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Hello,
I am a masochistic submissive male who may sometimes identify as a sub, kinkster, or switch but whose vast experience in the lifestyle is serving the elusive, beautiful, sadistic Dominant Mistress.
my experience of over 12 years in the BDSM world is both roles as a sub and switching occasional Topping. Generally speaking, I have a great sense of humor. Some do say that I can be a bit more sarcastic than maybe needed at the time, but “who” is to say for sure. (OK, more than a few punishments were for my S.A.M. traits) I do enjoy meeting people and am comfortable in many different social situations, whether kinky, vanilla or business. Socially, I am an active member of the local general BDSM groups as well as regional clubs in Nashville, Birmingham, Memphis and Atlanta.
Please allow me share a couple of my views on submission important to myself. If you agree, then we certainly have a good point at which to begin a conversation.
Briefly, my position as a submissive is to try to anticipate how i can serve my Dominant and fulfill Her wishes. Not for me to wait for Her to do something or to constantly be instructing me with every detail but for me to try to anticipate what will make Her life easier or please Her at all times. I do not want to think about what She will do to me or for me.
My main purpose in Her Service is to use my creativity, motivation, enthusiasm, intellect and physical abilities to pamper and serve my Domme.
Granted, I am humble enough not to assume that I would succeed all the time but I do want Her to see, in spite of a failure, that I am trying. After that whatever punishment, correction, or discipline will be gratefully accepted knowing that it will only help me be a better sub in the future. Of course, as in any D/s relationship, I would of course defer or correct specifics of my position as per my Domme’s instructions.
Since early on in my experience with BDSM, I have come to realize (IMHO) that one of the most important sex-organs we have is our mind. Whether in a short scene or during a LTR; the ability for the sub to mentally focus solely on the Domme and/or conversely for the Domme to be able to confidently command, can provide a greater non-sexual intensity than is just possible in experiencing the physical actions of D/s for both the Domme and sub.
I sincerely believe in a Woman’s special gift of insight or intuition as a unique and defining characteristic of leadership that true Dominant females in our lifestyle can use to confidently care for and guide their submissive. While the number of true Domes using this innate talent maybe in the minority, the Women who do can certainly be seen as the true leaders in our society.
Having said that, please do not think that I am or want to become a spineless or wimpy sub. I am a confident, proud person who can think and act on my own but makes the conscious decision to submit to the authority and guidance of a Mistress.
I am here to enjoy the online community and to meeting some new kinky friends, play-partners, or maybe someone special. I don't have opportunity to live this 24/7, but I do like to keep this part of me close by. Feel free to ask any and all questions you may have and I will be happy to explain anything I can. I am a straight-forward kind of guy and appreciate when people speak openly and honestly with me. As a great man, once said “I am what I am”.
Look forward to chatting with ya'll soon.
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