young people, surely not all of them are here out of that feeling we all got, that feeling of not-quite-at-peace, that missing link that drives us to serve or be served. I say 'we' because though I am young, I am very true in my quest here and believe that age shouldn't be a qualifier. Still, I see profiles of 19 year olds who say they have owned slaves for years previously. Maybe they aren't lying, but as I remember my years in school, I wonder how that would be possible. I have been interested in the lifestyle since I was 14 and was introduced to it by a boyfriend. I didn't own him or think of it at the time. I was just a kid mastering this power others were so glad to hand over to me. I guess while others were harnessing and using their power over others, I was learning about it and quite frankly, trying to reject it. I am a good leader, others fall into line like it's natural to them. As naturally as it all came, I spent a lot of time wondering why I was entrusted to make others' decisions for them, why I was mindlessly appointed leader time and again. It seems that while my comrades were embracing their power, I was breaking down the WHY of it. Some people are leaders while others are not. It is what it is. In order for one to exist, so must the opposite. The problem lies in the fact that just like in our childhood, there are often too many Chiefs and not enough Indians. The problem is when people misinterpret their role in life. Most relationships can be likened to D/s relationships. There will always be a leader and a follower, a chain of command. I say this as an explanation, as a warning. Do not follow these false leaders, these masquerading Dominants. They don't know there isn't any shame in serving if it's what you were created for. We are all aware that there are liars and fakes among us, but I fear we get too caught up in their web of lies. Submissives pretend to be Dominant, but it works both ways as well. I've witnessed a man on here who pretends to be a sub, pretends to relinquish power, but really he is getting off on his power over you. Have some intelligence, but also have some hope. Don't blindly follow those around you, hold out for what you've been searching for, not a cheap idol to put in place of the real thing.

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