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Male Dominant, 31, Haverhill, Massachusetts
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About Stymied
I get alot of messages from Doms but this is what I want: somebody not lying to their wife or g-friend. Somebody who is not on here all day. If you are a Dom you should have the self confidense to have a life after all. Did any good every come from a life online in pursuit of somebody to make you feel stronger sexier more confident? No. How can I trust you if you have obvious self-confidense problems???
You know what you are and I know what I am. I do not lie or hide or anything like that. It is just me and I am stymied by what people to do each other in the name of love.
Also I have some doubts these days about kink. You should know that now. I am wonder if it is maybe a disguise for people who can not relate in healthy ways to each other? Just because you put a ribbon on a pile of shit, it still smells bad. I read that on pof and thought it was funny. Is that what we are doing?
Somebody here told me that kink is about the thrill of the moment. He said he could not have sex with his wife because there was no danger. I can not say how sad this is. I don't want to love a person like that and if that is love to you, I don't want you to love me.
Don't break me down.
stymied
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I am seeing everything more clear now...life is so complicated and yet no... |
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Lots of replies so far...most of you are saying it is not acceptable if it is not giving both of us pleasure. It looks like bdsm in a marriage is really hard. Especially when we fear the other's reaction if we are honest about our drives. |
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Thank you for all the replies.? I appreciate all of the suggestions, but please, if your purpose in answering me is simply to convince me to divorce him and move out to be with you...save it. ?
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