What is it that you truely seek????

I really would like to know......

I am not one to whine, this is fustration.... I read your profiles and your journal entries. I read how you are bombarded with crazy emails. One jounal entry from a Dom wrote: she has been on this site for only a few days and has received 3 pages of emails including a marriage proposal, men willing to relocate and so on.....

Men are willing to do this for someone they have never met????????There is something not right in their heads.

So...here I am..... granted my experiance is not expansive. But I read the profiles of  Women who I think I may have an interest in and try to write a thoughtful message, including a picture of myself. I write one message at a time, I do not blanket email messages and "play the odds" of someone responding back to me. I write to someone because I truely want  to know who they are, to see if there is something in common. BUT 99.9% messages never get returned.

Are my messages to vanilla? I know I am not that unpleasent to look at..Do I not put enough kink into my message?Or is my message just to boring?

I am beginning to think there is to much ego here. I realize the numbers of Dom Women are few and far between. They can pick and choose from an almost infinite number of sub men. BUT I don't think you do. Like a magazine you keep turning the page to see if the picture on the next page is better than the one you were just looking at. What I mean is, is there anyone really looking to meet someone for real?

I do understand what a D/s relationship is about and I believe it can be a part or more than a part of someone's lives.

For all of those Dom Women who want to take a man's money or just use them for doing free work around your home. Shame on you....for more reasons than one or care to write about. That is the pethetic side of the scene.

 So here I am, looking for someone real. If you want to know my interests I would love to discuss them.