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Hi, I am a boyish lesbian (apparently known as boi) who's personality to the outside world is quite dominant but within a relationship my sexuality is submissive.
I want to meet someone aged 30 - 50ish, with view to a long term relationship with the right person.
I am quite submissive towards my partner in the outside world anyway but behind closed doors i like to be told what to do and when to do it.
My Ideal Person:
I want to meet a motherly(or fatherly)/domme lesbian who wants to "take me in hand" a caring, firm, dominant woman.
a woman who will deal with my childish nature with a mixture of love and bdsm. someone who enjoys giving and controlling.
WANTED: 100% BUTCH TOP/FEM DOMME
looking for long term relationship with right person.
I will give my submission to one person, i am not submissive for everyone, and not into groups.
Extramarital affairs do not interest me.
I do not want one night stands as a level of trust is required and may not be gained in a single evening.
Foreplay for me can be many things that can be discussed later. I would like to meet a caring, firm dominant woman Who will enjoy keeping me in line with bondage and spankings.
I am genuinely seeking a long term ( eventually cohabiting) D/s relationship. It goes without saying you must be single and free to pursue a meaningful relationship. Anyone who is married must leave now..sorry but that is just how it is.
Do not expect me to be a doormat or an unthinking human sponge but rather spirited, thoughtful and intelligent woman.
I am not always easy and maybe that is why a loving tight rein is what is required. I can be sensitive and self conscious and need to be gently drawn out to expand my capabilities.
What makes me happy? BDSM wise, being submissive to a woman I love and respect and knowing I am making her as happy as I can.
I wish to satisfy my Domme with sexual submission and intimate loyal companionship.
I love domestic discipline, bondage, sexual use, orgasm control, giving pleasure, being a good girl, being kept under control sexually in the entire relationship.
Mummy/Daddy / little girl - The theory
Most women who have Mummy/Daddy fantasies say they are not envisioning their actual mothers/fathers, but rather the gestalt of Mummy/Daddy: An authority figure, who doles out punishment but also protects and nurtures. They don't see themselves as children in the scene, but rather powerless sex objects wholly at the mercy of someone with more power - just as in any scene involving dominance and submission. In the Mummy/Daddy fantasy, chronological age is irrelevant: a mentality comes into play that is ageless.
I will not clean your house. I am not a maid, you want one - go hire one.
Don't expect me to fuck the family dog. You want that, try one of the farms.
I will not hand over my whole life to anyone. For any reason.
I am into sexual submission. Not that "mind, body & soul" stuff.
I think the reason I like to submit in the home is because I am dominant outside of it.
You will not control every aspect of my life. I will have a job, I will keep the friends I have, I will continue to act as a member of my family, I will go about my life as anyone else would.
It is one thing to share a household and take care of it together, or to watch your partner as a fetish. But I am not interested in being a maid/chef/errand girl. If I was interested in that I'd be working at a hotel, kitchen or as a gofer.
My ideal partner is someone who can commit. Someone who can let me be myself yet still be a domme at home.
Do not assume that because you are a Domme that I will submit to you. I do have standards and taste.
So many Domme's say that they don't need a Sub. And that's true, you don't need us. You want us, the same as we don't need yet want you.
Some may say that I'm not a true sub. I say to hell with that. I'm simply strong minded and know what I will and will not stand for. And maybe you're not a true Domme if you can't handle that.
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Mummy/Daddy / little girl - The theory
Most women who have Mummy/Daddy fantasies say they are not envisioning their actual mothers/fathers, but rather the gestalt of Mummy/Daddy: An authority figure, who doles out punishment but also protects and nurtures. They don't necessarily see themselves as children in the scene, but rather powerless sex objects wholly at the mercy of someone with more power - just as in any scene involving dominance and submission. In the Mummy/Daddy fantasy, chronological age is irrelevant: a mentality comes into play that is ageless.
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| Age: 24 |
| Newyork,
New York |
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