I am a 30 year old female sub.
My interests are going out, spending time with the special people in my life, nights out and nights in. I love to be made to laugh. Anyone who can make me laugh is half way there already.
Ideally I am looking for D/s within a long term relationship, but until I meet that person I am happy just go with the flow, and see what happens.
At the moment I am just taking some time out to see what my future holds, and if through a special friendship it leads to a monogamous long term relationship along the way, then Wow!!
In the meantime I am happy to make friends along the way and learn more about this amazing lifestyle.
I am pretty outgoing person – although can be shy at first. Some would say I am feisty and may be a little bit naughty (but always with a cheeky smile). I can be strong willed at times, but never bratty. I have a warm but wicked side. On the outside, some would say I have confidence, but deep down its not as strong as it appears and needs someone to help me develop it.
Id like to be around someone who makes me feel safe, with strong arms for me to be held in.
For me trust, honesty and respect are key and while I expect that, I give in return too.
D/s, for me, is not just about physical bondage and sex. It runs deeper for me. Whilst I crave being restrained and spanked and on my knees, I also crave the mental obedience required by him. Control and discipline is what I need. A look or a touch…………….
And when not scening / playing, I have this ideal that I still want to be under control that that is always present not matter how little. To the outside world, you appear as equals, but it's just a look or a touch or a whisper to remind you of your place, or walking down the street and he lightly grabs your hands and pins them behind you. To anyone else, its two lovers having a laugh, but to both of you, it speaks volumes.
Id like to meet someone who knows that they cannot control every aspect of my life, but who can inspire levels of submission from a desire to please.
Id like to meet someone who has a great sense of humour and doesn't take themselves too seriously.
I am looking to meet someone who will respect my limits but recognises the fine balance of pushing them.
In a nutshell, I want to meet someone strong, kind, confident and ever so kinky.
I am a very tactile person. I love being touched and love to touch. I love intimacy and romance. I love just to talk, and share. I love sexy underwear, skirts and having my hair played with. I love baths, and pampering myself. I love being warm and having those special bed conversations.
All limits would need to be discussed, as I need my boundaries stretched. I do enjoy a little pain, but I am not a pain slut.
My ideal person is 35-45, and I am not looking to meet anyone who is married/attached. I am not into one night stands. I am not interested in time waster or the type who get off on "kneel bitch"! I do not reply to one-liners.
If you have got this far and like what you read, please get in touch. If not, then good luck in your search.
