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About subbysaxman
I am a Married Submissive Male in a polyammorus relationship
/users/131455 I was given the task awhile back by someone who was mentoring me. The task was to decide wether i was a submissive or a bottom. After doing some searching and some talking to others this is what i discovered. I am a submissive not a bottom
Submission is not something that you can learn, it's something you are. There is a lot of beauty in submission. It is a beauty that come from deep within the soul of a submissive man or woman. Submission allows you to break down the walls that have built up over the person's lifetime. You are allowing the beauty and the sensuality of the person inside to come through .
Submission I have also learned is not about sex, but about the sensuality. It's about trust, communication, vulnerabilty , caring and honesty. It is also about the graceful sensual beautiful person that is inside wanting to come out.
Another thing I have learned is that a submissive is not a weak person, but that person is just the opposite, that person is a very strong person, this person is strong inside and knows who they are and what they want.
A submissive should never submit out of weakness or be needy. A submissive submits out of Strength, love and trust.
Submission should never be about feeling locked down, but about freedom. It is about the ability to let go of one's self, knowing very well that the dominant you are with is there to catch you if you fall. Submission is about pushing yourself to be the best submissive you can be, not only as a submissive but also as a man or woman, aperson or a human being. Submission is about learning, growing and giving.
It is not about what I get out of this but what I can give. |
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