StrangerinBlack

I have been thinking a lot about my life lately and have decided that I am ready to be in a relationship again. I'm not looking to rush into anything (although sometimes life can surprise you,) but I would love to meet someone who is looking to make a meaningful and lasting connection, and who has room in her life for a new friendship that could develop into something deeper over time.

I am not looking to get married anytime soon (if ever), but I am stable enough to enjoy long-term relationships. I still enjoy casual dating though. My expectations towards monogamy tend to vary a little bit depending on the needs of each partnership.

That being said, let me tell you a little bit about myself. I am a petty neat person to know (I think), and a attentively compassionate one. I am here to gradually meet more friends, lovers, play-partners, and maybe even eventually to fall in love with someone who will change and enrich my life. I am a genuine person, I don't expect every one I talk to to sleep with me, or even to get along well with me. I don't see a wonderful evening as a commitment to the future (although it's nice when things work out). I would like to contact people over this site, and then after we talk for a bit and make sure we are compatible, we can see about meeting, or trying something fun out. I would also love to meet people whom I can go to various kinky classes in the bay area with. I am still learning about the wonderful world of BDSM, and making new friends to learn with would be great.

On that note let me talk a little bit about my kink. I identify primarily as dominant, but I have interest in exploring my submissive side also (I have had a few fun experiences and see both as equal and wonderful.) I love the sensual arts, spanking, caning/whipping, caressing, arousing, and massage are all right up my ally. I also enjoy psychological play, and love to use a blindfold and a little misdirection to heighten the moment. I am still learning about bondage and advanced control games, but they seem like a lot of good kinky fun and I look forward to experimenting with them further.

I am very sex positive, but don't expect to get laid every time I play(nor would I want to). I am fun, flexible, and in reasonably good shape. I am laid back normally, but I like to play a large range of roles in scene. If you want to know something more specific, just ask.

Respect, fun, friendship, communication, and personal-growth are what I am here to explore.

I can give out my email or aim info upon request. But would like to talk at least once first via messages to make sure we have at least something in common.

Please feel free to say hi if you would like to talk or have any questions.