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Hetero Male Submissive, 60,  Relocatable, Massachusetts
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Sensual, Submissive


Oral, verbal


Educated , well traveled Male

Seeking Female-led training and focused true service for Her household

Seeking long term

Seeking intelligent, demanding (but fair) creative and good
humored Lady and Goddess

Seeking the Divine One who desires control, naturally asserts it at home, wants Her man taken in hand, demands high level per-ance in home life and bedroom, and who will instruct and train the boy so that he can serve to his best ability and Her standards

I ache for YOUR control and training and nurture.

Manage me,
Use me,
Humiliate me,
Train me,
Make me yours -- a devoted loyal under-foot, controlled man.

If You are a wise and powerful sensual mature Lady who knows herself and Her own self and own needs...I may be an appropriate match for You.

Thanks for permitting me to present myself.













 Submissive Male



 Willing to Relocate

 5' 8"

 155 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Transgender

Dominant Female

Female Led Couples


A Poly Household

 Lives For:


 Being allowed to worship your body (Expert)

 Mental Bondage

 Being allowed to service you orally

 Female Sovereignty



 Being allowed to see your breasts (Expert)

 Being allowed to see you in corsetry

 Being humiliated by you (Expert)

 Being allowed to be obedient to you

 You deciding when I'm allowed sexual pleasure (Expert)


 Watersports (Expert)

 Lifestyle BDSM



 Art Galleries

 Coffee Shops

 Flea Markets





 Scuba Diving

 You tying me up

 You controlling my male parts

 Eye contact with you not allowed

 Rear End Play (Beginner)

 Being allowed to be your servant

 Being allowed to worship your feet

 Being allowed to do all of the housework


 You deciding what I wear

 Role Playing

 Sensory Play

 Being allowed to see you in stockings

 You using a strap-on on me

 Being allowed to use a vibrator on you

 Cooking for you

 Gardening (Beginner)



 Intellectual Discourse




 Living a 1950s lifestyle (Beginner)

 Old Guard

 Alternative Music



 New Wave

 Punk Rock Music



 Rock Music








 Corner Time

 Genital Punishment

 Hair Pulling

 Sensation Play

 Maid / Butler Service


 Speech Restrictions


 Curious About:



 Erotic Hypnosis

 Medical fetish play

 Outdoor Bondage

 Plastic Wrap Bondage

 Vacuum Stimulation

 Art Collecting






 Modern Paganism


 Public Play



 Musical Theater



 Hard Limits:

 Fire Play

 Modern Primitivism


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Journal Entries:
11/7/2017 6:34:11 AM
This  educated lean mature sensual gentleman needs a proper Lady to harness and use his energies for their satisfaction and pleasure.  Left to his own devices he wanders and is lost and self-indulgently self-touching.  Your control will be his salvation.

8/15/2017 6:53:56 AM
NEED it deep inside
NEED control
NEED to serve
ACHE to be owned
Desperate to be YOURS
Focus is YOU and  YOUR PLEASURES and Requirements

I am only here as an expression of Your Being, Your Power, Your Superiority

8/2/2017 5:09:57 AM
open for unusual uses by an unusual deserving Lady

7/31/2017 8:45:53 AM
Own me
Mark me as yours with your scent, your pee
Allow me to honor and worship and follow
Allow to serve
Enable me to be better by training me as you wish
Permit me the space to empty my mind and will and open up to Your taking control

7/23/2017 9:19:45 AM
available for the right owner
needing a controlling dominant lady

7/14/2017 6:06:06 AM
seek large lady to impose her will on slender boy

6/26/2017 8:04:43 AM
I don't like being whiney or needy
but today i can feel it in my bones
that i 'need' and ache and crave for deep ownership
for relinquishing my freedom into a structured devoted life
devoted to the Goddess
of following her Lead into deep profound submission

6/26/2017 8:04:39 AM
I don't like being whiney or needy
but today i can feel it in my bones
that i 'need' and ache and crave for deep ownership
for relinquishing my freedom into a structured devoted life
devoted to the Goddess
of following her Lead into deep profound submission

6/23/2017 1:50:02 AM
Seeking deep submission with a touch of humiliation

Seeking prolonged exposure to the exercise of a Dominant Female Will

Seeking the heat of Your passion, Your wet hunger, and Your need to control a gentle man, his tongue and his small cock

Seeking to imbibe the wonderous powers of Your hot holy nectar

Seeking the mysteriously addictive nature of Your smell and the magnetic mesmerizing moment at which Your gaze sets me trembling afire and weakened before You

Seeking the profound 

6/21/2017 7:49:31 AM
today is one of those days when i KNOW that i need ownership and need to release myself to the control of a Lady

5/27/2017 4:21:45 AM
today i am thinking about what it would be like to be owned by a 'cooperative' of ladies who are a closed, safe, clean group -- and who share me.  Perhaps they decide who among them has me serve 24/7 on a random or set basis, and likely for big chunks of time like several months at time.  It could even be multi-locational.  This would all put great pressure on me to be very very accommodating and flexible:  I would need to go where and when the Ladies informed me, even at snap moment notice; my work life would need to be adjusted and structured so that it fit in with their rules and needs.   I would need to learn more than one 'Way' and be able to immediately fall into the rules and ways of the Lady to whom I am sent.  Perhaps they have their own 'club' guidelines for my use and  my training is structured and shared among them.  To me it would be an ultimate service to Women and a true recognition that it is not only "One" who owns me, but that matriarchy is broader and deeper than singular focus - I am owned by Ladies under whom my manhood is contested and controlled and limited to use as they each see fit.

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