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Male Submissive, 52
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Male Submissive, 51, Rockford, Illinois
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About subilguy
Thanks for reading. I'm a very serious submissive male seeking a very dominant female, TS, or couple who ultimately wants a 24x7 live in slave. Someone who wants to use, abuse, take advantage of and exploit me for her own personal benefit. If this sound interesting, read on.
First the basics. I'm a 42yo SWM, 5'10", 165#. I'm an attractive, in shape, professional who currently lives in Chicago but can relocate. I've got many good vanilla qualities including sincerity, honesty, intelligence, a sense of humor, and an eagerness to please. I'm comfortable in a wide range of social situations that literally range from black tie fundraisers to a dive grill in a sketchy neighborhood. I can hold a conversation on a wide range of topics and won't embarrass you.
In short, I'm the kind of guy who would be a good vanilla catch. But I happen to be extremely submissive. I'm not the wimpy kind of guy who gets pushed over in his daily life. But something in me craves serving and being used for the benefit of another. I find that the more dominant a woman is, the more submissive I become.
I'll tell you want I'm seeking, not as a wish list I expect you to fulfill, but to give you an idea of who I am so that you can decide if I'm someone you are interested in. No matter what anyone says, there just has to be great compatibility and chemistry here to make things work. If you don't match exactly what I say but am otherwise interested, by all means please do write.
I'm hoping to find someone who is the more harsh, aggressive, extreme, and demanding domme. Someone who sees a slave as just that - someone who is here to make her life easier, better, and happier. Someone where she doesn't have to worry if it is ok if she does something to me. Or who worries whether or not I'm having a good time. Or feels she has to reward me. I hope to find someone who is very selfish and cares almost 100% about herself.
As for me, I am ready to serve in every way, though of course there would be limits on things along the way as we learned each other and built trust. I'm very much into non-BDSM service and am extremely domestically oriented. I am excellent at keeping a house clean. One reason I love this is that if I scrub your toilet, I can immediately see how I am making your life easier by removing drudge work. I'm also up for yard work and other general errand. I'm not much of a cook or handyman yet though, but am willing to learn. Of course it will take time for me to learn what you want and how you want it. I'm sure I'll screw things up at first. But hopefully I won't repeat mistakes and will quickly learn. I'm not someone who deliberately screws up in order to get "punished." I expect that if I don't please you, you'll simply get rid of me. I'm also ready for financial enslavement, though with this site being what it is, I'm going to be very cautious here. I certainly don't want any kind of pay to play relationship.
In the BDSM world I'm looking for someone who is fairly extreme, at least in some areas. I am not looking for any time of fantasy super-bitch-domme 24x7 or anything like that. I can tell you that fetish attire, role play, etc. mean nothing to me. I'm also not really into the rituals of BDSM and such. Rather I hope to find someone for whom this is a primal expression of who they are. Something where you just naturally do things as they come to you.
There are a couple of major interest of mine.
By far the most important is extreme, hardcore humiliation and degradation. The more worse you treat me here the happier I am. I do have a particular interest in toilet service and would love to find a woman who wants to convert my mouth into as close to her full time toilet as convenience allows. So if you don't have at least some interest in watersports, we probably aren't a match. Though even here if otherwise you have some particular interest, let me know. I'm also strongly interested in long term, enforced orgasm denial and the denial of sexual pleasure. Hopefully you think that slaves flat out don't deserve any sexual rewards, no matter what. By setting the expectation up front that we will never have sex and that I'm not going to get any type of direct sexual pleasure from this, that keeps the focus squarely where it should be - on your needs, wants, and desires. Other things I am interested in here include verbal abuse, face slapping, being spit on, forced nudity, collars and leashes, being kept caged or chained up, being forced to sexually service men, being loaned out to others, semi-public service such as at parties or with others over at your place, eye contact restrictions, being not allowed to use furniture, made to eat and drink from dog bowls, etc. None of these are necessarily fetishes, but mean something to me as you would use them to dehumanize and degrade me. For example, I have no interest in dressing like a woman, and I'm not really feminine to begin with, but if you decided to strip me of a male identity, take away all of my my clothing, force to dress exclusively as a woman when dressed, maybe even put me on hormones, etc. that might be something I'd like.
Also, I would like to find someone who is sadistic. I don't care about any sort of BDSM play here, though of course that's ok. Instead I'd like to find someone who is violent and abusive, who just plain enjoys beating the shit of me, working out her frustrations and anger on me, etc. And someone who uses violence and abuse as a control mechanism to keep me in fear of you and dependent on you almost like a battered spouse. The more raw and visceral this is the better. I'm not a masochist by the way. Pain really hurts me and I don't get pleasure from it.
That's basically it. I am happy to explain more of you want. To me the most important thing is ultimately your attitude. If you are an extreme domme who really wants to enslave a guy and use him hard, I'm open minded on this. Definitely I will say that the more aggressive you are, the better I respond. Things like age (as long as you are legal), weight, race, appearance are not important to me.
As far as limits, those are basically nothing illegal, nothing seriously dangerous, and nothing likely to cause long term harm. Until we were convinced this was a truly long term ownership situation, I'd also have as limits no permanent marks, and no video/photography type things. I probably also wouldn't want to be put into inescapable bondage until we knew each other better and established some trust. But you should definitely feel comfortable being very aggressive out of the gate.
Of course, I'm not looking for just BDSM, so I'm ready to invest the time in the right person and demonstrate through actual service and performance that I am who I say I am. I realize that what I just wrote can sound a bit fantasylandish. And anyone can say anything on the interest. I am not going to promise you the world or that I'm the guy for you. I will only say that I will be honest and straightforward with you. And if I say I'll do something, I'll do it. Please ask me any questions you have and I'll answer as best I can.
Thanks so much for reading this long profile. I wanted to try to give you all the info you needed up front to make a first screening decision without wasting your time on a bunch of emails. If you are interested at all, I'd definitely appreciate hearing from you, and I'll respond to any serious note.
WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its
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both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a
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