Hello all... I am a newbie here and have come looking for that something that has been missing all my life. I am a sub by nature and can not seem to find my perfect Dom. I am a BBW and also a smoker. I am looking for one that is not my father or grandfather but my mate and master, one that will be with me for the long haul. I have 2 young children and am not interested in having them get attached to another male figure just for him to not last. Nothing against the older gentelmen here it is just my prefrence.