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About StepRightUp
Hello, Dommes and switch women,
Let me start by saying that I am not a pushover or a sissy. At the risk of sounding immodest, I am a fairly accomplished person: I have three university degrees (two Ivy League, one Ivy equivalent). I have traveled for work and pleasure across Europe, Asia, Africa, and Latin America. I am financially secure and have a solid career. I am independent, confident, and ambitious. In other words, I am not a generally submissive person.
However, I am fascinated by the power dynamics of sex and would be very interested in finding a strong-willed and assertive woman to bring me to heel. But don't get the wrong impression. I have no interest in mewling around on my knees just to throw money at you. If that is your game, then please address yourself to the poor bastards who get a thrill from that. This is about gratification -- yours and mine -- and about who will lead the dance and who will play the bitch.
This is, for me, a mental and psychological contest. It is about finding a woman who can use her body not to satisfy my desires but to turn my own desires against me and control me through them. I want to give up control, but not to just anyone. The right woman will project sexual presence and self-confidence. She will exude power and draw strength from dressing me in ladies' underwear, abusing my cock, commanding me into the corner, or rubbing my face in her fragrant crotch.
Yet as I said, I am not your typical sub. For the right woman, in the right circumstances, I will kneel and obey. I actually want that very much, so the odds start out in your favor. But if you're not quite up to the task -- if I can sense your hesitation or smell any self-doubt -- then the illusion is over. I may turn the tables against you, wrestle you to the mattress, bite your tits, and fuck you like a whore. But don't worry. That's just the switch in me.
Lastly, this is not about finding intimacy, affection, or a life partner. This is about a little sexual one-on-one, a match up between you and me to see who will wear the pants in the bedroom. I've put my masculinity at stake. Are you confident enough in your superiority and your femininity to put it on the line? If so, I'd like to keep this discreet and separate from the rest of my life, and ideally a few times a month.
This is not ed, this is not bound up in predetermined rules or roles, this is not "safe" in the boring, predictable sense of that word. Who knows who might come out on top? That's what makes it exciting. If this suits you, and if you're interested, you may just find me in a dress, with mascara running down my cheeks, and your panties stuffed in my mouth. Or maybe the power dynamic will turn against you, in which case you'll be the one gasping for breath. Who knows?
What do you say? Are you feeling lucky? |
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