StarsAway

Anyone who says that they want to rape someone needs to have their head examined unless it is through consenting non-consent (meaning you have talked with them first about rape play and the person agrees to it, essentially not making it true rape). As a sexual assault survivor, for someone to say they want to rape someone is utterly disturbing, uncalled-for, and disgusting. Using the term rape for anything other than play involving consensual non-consent or describing the positively HORRIFIC crime itself is equally offensive to me. 

My assault utterly destroyed me. Even after years of work, I'm still rebuilding. It never leaves me. I have never been able to feel completely safe, with extremely minimal exception, since I was violated. It affected me in a way I cannot even begin to describe to someone who hasn't experienced it. Think about that next time you toss that word around carelessly.

 If your penis is your profile picture, don't bother. I don't want to be overtly visually assaulted with your genitals, thanks. There's a fine line between nice nudity and just plain desperation. It also tells me that your penis is all you have to offer me, and while you may be in disbelief that anyone could NOT want your "beautiful" or "huge" cock, I DON'T want it.

What I don't get is how someone can delude themselves into thinking they are a "natural born dominant" or a "dominant since birth." Were you magically born with the knowledge of how to safely tie a submissive so you don't cut off circulation or damage nerves? Do you have an inherent knowledge of safety protocol during fire play? How high up one must hold different types of waxes while dripping to avoid permanent scars from burns? Places not to flog so as not to damage internal organs? Did you absorb all this information through process of osmosis while in utero?

Nope. Didn't think so.