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	I say I'm sub because it's the closest to my personality type but sometimes I feel that switch might be more appropriate. Do not assume I can be "taught" to be a slave. In fact, I'd rather own my own slave boy that be a slave to someone else. Now let's complicate this further by saying I love being overpowered. I like to feel helpless, particularly if I've been controlling an exchange and suddenly I know that he was playing with me, that he's been seeing where I'm at so he could take over. Thrilling. The basics about me: -I want to be collared -I want to be married -I want children -I work, a decent job -I drive, I wouldn't be brave enough to travel to you for a first meeting but I would share in the driving if things progressed past that -I want someone over the age of 30 and under the age of 45, who works and drives and actually wants something real and long term -I am very happy with where I currently reside -I don't give out my name or city until I know someone for at least a little while, if you want to know how far apart we are tell me where you live and I will give you the travel time estimate -I have a mild latex allergy so if that's a fetish of yours we likely won't be a good match -I despise being around smoking. If you are the sort of man who is selfish, self centered, stupid and/or a jerk we will not get along. :) One last thing, a note about the age requirements, age is just a number. I put that range because I am generally physically attracted to younger men but can not handle immaturity. It's not fool proof but it's a start. I do have a weakness for tall men with strong arms, I can't help it! Along with this, we are trying to establish overall chemistry which includes what you look like. If you don't post a photo on your profile it would be helpful if you included one in your correspondence. Take care all. **When I created this profile I didn't understand the implications of the name I selected so I ask that you not come to any conclusions based on that.

5/21/2015 5:57:22 PM

Is there such a thing as a Dominant man who likes to give massages? Funny that this is the post that I get the most comments on. I guess there are those out there that like it..or maybe they just like that it's a way to broach the physical with me? Good luck with that.

4/29/2015 5:40:41 PM

Did you ever:
-think, I want that, I'll take it?
-wish you could dry her tears even knowing you were the one hurting her?
-lock her in a cage to keep her for yourself?
-kiss her until her legs went weak?
I haven't...but You have.

Once I was babysitting a little girl and her older brother, he wasn't my age but he was only a few years younger..too young...but still. He wanted to practice his knots for scouts. Yeah, I know, how stupid was I? Once I was tied to the chair he asked me how you rape someone. I've never been so terrified in all my life. Wondering what he'd do. Wondering if his little sister would know what was happening. Oh God please don't do this. Then again...maybe I wanted it?

9/22/2013 7:02:17 AM

So as I grieve yet another broken heart I reflect on what I've learned from my last attempt at finding love.

First, I don't fit the traditional definition of submissive. I've never identified with being a slave but now I know anyone seeking that is not for me. The idea of spending my life in service to another is, well, to be frank, repulsive.

That said, I believe my core values align me with a sub's heart. If I'm treated well I will WANT to do things for you. I will go above and beyond to make you happy. Your displeasure with me will cause me more pain than anything physical I could ever experience.

I want the safety and security of loving arms around me each night. I want to find comfort in your touch. I want you to want to be a kind and gentle lover...hmmmm...most of the time anyway. ;)

I realize this sounds like I want a vanilla relationship but there is always a piece that's missing when I go that route. There is something in the control aspect that just can't be found in the traditional relationship dynamic and I crave it when it's missing.

Most surprising lesson learned...tall skinny guys in the proper shape are sexy as hell!

8/4/2013 3:53:21 PM

I just saw the movie Enough, yes I'm behind the times, and I loved it. I think that's the sort of vibe in a relationship that I'm looking for. No, not the crazy insane killer part. The controlling, I'm the man, I make the rules part. The part where a girl can be free to love her children and her husband and persue her own interests but is not permitted to cross certain boundaries. Escape is not an option, ever.

11/11/2012 4:58:00 AM

Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened.