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April 2014 Update: Working 2 jobs and the joys (and frustrations .. lol) of unmentionables means that i am rather time poor - sometimes more than others. However i still have needs and yearnings that go unmet. Thus the update. i am NOT interested in anyone who feels it is their God given right to control or even influence my day to day life. i am often busy and in control of what needs doing and as much as i don't enjoy being the one in control, i am good at it and don't need someone trying to rearrange my time or make demands on it during the flat-out busy periods - i don't need someone who is clingy and/or overbearing/over demanding. i already have unmentionables to take care of and would prefer a Dom who is entirely capable rather than someone who mistakes my submission as a need to mother Him. This perhaps doesn't sound very submissive to some - i am just assertive and have learnt/know what will fit, despite what deep down i may actually wish .... Sometimes compromise is better than nothing. So what i would like and appreciate is a Dominant who would in-turn appreciate spending quality time with a submissive who will make time for You and is passionate about her submission. Semi-regular to regular quality time spent together either during school hours or sometimes on the weekend (when i am not working) is what would work. Someone reasonably local who understands that i simply cannot afford to spend hours driving to reach the destination. This does NOT mean i want/seek casual flings ... hopefully over time something meaningful will evolve. i am very much into the mental aspects of D/s - meeting just for a kinky lay is not going to cut the mustard. It's not about that for me. And yes, i actually enjoy pleasing You and the more You are able to reach inside my mind, the greater the need to please. It's about the deeper interaction .... not pure physical kinks. Someone who understands and would appreciate that when i AM with You i am focused on our time together ... but when i am working/with my unmentionables then i am completely capable of taking care of myself and You don't need my constant reassurances. And now back to my older writings to perhaps give You more of an idea of who I am .... Hello :) I would neither call myself new or experienced but rather somewhere in-between. I do not seek 'play sessions' that have no meaning ... I am hopeful of finding something more than that, though I do realise that this takes time and a building of mutual friendship and trust. This does not mean I am adverse to 'testing the waters' with someone of mutual interest. It simply means I am not here to look for quick, easy, cheap sessions that do nothing to sate the deeper needs of what D/s means to me. I live a busy nilla life and so I do not always have a lot of time to be on CM responding to emails - please be patient with me as I will be with You, and respect Your 'bigger picture' of life. I am innately submissive however those who mistake this as my being weak or a fool will be disappointed. I am intelligent and pretty with a great sense of humour. I laugh, I cry, I feel - I am real. I am NOT height-weight proportionate so those who seek this need not waste either of our time. I enjoy intelligent conversation, a witty sense of humour, the ironies of life (even in all of their frustrations sometimes) and feel most at home under the loving care of a strict, patient, kind, self-assured Dominant who understands and appreciates the difference between Dominance and arrogance. I look forward to talking with those who can appreciate the paradoxes of an innately submissive woman who is assertive and in control of her everyday life ♥ sub2yield ♥