stephINca

I have set strict mail filters so if I don't get back to you as fast as you think I should I only look at my bulk mail once in a while.  

A few things that might help cut down on the cmails. 

I am not interested in men especially over 35. 

I am not interested in people that are not relatively local. 

I am not interested in only sex.  I would like friends and maybe at some point a LTR but that doesn't mean that I am gonna spread my legs for every Tom Dick and Harry in the mean time. 

I really want to focus on women for now.  UNMARRIED women not interested in playing with your man or having him watch.  

I am a one person at a time woman.  That includes LTR.  

I have discovered that I have a strong urge to explore my desires with women.  I would need someone patient with a teaching heart.  I would prefer a woman with natural breasts.  That is all I can think of that would be important.  I want to snuggle and touch and more.  

Not to say this would be temporary because quite possibly it will not be.  I would very much like to start expoloring soon.  I do understand that women are more resistant to new relationships and am willing to explore the base relationship before moving on. Couples on the other hand would be limited to the female only. I just don't want something with a man that has a woman of his own.  We will see what happens.

I am beginning to think that men just can't or don'tread.  It is very frustrating.  Just because I am on a site that encourages alternate lifestyles doesn't mean that sex rules my life.  What the hell has come over people in the last ten to twenty years.  No decoram, no couth, no sense of just being a nice person.  I am begining to think that people can't just be fudamentally kind.  Would you really walk into a bar and have the first thing out of your mouth be I'm curious about queening? 

I found the need to change my mail settings to prescreen people I would have no interest in what so ever.

I have started to meet real people finally.  I am glad to see that.  I was begining to worry but I can see how easy it would seem to be to take advantage of a newb.

Well I was tricked lol.  That is ok I guess there are trolls on every website.  Luckily I am not stupid enough to give out my personal infromation to just anyone.  I just don't understand why people like to play with others heads.  Its just not nice.  Maybe I am just Vannila after all.

How to decifer who is real and honest and who is just trying to take advantage of the new girl is very difficult for me.  I do not wish to help men cheat on their unsuspecting wives or girlfriends.  Its not fair to anyone.  I'm interested in a more fullfilling sex life not becoming a whore which I suspect that the honest ones are here for the same reason.

So my first day on this site and what a great response!  I have met some very helpful people.  I am encouraged that this is the right choice for me.