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	An intelligent woman is a huge turn on for me, especially if she craves submission. I have filled out my checklists if you are interested. I enjoy a strict but caring lifestyle and hopefully the following will show you who I am This was a poem that was written for me by a girl who was lost at the time and that I am very proud of my world was clouded with doubt and shame my body was laden with the weight of a lifetime of guilt you saw through my mask and looked into my soul you took my hand with your strength and your heart you promised me shelter and protection while guiding me along my journey, you held true to your word your guidance gave me no choice but to look within to the girl i hid away, free from spirit while my body was at your will my body became light as you lessoned my burdens and helped me grow for this you will always be in my heart What truely makes me proud is that she has not only found her true master but also they are both extremely happy

4/10/2013 5:40:46 PM

Have you ever had someone break into your house in the middle of the night when you are home. That happened to me the other night, I heard them and by the time I got to the kitchen I heard the back door slam. I went downstairs and checked the basement to see if they were still here and thankfully they were gone and nothing stolen but it still leaves you with a funny feeling. I live in a good neighbourhood and you just don't expect this

6/24/2012 1:26:41 PM

Does ego make a Dom/Master weak? I ask that saying I enjoy a strong intelligent woman. I also believe that anyone who thinks they don't make mistakes is very foolish but I read a blog today that presented the question does a slave correct a dom? To me a man is only as intelligent as the input he takes in so to me their is a time, a place and a way to present anything, while in public a simple signal will get my attention. I believe she is their to compliment me and how does she compliment me if I don't let her think.

So I ask does ego make a Dom/Master weak? I would love to hear from you.

5/23/2012 10:37:58 AM

I made the statement today that the greatest thrill I get in this lifestyle is to teach people who they are. This shocked the person I said this to. Do you not think that is what we are here for?

2/17/2012 8:19:51 AM

I just seen where a girl accused another girl in her blog of using her pics. By coincidence the accused mistress suddenly stated she wanted her offline and she removed her pics.

I had this done to me where I spent two days talking with someone and no sex or ownership was mentioned. I believe in taking this life seriously and do not believe you can own someone so quickly.

After two days she trusted me enough to send me a picture of her with the caption arn't I beautiful. Well I thought it was a girl I dated playing a joke on me because it was her picture. I say dated because it wasn't long enough to own. When I questioned this person it went from don't you trust me to you believe the word of some slut over me. For the record this girl was indeed a pleaser but certainly deserved nothing but respect.

My point isn't that I got mad but that I pity these people. How insecure can people be that they are not comfortable in their own skin and have to pretend to be someone else. The reason that we supposedly believe so much in this lifestyle is because we put others in higher respect than the vanilla world. Suddenly I see alot of people afraid to be themselves and even trying to steal from another owner. Too bad we can't have two different categories. One for players and one for serious people.

Edited to say I do not consider honesty playing. I don't believe it is wrong to just be looking for something as long as you are upfront with it

8/2/2011 2:54:45 AM

My birthday today

8/2/2010 4:16:39 PM

I had a wonderful birthday today. Lots of family and friends.

7/7/2010 5:02:04 AM

I just finished slavemyra's book called myra stolen innocence. In the 20 some years I have been in the lifestyle I have always been afraid for the young. I read their blogs and their profiles stating what they want to have done to them and quite often can feel their lack of experience.
  For those people and those that want to run away because they have no love given to them this is a must read. This is the story of a young girl of 14 who felt no love from her father, who was taken and manipulated by an out of control man 10 years her senior.
  I have myself and I know many others have taken the young and tried to guide them. I agree after they become of age they need to be taught, given discipline and molded to be what their masters wish is but in no instance should their life be in danger or ever be alone with an out of control master. I myself as a dominant spent a short period of time in an olde gaurde learning house in Georgia and am grateful how they taught me to do everything in my power to control myself before I try to control anyone else.
  I do hope this book can make a difference. I do know that is why it was written.

4/6/2010 7:05:05 AM

I do not consider you to be a gift, I consider myself to have a quality that you are looking for.

11/21/2009 9:08:52 AM

Do you ever have one of those aha moments? I was reading a profile today and it took me back to when I was truely happy. It brought back memories of the passion I carry, the way I am capable of loving and all the fun and laughter I used to have along with all the set up time and antics I used to pull just to get that glaze in her eye that I will never forget.
What a wonderful way it was to start my day. Maybe its time for me to start looking again for that one who can bring that passion back out in me,

11/18/2009 2:41:13 PM

My goodness, I must look like I have a S on my forehead. I have so far today I had 3 messages all the same from a girl who loved my profile but never viewed me. So far this week 2 different girls played the pity party and asked for money. I might have a S on my forehead but it doesn't stand for stupid or sucker. Scammers I am tired of you go away

8/15/2009 7:10:24 PM

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7/4/2009 4:30:33 AM

It is easy to master someone who is going to say yes. Where it gets difficult is to get someone to want to become the best that they can be. Once that is achieved together they can build bridges to places most can only dream about.

6/28/2009 12:26:55 PM

Their is nothing more beautiful than the present even in awkward moments. Always cherish the people who love you and always look for the good in all the bad that happens.

12/27/2008 9:39:04 AM

I wrote the poem with the belief that whoever understands the meaning of the poem will have already gotten rid of the chaos in their life or would be willing to let it go. It is hard to serve another when you cannot serve yourself with peace therefore your mind will blocked of who you truely are and have no chance to let your inner self come out.

10/24/2008 5:10:41 PM

I woke up thinking about this today so I wrote it down. I do have it on another site if you have read it before
Everything matters right now
Nothing matters right now
I am alone
I am surrounded by love
My life is in turmoil
I am surrounded by calmness
The season is turning dull
Yet all I can see is beauty
It is turning cold
Yet all I feel is warmth
Come to me whatever you are
I can feel your presence
For whatever will be will be
For I am excited about life
and have no idea why
I am wearing my own shirt