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	About SubInstinct 2-24-12: Dominance is about strength, not force. It is about caring, not indifference. And it is about the wonderful bond that can occur when two hearts entwine. Giving is so vital to the survival of a bond in our lifestyle. When two individuals give of themselves to the other in every way imaginable... magic happens ~ Dancing on the Fringe of Darkness. Update 7/30/11: Please read journal entries before sending me a msg. ~A submissive's Creed~ i am a submissive woman… i find pleasure, joy and fulfillment from being submissive to another in a loving relationship i am not weak, or stupid. i am a strong woman, with firm views and a clear concept of what i want out of my life. i do not serve out of shame or weakness, but out of pride and strength. i look to my loving Master for guidance and protection, for never am i more complete than when He is with me. i know that He will protect my body, my mind and my soul with His strength and wisdom. He is everything to me, as i am everything to Him. His touch awakens me and His thoughts free me. Only in serving Him do i find complete freedom and joy. His punishments are harsh, but i accept them thankfully, knowing that He has my best interests always foremost in His mind. If He desires my body for pleasure, i shall joyfully give it to Him, and take pleasure myself from knowing that i have brought Him happiness. However, the pleasure of the flesh is but one facet of any relationship. The love, the trust and sharing, the words spoken and felt, those are all parts of this relationship. my body is His, and if He says i am beautiful, then i am. No matter what i look like to others, i am beautiful in His eyes, and because of that i hold my head high for who can tell me that my Master is wrong in seeing the beauty in me? If He says i am His princess, then i am that…regal and graceful. And if i see laughter at me in the eyes of others, i do not recognize it, for who are they to call my Master wrong? If He says i am His toy, His slut, His tramp, then i am that…as wanton and dirty as He wants me to be, and if others do not see this, then it is they who are blind, not my Master. my mind is His, to expand, to explore, to know as only He can. i have no secrets from Him…for secrets are a thing that would keep me from being perfectly His. Secrets would put a wall up between my Master and myself…and i do not want walls. His lessons are not always ones i would seek on my own, but they are lessons He has decided i need, and so i learn from Him. my soul is His, as bare to His touch as ever my skin could be when i kneel naked at His feet. Never a moment goes by when i do not feel his presence, be He miles away or standing over me. If i were to ever displease Him, His displeasure would be a blow to my soul, worse punishment than any lashes could be. The anguish of my soul that i feel when i disappoint Him is harder to bear than the physical anguish i feel when His belt caresses me with fire. i spend my days knowing that the energy and thought He puts into our relationship is as much for my benefit as for His, and look forward to each lovingly crafted scene that we do together. i am His pleasure and His responsibility, and He takes both seriously. i am a submissive woman. i am proud to call myself that. my submission is a gift that i do not give lightly, and can only be given to One who can appreciate that gift and return it tenfold. Only to He who has that strength will i give myself fully, because i am strong and proud.

“Dominance is about strength, not force. It is about caring, not indifference. And it is about the wonderful bond that can occur when two hearts entwine. Giving is so vital to the survival of a bond in our lifestyle. When two individuals give of themselves to the other in every way imaginable - magic happens.”
— fringe of darkness

The Red Rose, almost fully open, signifies Dominance. The red represents her passion and his desire to possess and protect her at all cost; though it may require him to spill his blood to do so. The rose is almost in full bloom to symbolize that he is ready to accept the responsibilities required of him.? The White rose, still not in bloom, symbolizes the slaves submission. The white rose represents the purity of her gift, while the still slightly closed petals show that her submission had not come to full bloom. It never will. Submission is ever deepening; ever growing and the submissive will never reach a place where she cannot open a bit more for her Dominant.

"The moment He cinches her collar ~ she is released."

"First enter her mind~ contol her thoughts... the body will follow..."

I may be wrong but I'm going to throw it out there and see what people think. To me a true Dominant is just naturally dominant, it's an intrinsic part of who he is. So, I don't believe you can be a "switch" and be truly dominant. Oh, you can play at it! But to have a long-term D's relationship where the psychological dynamic is the foundation, no way can it work if your not dominant to the core. I've met a few that claimed to be Dom's, but when I would go for a meet-n-greet they would seem intimidated, nervous, indecisive. Not my idea of a Dom. But I could be completely wrong! I doubt it, though.

To the question of what I seek: A loving, respectful, caring, naturally dominant man to love, cherish and protect me. One who will treat me like a treasure and his whore. One who will not be intimidated, who enforces his rules with a loving but strict hand or belt. One who can make slow passionate love or bend me over the kitchen counter and fuck me hard and without question, take what is his, however he desires to take at that moment. A mental and emotional bond just as strong as that physical bond. To have that ultimate trust in someone that I imagine is what is needed to give complete and total submission. This is what I seek.

Seems like ages ago, and yet, she craves now?.she yearns to be taken again?.despite her fears?..she realizes His intuitions have been prophecies.

?Love is as much of an object as an obsession, everybody wants it everybody seeks it, but few ever achieve it, those who do, will cherish it, be lost in it, and among all, will never?never forget it.? ? Curtis Judalet .

fringeofdarkness: She succumbs now to a force that pulls her to him in the most intimate ways. ?In doing so, her sexual center has moved from her needy little cunt to a higher plane and a higher sense of fulfillment. ?Self-pleasure was a way of life, but was a poor proxy for the indescribable joys she has come to know under His hand. ?She now receives her pleasure from Him - whenever and wherever He desires. ?He alone may allow her to pleasure herself at His command - and she feels no shame nor hesitation in showing him her eagerness to please. ? Ironically, He had to take her down to the depths in order to break bad habits and free her to soar like this. She was a strong, rebellious type, but?He was unwavering in His command, support, and discipline. ?THIS is what she craved more than anything - a man with the strength to bring her to a higher place and to instill both?respect and devotion in the process. Submission is freedom. ?A joyous lesson learned.

Update 6-29-2011: The words on my profile listing are not my words. The work is named 'A submissive's Creed'. The words touched me on a very deep level and I couldn't have expressed what I desire any better. I assumed that the work would be recognized and not mistaken for my own words. Also, the pictures are not of me. I thought the pictures were obviously professional. They are beautiful representations of submission to me. I was not trying to be misleading in any way, please forgive me if you thought otherwise. I do have private pics that I would share upon request.

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