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Female Submissive, 34, millbrook, New York
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About subbytit

Hi Everyone. this is who and what I am. I am a switch, that enjoys being both sub and dom. I love to play with others, and am usually open to most circumstances.

Weight, and age is not important, the spirit you have inside is. If you are looking for a live in situation, I am totally not your Woman. My life is rather stable at the moment, and I prefer to keep this lifestyle in separate living arrangements.

well everyone, I am a switch. It is who and what I am. I am what I am, what am I this week? Hard to say, depends upon the person, their demeanor, and how they come across to me.

no one person on this earth is like another. We all have dreams of a perfect tryst with someone else, that will lead us to nirvana. I have as of yet to find that..  hopefully nirvana will find me one of these days
Well as in the case of a switch.. guess what?  sub side is back ..  For me it is a 50/50 strength in my psyche.

yep the sub is back.. so if you have a notion to speak to me, understand. I am still looking just for females.
I am becoming aware that I am far more Dom than sub these days. But these things happen.

I am pretty much looking for a female subs tho at the moment. I adore women, and Love to play with them. Bringing out the submissiveness in a woman, is a totally amazing thing to me. So if you are a lesbain or switch woman.. looking for a rather different sort of Mistress... message me..

I will speak to you, and we can begin a discussion, and see where it goes.. Nothing lost.. nothing gained in my book
Here is a News Flash!!!!!!!! a horny woman on the loose with a video camera is very bad news.. So for those that want to see the film at 11, just ask me. No reason I should keep any of this to myself.
Anyone who knows me. will come to realize quickly, that I am very experimental. To me the only way to do this stuff is to live it.

Whiether I am a Dominant or acting as a sub, living on webcams, just does not cut it or do it for me.  I am very critical of the web cammers, because web camming very quickly can become addictive, to the point where you live on a webcam, and thus by cheat yourself of actually doing what you dream of.

Meeting people for real. does take courage, I won't say that it does not. It does. and it is the only way to live your bdsm dreams.. Enough of me and my soapbox on this issue.


Next experiment: fire cups.  can't wait to get them, and try them out
Well here is something new. for a very long time, I have been interested in chinese cups and the use of suction as a method of experienceng both pain and pleasure. 

I went to an acupuncture website, and ordered a set of cups. I am actually very very pleased with what I received. the amount of suction and power that the use. is a mindblower. 

Doms. I heartily recommend these li darlings. when you play with your subs, they will bring anyone to their knees in minutes.. Good experiement

I am going to put this bluntly in my journal, tho I honestly feel this information is not really needed, unless you are looking for a 24/7 type of relationship, I am not it. Not by any long shot.


I am technically single in life, but not un attached. LIke most bi women that are sub/Dom, I have a live in bf. Because of the nature of my sexuality, it was  a mutual decision on both of our parts to have and maintain an open relationship, so both of us could explore sexual opportunties. We both are liberated and free thinkers. Most of what I do, has nothing to do with my other half. We have our agreement, we both stick to it, and it works for both of us.


To those who are looking for a live in companion, I am not it. I am looking for long term commitment for a sub, or a Domme yes. Mainly because I want something that is a regular part of my life. The search can be fun, but it does get to be a drag after awhile.


My experiences seems to roll onwards, and keep going. I never understand why some Dominants seem to feel a need for bruising, and call it bdsm. Perhaps some feel this is control. I wonder why. Others just seem to think dominance is you pull on my hair, and I give you a blow job, and that is domination.

Perhaps the Dominant I dream of never exists, or perhaps what I seek is just not to be had.

However being of the philsophy that I am, that true Domination is one of spirit and not of the flesh, I will not settle for less than what my spirit yearns for.

This is my first entry..


I have had so many emails from people so far away, it is often hard to tell them I cannot just up and move away to be with them. Just because I am a submissive, it does not mean I checked my brains at the door. Submissives always pay a price for what they are. Sometimes we can loose everything we are, everything we have...

the world is a hard place, if we find but one other person we can connect with, and that gives us completion, and gives us joy, then perhaps the struggle to find what makes us happy.. is worth all the tears and struggle we endure as human beings. I have never given up in finding a Dominate, or a person that is even a switch.. I enjoy all of my experiences, they enrich, and give me life...

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