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	I am no longer available...very happy Unlike many people on this site I have met real Doms. I have been in a couple D/s relationships. I try to be positive ,I figure might be another good match waiting for me. So many opinions of what a sub should be willing to do for her Dom. I have made some mistakes and bad choices thru the years. I hope I have learned from them. You grow and move on. I am a strong woman . Sir found it an asset. I am not simple minded .It takes time to develop what I seek. The D/s bond is worth the effort. Any true Dom knows that. a D/s is an addicting .. The thought of sitting at Masters feet is quite appealing. I'm still here, frustrating at times,but I am still here. I see no reason to write pages for a profile. I don't cam or send intimate pictures of my lady parts to strangers. Happy to answer questions and meet with Doms who are serious about what they seek. I don't want to hear about the sins of past subs. Just as Doms are different subs are different. A submissive should be willing to learn to please a new Master..an new Master should be patient and willing to help her learn to best to serve him. Still things I would like to experience. I have limited experience with Daddy Doms. I don't do friends...I don't send them or accept them. I am not going to do long distance or online D/s. I am a native Californian and I will stay in CA. I support myself and anyone I would consider as a Dom must support himself as well. Don't waste my time If I am old enough to be your mother..Thank you.

3/7/2017 8:47:16 AM

Still exploring with this Dom who allows me to grow and have new experiences . I am enjoying the local BDSM community ,they are like a new family.

10/19/2016 7:39:45 PM

In a relationship... no longer looking. Found on this site.So there are real Doms around you just have to keep looking and don't settle for some one who does not make you happy....

9/26/2016 1:51:41 PM

I went to Folsom Street Faire Sunday . It was amazing. More than I expected . Sat in the shade having a beer with new friends. My Dom and I sat chatting with a guy wearing nothing but a hood and sunglasses I thought how fortunate there is an outlet that allows people to be themselves with out being judged . I am very proud to be part of this lifestyle .

8/18/2016 2:50:22 PM

Why can't some doms undertand "Exploring possibilities" means I am seeing a dom and I want to see what the future holds..I don't want to skype..I don't want to chat... then they get all pissy when I try to explain... Why can't you just wish me luck ..don't say I'm too old for you anyway and block me cause I try to explain... That's sour grapes... Means perhaps you are not a dom I would be interested in anyway.. Makes me even happier I took the time to explore with this Dom...

7/17/2016 8:21:09 PM

I'm still learning......

6/29/2016 7:20:38 PM

What I need is a Dom who sees my strength as an asset not a liability .

6/23/2016 8:49:58 PM

Life is full of adventures... if you don't try new things you'll never grow..

6/5/2016 8:05:34 AM

"Believe there is a great power silently working all things for good, behave yourself and never mind the rest " Beatrix potter.
I have spendt time trying to be become a good submissive, and to please others .I think Im going to take the summer to learn about my self and maybe try something new..

3/20/2016 7:45:19 PM

A real Dom...real control in real time..

10/12/2015 7:30:25 PM

Sometimes you need to be content with the things that are in your life. That does not mean you cant try to improve it.. but beating your self up with thoughts of the things you don't have creates nothing but negativity. Very content with my life and what I have .

9/9/2015 8:01:04 AM

I have always been confused about older men wanting younger subs but I seem to get more replies from younger men. Having been with more mature Doms I know they have more to offer a submissive my age. I have tried younger just not what I seek. I am not a sweet young thing ,I have to feel I still have something to offer the right Master.

8/23/2015 4:24:22 PM

So many aspects to a D/s.. I truly respect a Dom who knows there is a mental and physical side to that bond.

8/3/2015 7:48:27 AM

The person I submit to will need to earn my submission. Respect and trust is required. It takes communication . Also the understanding by the Dom to meet the needs of the submissive.

7/29/2015 7:18:34 PM

I have been on this site for many years...so tired of all the BS. There is one who has always been there. No broken promises..
A Dom is responsible for so much ..it is not easy. Not so many realize that.

7/8/2015 6:26:09 PM

Some one asked me who is always in control....is that a trick question... Sir is Always in control..

6/13/2015 7:17:28 AM

Never forget who is in control...always.

1/4/2015 6:39:08 PM

How nice real Doms on Collar space..that can put sentences together. There is something so sexy about intelligent communication..on or off this site..

1/2/2015 4:30:54 PM

Wishing my friends here a peaceful and productive new year.

12/25/2014 10:54:37 AM

Happy Holidays to my friends here on CS..

12/21/2014 9:04:33 AM

A true Master will know how to bring out the obedience of his slut. I hope to be worthy of a Master and happy for his encouragement to keep me in my place...All Doms are different ,some know better how to bring out the best in a sub.
You can never have too many friends. I am happy to have like minded friends to encourage me to go for what I need.

11/27/2014 8:40:05 AM

Thankful for many things... good friends some of which came from this site. Enjoy...

11/25/2014 8:11:18 AM

I have little doubt that I will find a Dom who is a match..it will take time and effort. Any real Master knows it is worth the effort. I am mature enough to know what I have to offer..at this age a D/s or M/s will be a certain amount of companionship , making life easier and more pleasurable for Sir.

11/24/2014 8:04:07 AM

. If you are a strong Dom who wants a sub who is not a doormat , one who is willing to learn how to best serve Sirs needs..I would enjoy communication.. Not willing to relocate outside of California,

11/13/2013 10:50:33 PM

It just seems strange to me to read Dom profiles and they show pictures of women...as a woman I don't find the logic in that. All those black and white photos of perfect women copied from some website also seem odd..so if you are looking for a perfection you can move right on past this profile...but if you seek a submissive woman who has wisdom to go with her age,perhaps you should read this profile.. not young ,thin or perky..but I can offer experience to the right Dom...

7/22/2013 9:02:18 PM

I think there is something so sexy about confidence. The most powerful Masters I have met and had sessions with had that confidence. As a submissive I have confidence in my ability to please most Doms and my willingness to learn.

6/9/2012 3:24:51 PM

UUmmm Doms with no profile..should I say FAKE. I don't do married. I want the real thing...all of it.