Stewie333

I understand a need for safety and security that is why they call it a "public meeting" and not a come into my dungeon in the middle of nowhere meeting.

I am not opposed to chatting and getting to know anyone, but after several messages on this site and a few days of texting, I would like to hear your voice and or meet in person if at all possible.

If I am asking to much of you with this simple request you are not the right one for me, save both of us some time and trouble and don't send the first message, or if I send you one let me know that I am asking to much off the bat so we don't waste our time.

So there are a couple of things that come up with everyone I talk with that I would like to clear up now in hopes that it will negate getting to know someone who decides that my life is not acceptable to them.

 I have a roommate, My roommate is female and is my ex fiancé. NO we do not have sex. NO we are not in any form of relationship with one another. NO she would not be involved.

We choose to live in the same house because 1. it makes financial sense. 2. we have bills that keep us attached ( I.e car payments) 3. I claim her kids as my own and am protective of them.

 I do not Drive. I want to but I do not have a license. I made mistakes in my past and my license was revoked (2 D.U.Is) I will be getting it back once I finish paying off fines. Until then I rely on rides from friends, my roommate and my oldest daughter. I have no problem getting anywhere I need to go.

I am in the process of paying off the fines and as soon as I do will be getting my license and a vehicle as soon as possible. I don't enjoy my situation however it is my own doing and I accept that fact.

 I only drink socially now and I refuse to drink in excess. I have no problem if it is something you enjoy but it isn't for me.

When I drink I only drink craft beer or on rare occasion a mixed drink, unless it has been a really hard harsh shitty month then I will have a shot of something.

 I do smoke (1 1/2 packs a day) but am working on quitting. It is a personal choice while I enjoy smoking I cant see as it benefits me and I could use the extra money (see above) I have no judgments towards you if you do or don't. I do smoke cigars and have no intentions of giving them up. It is very relaxing to enjoy a cigar and I like the smell.

 I am not a fan of repeating myself and I definatly don't feel the need to tell you every other day how to do something, or have to constantly remind you what the rules are. I am paid well to do it at work and I still don't like it, I sure as hell am not ok with it at home.