StrangestDesires

Traveling soon: January 30-February 3, Orlando, FL USA area!

I get it, most of us are only here to get off on other's pictures, or the fantasy we create in our head about someone. Those are all well and good, but doesn't anybody just enjoy conversation, getting to know someone? I wouldn't expect someone to walk in to a bar, say nothing, and take me home to fuck. So, why should it be different on here? Connection is important, right? 

Profile Changes

Goodness. Trying to maximize use of the site, but don't want to lose access for minor changes. How annoying! Even uploading new pictures?! C'mon Collarspace, help us out!

Remember, if you want to chat, I'd very much love to! But, please come with more than "hi there" or "looking to serve?".. I can hold normal conversation and yeah, I'm here  on this site for a reason!

I wonder what it would be like to have someone genuinely ask me to be their valentine. Just once, even with all the baggage and unknowns. Just say, "hey, I know it's hard, but you're worth it."

but really... that's secondary to most of the desires rolling around in my head!

New year, new you, right? My goal this year is to not be bothered by the naysayers, the detractors, the ones who can't respect or encourage. I'm making this year the best yet, and that means going full steam ahead with my favorite kinks and lifestyle needs!

It's funny how people on here complain about the lack of real people, especially those who fit what they're looking for... then decide that those of us who are real and genuine aren't worth a response and just block instead.