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Male Dominant, 35, Brisbane

Male Dominant, 39, Ottawa

Male Submissive, 38, Bristol

i have a few question to ask. They are not directed to anyone or with anyone in particular in mind. So please feel free to give your opinions, thoughts, comments, etc. If you were interested in a Dom or sub, and were very busy in real. Would you even seek a relationship, knowing you really do not have the time to give? i feel any new relationship needs lots of time spent getting to know one another.. If you were speaking to a Dom/sub and were interested in persuing a real time meeting, but were spending time on the phone getting to know each other first. Would you call her on major holidays? To let her know you are thinking about her? And if you were too busy in real to stop and do so, doesn't that mean you are too busy for her totally? Also i feel a Dominant should be in control of his own life before he can take control of mine. Would a Dom that is seeking a full time relationship with a sub have roommates? Or would that really be called a wife? Food for thought

You obeyed the commands and unleashed my power. You turn me on with your obedience. You will be my slave, You will obey me. You make me so hot with all you give up. I will have my way with you. What I want, when I want, and how I want it. You will be my slave, You will obey me. You know you like my power. You give me full control. All the while controlling my every desire. Without question, you follow my demands. You let every inch of yourself go. Allowing me to torture you endlessly, relentlessly. You give me your whole being. You will be my slave, You will obey me, FOREVER. Laura Smith

Crossing Over My palms are sweating My heart is beating fast My stomach is knotted in fear i stand looking across the road to The doorway that leads me, to the place i long to go i'm dressed vanilla Hair and make-up done Respectable to the eye i stand looking across the road to The smoked filled room, laughter enticing me in i take a deep breath Look left and then right There's no turning back for me now i start to walk across that road to A new start a new life, no longer alone Through glazed eyes i stare As the door opens wide The warm smile greets me Did I do right to cross that road? to A life of a submissive, learning life anew. So many new names So many new faces But all smile back at me In the room i crossed over to A place with no blame, just understanding i have found a place i have found a life i have found others like me i crossed a road and found myself in a world of acceptance, respect and love

The Rose and the Thorn Written by Lorraine Casey Once upon a time In a small chateau There lived a noble Man As He dined one day A rose bud in the garden caught His eye He never saw the thorn sprouting beneath her "What a beautiful delicate thing" "I shall nourish this exquisite object", He thought And when she was thirsty The Man gave her water The thorn drank the excess The bud became aesthetically pleasing Instant gratification All of the Mans expectations met Exactly as He envisioned her In the shadow of the rose the thorn grew The Man showed her to everyone The rose was displayed Just Like the story of O Enjoyed by all who visited The thorn was never noticed The Man spent many hours Inhaling her fragrance Caressing her soft petals Protecting her from the wind The thorn stood erect and watched One day the Man was called away On a business or political matter He was not there When the wind blew And the rose hungered for more When He returned He saw to his horror His rose was gone All that was left was one petal Impaled by the thorn He went inside Returning with shears He chopped off the thorn And tossed the scourge aside Cussing this ugly monstrosity The Man never knew The thorn He cursed so Knowing the Man loved the rose Caught the petal on the way down for Him For the thorn loved the Man On the ground The thorn still stood erect For although rejected The thorn embraced His pain Her only sadness was for the Man Who only saw with His eyes

Anyone who has nothing better to do than to concentrate on what, in their head, makes others somehow "less" deserving to live however they wish to, are in serious need of a hobby. We have more than enough judgmental attitudes already condemning what it is that we do from main stream society. Mostly, this stance of cutting someone else down is only done by the insecure who need something to cling to so they may convince themselves they are somehow "better" than someone else. A submissive who discovered the lifestyle 20 years ago and has lived it ever since is no more real or true than the submissive who has just been introduced to the lifestyle and the dominant who has attended weekly whipping classes for years is no more real or true than the dominant who is picking up his/her first flogger. The couples who live together 24/7 are no more real/true than the couples who meet every other weekend. We are who and what we are regardless of the amount of knowledge we have or the amount of time we can invest. Wannabe: Again, there is nothing wrong with wanting to be someone/something. We all had to start somewhere and have no right in turning up our noses to those who might simply be curious or who sincerely wish to learn more about bdsm and what it is that we do. This is not an exclusive country club. Anyone can join. Participating in bdsm activities or living a lifestyle of domination and submission does not make us any more special than anyone else. Yes, there ARE people who are drawn to the lifestyle for the wrong reasons and as adults, when we meet these people and assess the situation, we then have the choice of supporting their illusions or writing them off. The most effective teaching tool is to teach through example. Rather than resorting to name calling and rumor we should take the high road and simply disassociate ourselves from them.

Wanted: a Master, who is both kind and strong, Wanna-be?s, HNG?S and poser?s, need not apply, Must be skilled in the use of a truly willing slave, For I deeply desire, nay I must, to my knees fall. Must be able to help me focus, for this I long, Show me how to fly to release my endorphin sigh, My soul is waiting for your whip to engrave, Oh did I mention you must be tall. - Dragon~Lord ?A broom is drearily sweeping, Of the broken pieces of yesterdays life, Somewhere a Queen is weeping, And somewhere a King has no wife.? -Jimi Hendrix ?And the wind cried Mary?

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