subforlongterm

Hello ladies im a sub/slave clean, SINGLE, gentleman that is very honest, caring, real, and widower after 34 years of marriage to my dom/wife. After 2/1/2 years im ready to find a lady to spend the rest of my life with.

To me this is not all about the sexual aspects but rather the mental and mind set in wanting, needing, craving to serve.

Im quite alpha and masculine in my daily life but crave the control of a strong woman who can discipline/reward me as needed.

I've been trained in orgasam control and made to masterbate constantly with no release unless earned and realize that my orgasam means nothing and is unimportant. When i had earned the right to orgasam it was quickly consumed by myself.

I'm also a well trained oral slave and must admit honestly i miss this the most as i get such mental pleasure out of using my tongue to keep my lady clean and pleased. One of my best rewards was to clean her after she enjoyed another man.

I enjoy many activities such as fishing, boating, swimming, football, hockey, movies, tv news, and spending time with my two children and four grand kids.

I have no baggage as am a very light drinker only when i go out--no drugs, no s.t.d. and never have had any criminal issues.

I realize the bullshit, game playing, wanna bee's on here and can only say that im direct, blunt, and dont lie regardless of reason.

Most important i dont try to top from the bottom--I dont care what im into but rather whats important is what you demand and need as this makes me fulfilled.

Im not a big pain person so being whipped or being with a sadistic women will not work. Obviously i realize that having my butt spanked hard for discipline reasons is needed.

My attitude is simply that whatever is required of me sexually i will do as if it makes you happy and meets your needs thats why im here for you.

I have yahoo chat so if you like my profile lets chat and see where things go. Im not one for endless emails once a week and game playing. If your as real as me then lets talk and see where it goes.

Take care and if im not your type i hope you find that which you seek.